Don t think about giving, don t forget where you come from? 10

This sentence is from Cui Ying's "Motto", and the full text is as follows:

There is no way to say that people are short, and there is no way to say that they are long. Be careful not to read what you give, and don't forget to be careful when you receive it. The reputation of the world is not enough to admire, and benevolence is the outline of oneself.

Hide your heart and then move, what is the harm in slandering mediocrity? There is no name to be overdone, and the holy place of foolishness is hidden. In Nirvana, there is no light.

The weak and the weak, the old commandment is strong. The planet is despicable, and it is difficult to measure. Be cautious and eat modestly, and contentment is better than ominous.

The line is constant, and it is fragrant for a long time.

Cui Ying's "Motto".

There is no way to say that people are short, and there is no way to say that they are long. Be careful not to read what you give, and don't forget to be careful when you receive it. The reputation of the world is not enough to admire, and benevolence is the outline of oneself.

Hide your heart and then move, what is the harm in slandering mediocrity? There is no name to be overdone, and the holy place of foolishness is hidden. In Nirvana, there is no light.

The weak and the weak, the old commandment is strong. The planet is despicable, and it is difficult to measure. Be cautious and eat modestly, and contentment is better than ominous.

The line is constant, and it is fragrant for a long time.

Don't talk about other people's shortcomings, don't boast about your strengths. Don't think twice about giving kindness to others, and don't forget to accept favors from others. The praise of the world is not to be envied, as long as charity is the code of conduct.

Judge whether your own heart is in harmony with benevolence before acting, and what harm does the slander and remarks of others do to you? Don't let your fame go beyond what you really are, and keeping to it is appreciated by the saints. The quality of whiteness, which does not change the color even when exposed to black, is precious.

The surface is dull, but the inner thing contains light. Lao Tzu once warned: Weakness is a manifestation of vitality, and strength is close to death.

A mediocre man has a strong will, and as time goes by, his woe is even greater. A gentleman should be cautious, eat sparingly, and be content without disgrace, so that he can remove the ominous. If you practice it for a long time, it will be fragrant over time.

From the Book of Changes

The eight laws are deceitful, not angry, insulted, immovable, inspecting people's faults, not promoting him, giving favors to others, not remembering them, from **?

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From the Eight Laws of the Book of Changes.

Perceive the deceit of others, and do not be angry with words: Detect the cunning of others, and do not be angry with words.

Insulted by others, immovable: insulted by others, the face does not change.

Observe the faults of others, and do not praise them: observe the mistakes of others, and do not publicize them to others.

Don't take the favor of others to heart: Give favors to others, be kind and don't remember it.

The original text of the Eight Laws of the Book of Changes:

1. Feel the deception of others, and do not be angry;

2. Insulted by others, not moved by color;

3. Observe the faults of others, and do not praise them;

4. Don't take the favor of giving to others in mind;

5. Receive the grace of others and keep it in mind;

6. Fish by people, and learn from the cherry blossoms and fishing;

7. Recognize people's talents and give them rights;

8. Be good at seeking people, and be tolerant.

Extended Materials. The Book of Changes refers to "Lianshan" and "Returning to Tibet".

Zhou Yi is three easy books. Among them, "Lianshan" and "Returning to Tibet" have been lost, and only one copy of "Zhou Yi" has been handed down. The current "Book of Changes" is generally called "Zhou Yi".

The Book of Changes covers all things, outlines and disciplines, and is an outstanding representative of traditional Chinese culture; Vast and subtle, all-encompassing, it is also the source of Chinese civilization. Its content involves philosophy, politics, life, literature, art, science and many other fields, and is the first of the group classics, Confucianism.

A common Taoist classic.

Be cautious when giving to others, and repay what you receive.

Reading this sentence, I was deeply moved.

It means that you have to thank others for helping you; When you give favors to others, don't talk about them.

This is done very well, it is the baby father.

I still remember that when we first started working, we took a colleague's car to Hexi, and my colleague said: Go this way, it's still much faster!

At that time, I even said in a brain-dead way: take the bus, that's about the same, it will be a little later. Of course, I also expressed my gratitude.

But when I got out of the car, he immediately told me: Take a friend's car, that is a friend is helping us, providing us with convenience, people say this, you still don't appreciate it, pay attention to what you say. Then, tell me that I should have said thank you in words at that time, not in words about what was useless.

Later, when I receive help or gifts from friends, the next time I meet them, I will take the initiative to mention that this thing is so beautiful, so easy to use, or thanks to your help, etc.

As for being cautious about giving to others, I have also made such a small mistake, and then I slowly realized that such a faux pas, remember not to do it again.

Putting words to the heart is really an art.

In the past two days, I have read Liu Yong's "Words to the Heart" and felt very deeply, and I deeply thought that the ancients said that "don't think about kindness, don't forget when you receive grace" is really an empirical talk and is very reasonable.

As for the dialogue between people, if it is changed to "Be careful not to speak, and repay the giving." "It should be more reflective of being able to speak, be able to speak in the heart, implement it in life, and be more moving.

Everyone has such a mentality, that is, they are unwilling to accept the affection of others, because the money owed can be repaid, and the money has a certain amount, and it can be paid off; And the debt is too abstract, and I don't know how to pay it back.

Therefore, if you want to speak to other people's hearts, the most important thing is to have affection and understand people's psychology. If you are a person who pays love, then you can only do it but not say it, you have to let the other party feel it yourself, as long as you say it, it is no longer pure love.

On the other hand, if you are the person who accepts the congratulations, you must remember to say the gratitude in your heart while accepting, because if you can muster up the courage to say it, it is already a good reward for the only rolling party, and the language of your gratitude will definitely be able to get more love from the other party, and you will definitely make the other party feel your own heart and be satisfied, and the relationship between the two sides will reach a new height.

When you speak to the other person's heart, you must first think about the other person's heart with your own heart. When others do something that is beneficial to you, even if it is a small thing, you must keep it in mind and take the initiative to say it, so that the other party will feel your sincerity, have a sense of satisfaction in your heart, and will not say more!

When you do something beneficial to the other person, and others express their gratitude to you, you should respond lightly, instead of flaunting yourself, and the other person will feel your sincerity!

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, from the Analects. A famous quote from the ancient Chinese thinker and educator Confucius. Meaning: What you don't want, don't inflict on others.

Desire: what you want to do; Don't: Don't; Shi: Apply. I don't want others to treat me with my words and actions, and I don't want to treat others with that kind of words and actions. Yu: preposition.

The meaning of imposing a given. The whole sentence is "don't impose on others what you don't like".