My girlfriend is going out to study, should I wait or not?

Time is a terrible thing, it can wear everything down. Love is not something you wish to do, you went to wait, but is that person really worth your wait? You can see from your words that you love her more than she loves you.

The more you care, the more you hurt. I also once loved someone, but he had to go abroad and come back in 5 years. I said I'd wait, even though I'll be a 30-year-old woman in 5 years.

But he didn't want to, saying that love can wait, but marriage can't wait for so many years. I think it makes sense, although we love each other, but we let go calmly. You are also a more idealistic person, but real life is something that must be faced, and getting married at the right time and having children is a natural thing.

I advise you to let go and give love a way out. Everyone has their own trajectory in life, and there is no need to force everything. To get married is to find someone with whom you can live a peaceful life.

Let it go and wish you happiness in the future!

I think there are two main aspects: 1. Your girlfriend is a high-minded and arrogant person, and she is not willing to stay in this small city for the rest of her life. But she doesn't want to hurt you, so she waits for her 2, and she's testing your heart for him.

Ask yourself if your girlfriend is really right for you and if you really love her. You know: "Giving is not equal to returning".

Although I don't like men who have two boats on one foot, I would suggest that you should prepare for both: while keeping in a relationship with her, it is better to make new friends and see who is the best person for you.

Do you feel like you'll love her for the rest of your life? Are you sure she'll come back, she can't make up her mind on her own. I don't think she's going to come back to you if she's mixed up, and on the other hand, you haven't fallen in love with that ......Degree Sometimes liking someone is also temporary, although 2 years is not a long time, but your family, your age does not allow any more delay, and when it comes to getting married, it will take a year to wait for her, which is about the same as waiting for her, but who can do it in the future, if she really doesn't come back.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, you have to be cautious, think clearly, it's best to think about your parents, listen to their opinions, after all, they are from the past, in short, what others say can only be referred to, and in the end, it depends on your own decision.

Hope you're happy!!

As long as you think she's worth it, don't care too much about what others say, go your own way and let others say it. Be brave. Trust your feelings.

You've been in contact with her for half a year.

Like her? Love her?

Love waits, and if you're not sure if she's going to marry you, don't wait.

Check this out and you'll find out

Love her and wait for her.

If you don't love it, don't wait!

Is it a long time? It's not going abroad, so why bother?

If your girlfriend has plans to stay in Beijing after further study, the two of you can discuss it together to see if you also need to go to Beijing to start your own struggle, so that the two of you can continue to be together.

If your girlfriend comes back after her studies, you just have to wait for her.

A short-term separation is nothing, and if there is nothing wrong with the relationship between the two of you, it can be overcome.

But if the separation time is long, you need to communicate and discuss it well, and the impact of long-term separation on the relationship does exist, depending on the strength of your relationship and your respective psychological capacity.

Leave her to me! I grew up in Beijing, 19 years old! As the saying goes: female juniors, hug gold bricks! Hahaha!