Why do I like you so much that you can t be with me?

In that case, let's find something else and give up, the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt.

From Haruki Murakami's "Norwegian Wood".

Full sentence: I tell you that I like you, not necessarily with you, but in the hope that in the future, someone will like you when you are discouraged.

Norwegian Woods is a 1987 novel by Japanese writer Haruki Murakami.

The story follows the protagonist who is entangled between Naoko, who is emotionally unstable and mentally ill, and Midoriko Kobayashi, who is cheerful and lively, and goes on a journey of self-growth.

From Haruki Murakami's "Norwegian Wood". The original sentence is: I told you that I like you, not necessarily with you, but in the hope of renting you in the future, and someone likes you when I am discouraged.

Similar to this sentence: I will always like you, not that I will like you for ten or twenty years, but that I like you at this moment to give me the courage to say that I will always like you.

Mura is suspicious of classic quotations from Haruki's works.

1. I may be defeated, I may lose myself, I may not be able to reach it, maybe I have lost everything, no matter how I struggle, I can only cry out in vain, maybe I just pick up a handful of ashes in vain, I am the only one in the dark, maybe no one here bets on me. Doesn't matter. One thing is clear:

At least I have something to wait for, something to seek. - Strange Birds

2. If you fall into the darkness, all you can do is wait until your eyes adjust to the darkness. - Norwegian Woods

3. Don't be too entangled in the present, and don't worry too much about the future, when you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is different from the past. ——1q84》

I like you, but it's very frustrating and sad that we can't be together. It's sad that you can't be together even though you are obviously with each other, and the sad thing is that this relationship is about to end without a problem. In fact, sometimes there are many reasons why two people can't be together, family background, social concepts, and their own personalities are all reasons why two people who love each other can't be together.

Some people will listen to their parents when they fall in love, and as long as your parents are opposed, you can't be together. Actually, in this case, I think it's good that you're not together. Break up when the relationship is not very deep, and the two of them will not be too sad.

But when two people are going to talk about marriage, the other party comes to tell you that you can't be together, I think it's a bit hurtful. So when falling in love, two people should think carefully and not be blindly together. And if your relationship is not approved by your parents, it will not last long, and family entanglements and quarrels will sooner or later make your relationship full of burden and pressure, and finally fall apart.

There are also people who can't be together because of the disparity in status, and the gap in family background is also a very thorny problem. People's thoughts and behaviors are very influenced by the family environment, and if two people behave very differently, there will be many differences even when they are together. Some people will think that how can they like a person who is completely different from themselves, in fact, sometimes there is no reason to like someone, you will not know what you like about each other and why you like each other.

Other than that, I think this sentence is actually a little bit of self-confidence. When you realize that you can't give the other person happiness, or can't give him what he wants, you will take the initiative to give up this liking and let him meet a better person. Because if you like someone, you will want to give him the best life and make him the happiest person in the world.

So even if you like someone again, as long as you feel that you are not his good match, you will not choose to be with him.

This sentence is very far-fetched and very desperate. Because if you like someone, you should be with each other, and there are not so many excuses.

I think this sentence is too green tea, and that's what the scumbag girl said when she used it to stabilize the spare tire.

This sentence is the standard scumbag quote, which is generally used to reject one's spare tire.

There's a kind of friendship called 'I like you, but we can't be together'

Miss Mo and Miss Zi, they have a story.

As adults, Miss Mo and Miss Zi lost contact due to misunderstandings, miscommunication, etc.

lost contact for a long time.

Miss Zi said, I used to think that one day I was going to get married, and I wanted to invite Miss Mo and have other good friends to accompany me to get married.

There is a list in Miss Mo's mobile phone memo, a list of good sisters invited to the wedding, and Miss Zi is the first. And the list of memos was set many years ago.

Miss Zi said that I was in the screen of my mobile phone, and in the days without her company, I saw that Miss Mo had many friends, and I was very happy to see that Miss Mo was living well, and I didn't dare to disturb her.

Miss Mo said that I worked hard to update my status so that on the opposite side of the phone screen, Miss Zi would know that I was trying hard to live well. I wanted to tell her that even if I was out of company, I would be in the best shape so that one day I would suddenly meet Miss Zi on the road.

One did not dare to disturb.

A chance encounter awaits.

Gradually, the friendship between Miss Mo and Miss Zi has an ending to a love story that has been passed down through the ages, I like you very much, but we can't be together.