A happy marriage also has its own sadness behind it, is it difficult to run a good family?

Marriage is not the same as being in love. Marriage is faced with firewood, rice, oil, salt, food, clothing, housing and transportation; And love is often accompanied by eating, drinking, and having fun, and spending before the moon. Therefore, marriage is a responsibility, but also a kind of responsibility, and marriage needs both parties to manage and water with heart, so that it will be more stable and solid.

How to operate, how to water? This is a problem that both husband and wife need to take seriously, think carefully and act in real life.

First of all, both husband and wife must recognize that the management of marriage is a common problem or a responsibility that should be shared by two people. This requires both sides to be soberly aware of the four words "joint management" when dealing with some small contradictions and problems in family life, which means that both parties are responsible, and should not just blame and complain about one side, blaming each other for being responsible or the other party's badness. This is very important, because it is a matter of attitude, and a good and correct attitude is the basis for whether a thing can be properly solved.

Secondly, both husband and wife must respect each other. This is not only a matter of people's quality, but also a kind of virtue and noble sentiment, and it is also a lubricant in interpersonal communication, making the communication between people closer and more friendly. Whether it is relatives and friends, classmates and colleagues, or husband and wife, the most important way to get along is to respect each other.

Otherwise, if you don't respect others, why should others respect you?

Third, both husband and wife must understand that in life, sometimes they need to compromise and retreat. Blindly competitive, the result is often a lose-lose situation, and the jade is burned. It's like two cars driving at a relatively high speed on a narrow road, neither of them wants to slow down, neither of them wants to let the other, and the final result can only be a head-on collision.

The story of two little sheep crossing a single-plank bridge met head-on, but no one would let anyone, and in the end it could only end in tragedy when they both fell into the river. We learned this story in the second and third grades of primary school, and the story is very simple, but the truth reflected is very profound.

Fourth, there are times when husband and wife must jump out of themselves, understand and tolerate each other, always swap roles, and think from each other's point of view. In this way, when facing contradictions and conflicts between each other, they can be more rational and less impulsive; More harmony and tranquility, happiness and joy, less quarrels and sorrows!

Fifth, both husband and wife should also have a grateful heart. Because in this world, there is nothing that you think you should and take for granted, including the other party's kindness to you. The folk saying that two good for one good is exactly what they say.

If others are good to you, you must know how to be grateful, and you can't feel that it should be taken for granted, so it is a big mistake. Getting along with husband and wife is an art that requires the creation of both parties.

It must be very difficult for us to run a good family, after all, everyone in the family has different personalities, and if we want to achieve a certain state of harmony, we need to tolerate and understand each other, and we must give up a lot of personal personalities.

It's not difficult at all. As long as we treat each other attentively when running a family, and don't deceive each other to give each other privacy, we can have a happy family.

It is very difficult, because this is a lot of people running in with each other, and you must know how to respect and understand each other, and you can't vent your wayward little temper.

It is very difficult to run a family well, because the family is not just run by you, but by all the members of the family.

It is a particularly difficult thing, and in a marriage, both parties should work together to be able to run a family well.

It's hard to run a good family. Especially as a housewife, I go around the family every day, and I don't have the leisure time to go out, many people will think that housewives are very simple, but they don't know how much sadness there is behind them.

Hello, in marriage, when there is a conflict, you should know how to tolerate each other, tolerate each other, endure it, and be angry for a while to avoid a hundred days of worries, if there is a conflict, it is easy to quarrel and conflict. The relationship between husband and wife, if one party can tolerate it, the relationship between the two people will be more harmonious. Because husband and wife are together, they must know how to empathize with each other, and they must understand that each other is sometimes angry, because if they endure it, it will not happen, and conflicts will get along better between husband and wife.

The meaning of the theme is also very suitable for the relationship between husband and wife, not that you have to endure all the time, but you can take the initiative to communicate with each other in the process of forbearance, because husband and wife will often have some conflicts together, but you must know how to stop communication, so that the other party can understand, and there will be no quarrels.

