I m 28 years old, he s 38, he s divorced for me, what should I do?

No matter who he divorced for, now, is it time to ask yourself, did you promise him in the first place? Do you love him? How much love? If you know these questions yourself, then you know whether you should marry him or not.

What can I do, wait for the next time he is divorcing you for someone else.

Hello A relationship is always full of arguments and contradictions, and it is inevitable that people will feel exhausted and want to leave the relationship.

You say "you've been married for two years, and you're always arguing", and your "temper is rather short-tempered, and the method is not right".

Have you tried to improve these problems?

For example, learn some courses on how to get along in intimate relationships, or related books, to change the way you get along, improve your communication skills, and have a better way of getting along with your lover.

Or you can find out your own problems and improve them through psychological counseling, with the assistance of a psychological counselor.

No matter what, you haven't divorced yet.

If you can make a big change, he should perceive and get to know you again, but you have a new beginning.

Of course, how about a relationship is the result of two people being mutual, I think your other half will definitely have some bad things, but you can only change yourself, not the other party.

If you try hard and change, the other person is still unwilling to continue to be with you, or the other person is unwilling to change, and you still keep arguing.

Then it can only be "let go is a kind of love", so that each other can find happiness again.

It depends on whether you really like the other person or not, and age shouldn't be a barrier between you.

Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, sibling love in real life is not uncommon, and being divorced is no longer a compliment or disapproval in love. When you meet a divorced female suitor who is older than you, what you choose to do depends on how you feel about that woman.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing happiness, and age is never an obstacle. "Big Husband" and "Little Husband" are two TV series, I think friends who like to watch dramas should have watched them. In these two TV series, it is about two people with a large age gap, step by step towards happiness.

In real life, there are many couples around me with a large age gap. I think the age gap has never been an obstacle for two people to pursue happiness, but it requires two people to bear more family pressure, and there needs to be real love between two people.

Everyone can pursue the happiness they want, and when you meet someone who makes your heart tick, as long as there is love, happiness is possible.

You can accept it or reject it, it depends mainly on whether you like the woman or not. The age gap between you and this woman is actually not too big, she has had a marriage experience, and it is not much of a problem in real life.

She's taking the initiative to pursue you, she's taking the initiative to pursue the happiness she wants, and she's not doing anything wrong. As for what you should do, it depends on whether you have a crush on this woman.

If you also feel that you have a good enough impression of her, then the two of you can get along for a while, and happiness may come to you like this; If you don't feel that you have a good impression of this woman, and you can't accept the age gap and her previous marriage experience, then simply refuse neatly and will not cause too much harm to each other.

In real life, many people will encounter emotional problems that are difficult to choose. In this kind of matter, no one can really help you, you can only ask your own heart, whether you love or not.

Your happiness can only be decided by yourself, accept it or reject it, you have the final say.

If you don't like the other party, reject others in a timely and decisive manner, don't leave others with illusions about you, and cut off the other party's thoughts about you in time, which is responsible for you and her.

If you don't like the other party or feel that the other party's age and second marriage are not acceptable to you, reject her clearly and decisively, and don't leave her any hope. If you have a good impression of her, you can try dating her, age or anything is not a problem.

If you don't like it, you can refuse it directly, and you can't delay others because of your vague attitude, 35-year-old people can't stand the test of time.

If you like it, accept it, and if you don't like it, explain it quickly. The age difference between you is too great, and the probability of being together is very small.

It's up to you to choose. If you like her, accept it, and if you don't like it, you can reject it, it's as simple as that.

In today's society, age is not an issue at all. It's not a shame. On the contrary, I think you are very attractive.

You can get in touch with each other and get to know each other, I think. A man older than himself will love his daughter-in-law more and love you. So it can also be considered.

This is not a shame, if he divorces, you will also divorce, he has the right to chase you, age is not a problem, it depends on whether you like him or not, if you like it, you can date him for a period of time to see if it is suitable to live together. If you don't like him, make it clear to him that you should stay away from him and no longer associate with him.

This social age is not a problem at all, the first thing to consider is whether this person is really good to you, is he like people like you, not your youth and appearance, feel that shame is just your vanity, if this man is really very good, especially rich, you will not feel ashamed when you are twenty years older, you are already married for the second time, so when choosing the next relationship, you must be very cautious to find a suitable one.

If you think you can marry him, but you have to think about it, does he have children, do you have children, if you have children, the biggest problem is the problem with children, don't expect his children, you can't count on them, if you think about these problems, you can marry, but the age difference, no more than 15 years old is appropriate.

If you are divorced, he is also divorced, if you think it is appropriate, it is also good to combine a family, but it is still necessary to look at the character to make decisions, after all, it is a lifelong problem.

Divorced at the age of twenty-five without children, it is completely possible to start over, and it is everyone's right to choose happiness, and there is no need to feel ashamed ......

Or don't be with him, you don't know what the other party's personality is, maybe the other party is just playing, it's better to find a man of the same age to marry (

Age is not a problem, the main thing is to look at the person, since you have already experienced a failed marriage, then you have to choose well.

1. Just divorced, the mentality and life have definitely not recovered well, including emotional scars, so during this period, it is not recommended that you immediately invest in a new relationship.

2. If you don't like him, tell him clearly and don't leave doubts. After that, there is no contact and no meeting as much as possible.

3. After you recover, think carefully about your requirements for your life partner, and then review the suitors according to your priorities, and don't lower your standards on principle.

