What should I do if my parents fight and divorce?

First of all, you have to find out why your parents divorced.

Then prescribe the right medicine, verbal persuasion, and see if you can solve the problem.

If not, there are two tricks. One is to try it to the death (don't play really, just scare them). Another is to run away from home (don't really go, you can choose relatives and friends' houses and let them keep it secret for a while).

If you really can't, you just have to go with the flow.

In addition, if your parents are always arguing, if the relationship has broken down long ago, in that case, it is better not to stop it, sometimes parents choose to be together because of the child, then your parents will be more painful.

In addition: I grew up in a single-parent family, I can understand your troubles, if you are in a bad mood, you can talk to me, I am willing to be your friend.

Finally: I wish your parents to be reconciled, and your family to be reunited, happy, and happy.

First of all, we have to understand what happened, if we find that our parents are divorced, in fact, it is not because of a big deal, then what is the matter, we can help solve it, and relatives and friends to persuade together, a person's power is limited, if they are not able to persuade their parents to dispel the idea of divorce, then let relatives and friends persuade together, come up with everyone's point of view, maybe it will make the parents' minds change, if the relationship between two people has broken down, then respect the choice of parents, Otherwise, two people who continue to be together just torture each other, and both of them will be miserable.

When I was young, my parents divorced, but because I was still very young, I was reluctant to leave, and I didn't leave. There was a time this year when I quarreled every day, and I felt that the two of them really couldn't get through the kind of quarrel, and I didn't even think they should torture each other like this, but now they have a good relationship, at least they have the same opinion when they dislike me, so you don't need to worry about adult affairs, they can solve it themselves, if you really can't get by, it's useless for you to persuade them, live well, let them rest assured.

First of all, from their point of view, if there are many quarrels, and they often talk about divorce, no matter how many years they have been married, it can only be said that they can't get along, and most parents will continue to live because of their children, of course, it is not excluded that they will continue to live happily. Secondly, I am a child, and now I also understand a little bit of love and marriage, I will be sad that my parents divorced, but I don't think I will directly stop them from divorcing, it depends on the situation, if they really can't live, I won't let them continue to endure because of my reasons, I believe that no one in this world can not live without anyone, it's just that your timidity and concerns block your true thoughts.

If there is no joy at home every day, why should we be together, so that everyone is very depressed, sad, and all the pain is better than to go to the pain, it is not necessarily a bad thing to calm down separately, maybe after a long time apart, they will think of each other's good, and it is easy to find the right one at this age, they may slowly recall the days they walked together, maybe it is not impossible to get back together, it is useless for the children to block it, and their own life is in their own hands, not to mention the fact that they all have people with life experience.

In fact, when it comes to divorce, it is a last resort, even if it is reluctant to end up with unhappy life, without a good attitude, it is natural to do anything, and the essence of marriage and the meaning of why you want to get married have been lost. So there is really no way to save the way to stay, and I support leaving. But as a child, if you are small, it is a harm to the child, even if you do a play in front of people, you have to give the child a good impression, parents say that the child is a role model on the road to growth, a teacher, the child will understand the parents when he grows up, no matter what, you are born and raised you, you should do your duty, take care of them, and care about them.

You can first try to persuade parents to reconcile, as children are the mediator between parents, objectively analyze the reasons for their quarrels, enlighten them, and help them untie their knots. If you can't influence your parents' decisions, then you have to think about your own way out. ‍‍

When I was a sophomore, although my parents said that they were not divorced, they were not very good, they quarreled as soon as they met, they couldn't speak, and they scolded when they said a few words. I'm embarrassed every time I want living expenses, I think my mother is good and my father is good, alas, it's almost divorced, and there is no difference. I've always been in the middle, it's embarrassing, and it's not a good taste, but fortunately, I don't have to ask them for money when I'm about to intern, and I think I can ask them to negotiate with you in this situation, give you living expenses, and then provide for you to finish college and support yourself, in fact, it's just barely getting by, tormenting each other.

If I didn't get married, I felt that I couldn't stand the separation of my parents, and now that I'm married, I can see it, and my father and mother have quarreled all my life and haven't said soft words, and now my mother is old and thinks about the grievances and regrets in this life, I think it's a good choice to be young and can't say that I can't leave.

My mother and father have always had a bad relationship, my father dislikes my mother from the bottom of my heart for being uneducated, looks down on my mother, I have lived in their war since I was a child, and they will not care about the feelings of their children, and they will quarrel if they want to, resulting in my current personality is not gregarious, not cheerful, in other words, withdrawn, not like to talk, my mother will say to me every time I quarrel, if I didn't leave this home early, it was because I was pitiful to stay, every time I heard this, I felt like a sinner, It's because of their own existence that delays their lives, when I grow up, every time I see them quarreling, I will say directly, please divorce, I feel uncomfortable if you are not happy, but they have come over for most of their lives, because they are also used to each other's existence and inseparable from each other, so they quarrel with me and hide away, if they really want to divorce, I will definitely not stop it.

Your parents are fighting and getting divorced, you should stop them from getting divorced to stop them from quarreling, and don't let their quarrels affect your heart and your character.

Mom and Dad are almost 50 people, and the relationship has always been tepid, Dad's temper is not very good, and Mom's health is not very good. I'm in my twenties, and when I came home from vacation this year, I found that my dad was always suspicious, and he thought my mom was always chatting with people. My mom sells stuff online, and then my dad doesn't think my mom is talking to other men behind his back and I'm drunk.

I've been back for a month, and I'm with my mom every day, and my mom is nothing more than talking to a few girlfriends, and then selling things, and I still know who my mom is. My dad is very suspicious, and I can't stand that. After talking to my dad once, my dad claimed that his heart was dead.

It doesn't make sense. Say a few words and yell at me. I just want to know what I should do now, in fact, my mother is not much happy with him A bunch of, and he blames my mother for everything.

But the two of them also saw it when they were good before. ‍‍

Parents quarrel and divorce first to distinguish whether the marital status of both parties is irreconcilable, if so, it is necessary to respect the parents' hospital; If it is not an irreconcilable conflict, the child can play a role in alleviating it.

Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The marriage relationship is dissolved when the divorce registration is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

Legal analysis: If there is still affection between the parents, maintain a certain degree of neutrality, and can persuade and not dissuade them. If the relationship between the parents has broken down and can only accept the fact of divorce, you can consider which parent is better to live with, and if you are over eight years old, you can choose which one to live with.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

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Mom and Dad got into a fight and got divorced, what should I do?

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Hello, according to your description, if you are already sensible, and you have the ability to communicate and express, you can express to your parents your desire to reconcile them, and figure out the key to the problem, and remind both parties appropriately. Be moved by emotion and reason, and don't intervene too much. Otherwise, it will only exacerbate the contradictions.

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