Only by constantly changing themselves, accepting each other, and tolerating each other's shortcomings, will two people be more tacit together. The relationship between husband and wife will be better. 1. "Marriage is long-suffering."

Marital happiness does not lie in not being noisy or noisy, without contradictions and conflicts in real life, but in how to deal with noise, contradictions, and conflicts. Home is not a place to be reasonable, and emotions are not logical, so how much you can endure can feel how deep happiness you can feel. The bumps and conflicts in marriage still need to be endured.

In a marriage relationship, patience is not impotence, on the contrary, patience is something that can only be achieved by the strong.

2. "Marriage is a firm identity".

A happy marriage, in addition to strong endurance, also needs to be firmly identified at this time. This is for the relatively weak person in the marriage relationship, this weakness is not necessarily the one who earns less money, but is likely to be the one who is good at being aware of his own shortcomings. That is to say, in a marriage relationship, there must be at least one thing that the other party recognizes and identifies, which can be career success, earning ability, being able to speak, being caring and considerate, and being able to impress each other anyway.

Fourth, understanding. If you can re-express what the other party said in the interaction, and get the other party's approval, try to do it, you will find that it is really different from the past.

5. Respect. Husband and wife should know how to respect each other, because everyone is an independent individual, has their own ideas, and can not always be a strong person, even if the other party is tolerant, there is a limit, only know how to communicate, understand, and rely on two people to maintain the marriage in the family, the family will be harmonious and happy.

How to manage a marriage and live a happier life? For adults, feelings are an indispensable part of life, everyone expects happiness, but in the process of running a marriage, they will always encounter such a problem, we may blindly ask for it because of the lack of love in our hearts, or because we can't express it, and express love in the wrong way, or because we are too sensitive and ignore how much the other party has paid for themselves, what we can do is to continue to run in, so that each other is more suitable for each other, so that the relationship becomes better and better in the process of moving forward.

If you want to become more marital satisfaction and happiness, you can spend as much time with your partner as possible, such as scheduling a fixed time each week to go on a date with him. If you really can't put that much time and energy into it, you can also communicate openly and honestly and try to meet each other's spiritual needs. A person's personality traits are usually relatively fixed, don't expect you to change from each other; Love is often uncontrollable, and in this era of self-actualization, self-management is very important whether we can achieve a happy life marriage.

A good marriage is an opportunity for us to rediscover ourselves and realize that we have problems of one kind or another and that it is not as easy to get along with as we think. A good couple can face up to and communicate each other's shortcomings, take their own shortcomings seriously, learn to treat each other selflessly, don't compare your partner with others, everyone is unique, make it clear that marrying him is not to satisfy your vanity, and when you have a request, he can accompany you. He is someone with whom you can live and spend your whole life.

Another very important factor is the acceptance of his family and upbringing. This does not mean that we have to give in to the demands of him and his family, but when his family has an opinion or problem, we can face it together and find a solution. From acquaintance and love to living together, two people can only continue to support each other and grow together, spend their lives together, and grow old together.

No one is born happily married, but we need to be emotionally through continuous learning, we can achieve each other's successful marriage, which is the happy marriage we should have.

Two people should respect each other, should tolerate each other, don't quarrel because of some small things, guess and match, must know how to empathize, should stand in each other's perspective to think about problems, and Zhongzen should face problems together, so that the marriage can be happier.

You should use the right way to manage your feelings, you should often interact with each other, you should often chat with each other through Huai Luzhao, and you should also prepare some surprises for the lead tenant to record the anniversary between the two people.

We must learn to tolerate each other and be considerate of each other, only in this way can the relationship between two people go longer.

Communication: Establishing good communication is the key to marriage. Maintain open, honest and respectful communication with your partner.

Listen to the other person's point of view, express your needs and feelings, and try to avoid accusations and offensive words. Learn conflict resolution skills such as listening, compromising, and finding common solutions.