4. If the remarriage partner is divorced, it is recommended that you investigate the reason for his divorce, note that it is an investigation, not asking him himself or his relatives and friends, you need to objectively know why his previous marriage ended. (e.g. prostitution?)

Domestic violence? Binge drinking? gambling, etc. to reduce the risk of remarriage).

No, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, if you like him, he agrees, if you don't like it, you refuse, there is no shame or shame!

I guess he thinks you're young, think about it more.

Do you know him? Is it the kind of divorced man like the Diamond King?

Age is not a problem, big men know to cherish and tolerate.

No one chases the shame, let go of the past and focus on the future.

You chase him and see what's going on.

You love me, the year is not a problem.

Keep your eyes peeled and hopefully not get hurt again.

Why is it called shame? Where to start?

This is a fairly normal thing. It's not a shame.

The key is that there is no evidence of your relationship breakdown, which is the condition of divorce.

Divorce can be negotiated or litigated.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

1. Sue for divorce, and the judgment is based on the fact that the relationship has indeed broken down. But at the moment, I'm afraid it's going to be hard for you to succeed, because your wife obviously still has feelings for you.

2. If you sue for divorce, it takes three months to try according to the summary procedure, and six months to try according to the ordinary procedure, and the case can be concluded within this time limit under normal circumstances.

3. Talking about off-topic, although I don't know why you are so resolute, but since your wife has forgiven you, let's think about it.

I don't know what the foundation of your relationship is, why do you have to divorce, is it really to the point where you have to leave? If you have to leave for the sake of the child, try not to divorce

Did your relationship really break down? There is really no emotion, and divorce is the best option.

Forty-one flowers for men, thirty tofu scum for women! If you leave, who is afraid of whom???

Why get a divorce, find the problem.

If your wife wants to divorce, if you think about it is your reason or your wife's reason, if you have something, try to improve yourself

If you don't have feelings, why don't you leave

What is there to be nostalgic for such a woman.

Divorce is possible. Mainland residents who have registered for divorce shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) The person's marriage certificate;

3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties.

According to the Marriage Registration Regulations:

Article 10: Where a mainland resident voluntarily divorces, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority for the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to register for divorce.

Where a Chinese citizen voluntarily divorces a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident voluntarily divorces with a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the divorce registration.

Article 11 Mainland residents who go through divorce registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) The person's marriage certificate;

3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties.

In addition to the certificates and supporting materials provided for in items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph, Hong Kong residents, Macao residents, and Taiwan residents who have gone through divorce registration shall also present their own valid passes and identity cards, and overseas Chinese and foreigners shall also present their own valid passports or other valid international travel documents.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition.

It can be said that the other party wants to divorce.

It's not something you can't do.

You can fight for your rights.

But if the other party insists on divorcing, you can't do anything.

She is determined to divorce if she wants to divorce.

Divorce is possible.

According to the "Several Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on How the People's Court Determines that the Relationship between the Husband and Wife Has Truly Broken Down in the Trial of Divorce Cases".

When a people's court hears a divorce case, whether or not a divorce is granted or not, the distinction shall be based on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down. To determine whether the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down, a comprehensive analysis shall be made from aspects such as the basis of marriage, postmarital feelings, reasons for divorce, the current state of the relationship between husband and wife, and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation. According to the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law and the practical experience of adjudication, in any of the following circumstances, it shall be deemed that the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down.

If one party insists on requesting a divorce, and mediation fails, a judgment may grant the divorce in accordance with the law.

1. One party suffers from a disease that is legally prohibited from marriage, or one party has a physical defect or other reasons that prevent sexual intercourse, and it is difficult to **.

2. Lack of understanding before marriage, hasty marriage, and lack of marital relationship after marriage, making it difficult to live together.

3. Concealing mental illness before marriage and not being cured after marriage, or marrying the other party knowing that the other party is mentally ill before marriage, or one of the spouses suffering from mental illness during the period of living together and not being cured for a long time.

4. One party deceives the other party, or falsifies the marriage certificate during marriage registration.

5. After the marriage is registered, the parties do not live together, and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

6 Arranged or bought or sold marriages, where one party files for divorce immediately after the marriage, or where they have lived together for many years but have not established a relationship between husband and wife.

7. Where three years have elapsed since separation due to emotional discord and there is no possibility of reconciliation, or where divorce has been granted by a people's court and divorce has been granted for another year, and each other has not fulfilled their obligations as husband and wife.

8 Where one party commits adultery or illegally cohabits with another person, and there is no sign of repentance after education, and the party who is not at fault sues for divorce, or the party at fault sues for divorce, and the other party does not agree to the divorce, and after criticism, education, punishment, or after the people's court has ruled that the divorce is not allowed, the party at fault sues for divorce, and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

9 Where one party has bigamy and the other party files for divorce.

10 One party has a habit of indulgence, gambling, etc., does not fulfill family obligations, and refuses to change his or her teachings, making it difficult for the husband and wife to live together.

11. One party has been sentenced to a long-term prison sentence in accordance with the law, or has violated the law or committed a crime that seriously hurts the feelings of the husband and wife.

12 Where one party's whereabouts have been unknown for two years, and the other party sues for divorce, but no whereabouts are found through public announcement.

13 Those who have been abused or abandoned by the other party, or who have been abused by the other party's relatives, or who have abused the other party's relatives, and who have not changed their ways after education, and the other party has not forgiven.

14 The relationship between husband and wife has broken down due to other reasons.