How should I choose this thing?

There was a lot of talk upstairs, and it could be seen that there were elders, younger sisters, and brothers. I looked at the landlord's distress, to be honest, I smiled shallowly, in fact, the landlord just hopes that someone here can understand his attachment to love (or the love in his heart, in fact, that no longer exists!). Don't disbelieve it), you can echo the kind of beauty in your heart.

But look at the reality and you're happy. Because of the current girlfriend. Your family is happy, also because of your current girlfriend.

If I'm not mistaken, the landlord should be about 25 years old, and as a man, I think you should want to be a little successful before the age of 30, right?! So that means that you should be on the road to "achievement" when you are 28 years old, so it will be three years later,、。 How much time do you think you have to waste for the unknown in the future?

Remember, if a man wants to live a good and successful life in this life, then he must have a wife who is good to you and your family! Otherwise you will find yourself living in chaos every day.

For your first love, I believe that she should have experienced a lot of her own experiences, and the period with you has long been in the past, maybe you still have the memory of the past, causing you to mistakenly think that you still love her. If you choose to be with her, you will start all over again, and the tiredness of life will make you tired. Take a step back and say, if she loves you too, but you will do the pain of love again.

So, please treat your current girlfriend well. At the same time, please keep your first love feeling in your heart. Don't go for it.

It's a fond memory for you. Don't talk about it to your current girlfriend. Please also try not to fall in love with your previous girlfriend too much, it may be because you and your current girlfriend have entered a quiet period together, so you will have such thoughts and understand you.

What are you being your girlfriend, are you going to find a girlfriend for your family???

I hate people like you the most, you have the ability to step on two boats.

In fact, from your above paragraph, it seems that you still care about your current girlfriend very much, and you don't want to lose her, since the two of you will be happy together, then what are you hesitating about, feelings will become family after a long time, why don't you choose a life that can make you happy? And the family agrees.

Do men have to have some sense of responsibility, you say? If you pursue your own happiness, won't your current girlfriend be hurt? Isn't that selfish, child, and you don't know what the outcome will be.

Since you have chosen a distant place, you have to go through thick and thin. Even though I hate the way you thought when you first started in college, I would like to advise you to cherish what you have now in order not to have another tragedy. Don't look at what's in the bowl and think about what's in the pot.

Otherwise, maybe in the future you will regret the decisions you make now, and your life will be slowly spent in regret again and again, so think about it carefully, what do you really want?

Some words may not sound very good, forgive me, just to give you a suggestion.

Character first, there is no best, only the right one for you. But to judge whose character and suitability you like more, you will only know when things happen, so get along more, and you will find the right one for you in the experience of big and small things.

It's good to develop according to your own heart, don't think about it, do your own thing, don't care so much about other people's eyes.