Building Trust: Trust is the cornerstone of marriage. Try to walk the talk, keep your promises, and share your thoughts and feelings with your partner. Build an environment of mutual support and understanding to enhance trust.

Respect and understanding: Respecting and understanding the other person's needs, feelings, and perspectives is key to building a good relationship. Make an effort to appreciate and accept each other's personalities and differences, and avoid criticism and accusations. Show concern and support by listening and greeting each other.

Common goals and interests: Finding common interests and goals can enhance connection and interaction as a couple. Setting and pursuing common goals together and engaging in common interests and hobbies can help strengthen intimacy as a couple.

Time and attention: Giving your partner enough time and attention is an important aspect of maintaining a marriage. Make an effort to balance work, family, and personal life by creating shared time, such as having dinner together, traveling, or attending activities together.

Accept change and growth: People change and grow, including you and your partner. Learn to accept and adapt to these changes and support each other's growth and personal development.

Seek professional help: If you are experiencing difficulties or challenges in your marriage, do not hesitate to seek professional help. A marriage counselor or psychologist can provide guidance and support to help you solve problems and improve your relationship.

Remember, every marriage is unique and there is no set recipe for success. It's all about your and your partner's effort, commitment, and cooperation. Build an open, supportive, and loving environment to pursue a happy marriage together.

A good marriage: Accept each other's shortcomings and appreciate each other's strengths. In this world, the hardest thing is to change a person. As the saying goes: the country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change.

Many of us make the same mistake in marriage: always confident that we will change the other person and that the other half will change for our own sake.

**。When Luo Xiaobei and He Chunsheng first got married in the TV series "Mendi", they both confidently believed that they could change each other, but they ignored the difference in growth environment and education level, and the two people had different views on many issues. He Chunsheng didn't understand the difference between instant coffee and the coffee shop, and what was the difference between the orange juice he bought and the freshly squeezed orange juice.

Every time Luo Xiaobei paid his salary, he would give Chunsheng a lot of money for daily expenses. She always thought that as long as she had enough money, Chunsheng would change her habit of slamming the door. But he didn't bury Xun and knew that the inferiority complex and dignity in Chunsheng's bones could not be changed.

The two of them later went through many twists and turns, and Luo Xiaobei finally realized such a truth: After going through many things, I now understand that the main obstacle between me and Chunsheng is not you and Ma Xiaolong, but the deep-rooted concept of absoluteness. Not only us, but everyone around us knows it.

This notion has cast a shadow over our marriage of unhappiness, and what we have done over the years has been more of a struggle than a breakthrough. Because we are subconsciously, we have a premonition of the unhappiness of marriage. That's why there is an episode between you and Bruce Ma.

And we re-attribute this episode to the concept of the door, and then the mind goes astray. It is true that Chunsheng and I have many differences, we have different growth environments, different educations, different social status, different economic income, and consumption concepts, and there are great differences, but these differences can be run in, and the way to run in is not to blindly tolerate and accommodate, but to learn to appreciate each other, appreciate each other's character, and then get closer to each other. My biggest regret is:

By the time I really learned to appreciate the spring students, it was already too late.

**。Marital boredom begins with discovering each other's true appearance, and when two people become estranged in marriage, it starts with changing each other.

I once chatted with my eldest sister, who was a teenager earlier, and she told me that when she was in love, her husband was obedient to her. It's just that after a long time of marriage, I'm starting to become a little impatient.

will be a little critical of each other. Every time I am at home on weekends, I feel inexplicably annoyed when I see him playing games. In my mind, I always thought that playing games was not a proper job.

How could he do that? There was a time when there would often be a quarrel over this. But it still can't solve the essential problem.

No matter how hard I tried to persuade him, it was to no avail. Later, I also looked down on it, so he can play if he wants to! I tried to change my mindset.

I found that everything became clearer, and we stopped arguing. So it's hard to change a person. But it can affect one person.

In a marital relationship: learn to accept each other's shortcomings and appreciate each other's strengths. Love is not about finding a perfect person. But.

Learn to appreciate the imperfect person with a perfect eye.