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Observe what he likes and pick a topic that interests him to start talking. However, many boys are not good at conversation, and often there is no topic for you to say a word or two. And he will feel that it is not worth wasting too much time on conversation.
So it also depends on the character. You can start with a few words to get into the habit of chatting. My guy often listens to me, and then just looks at me, and the evaluation is to say I'm stupid.
You just tell him what you think, some men don't like to pour out their emotions, only happy things will be shared.
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You must not have been together for a long time, you have to find something to do, there are common things, there are common topics, about delicious food, **, movies, games, sports, anything can be talked about.
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When it comes to the topic, there doesn't seem to be anything in common! I like painting and fashion and the like, he likes games, but when they're really together, they can always say something**, TV movies, no matter what, some of the little things that happen around you every day can always be said, right?
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Yes, it doesn't always mean to say something, it's good to tease your mouth, it's nonsense.
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Absolutely. But there is also a time when there is nothing to say.
If you don't have anything to say, just think about the happy time you had together.
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Just be open, be practical, and treat your partner as the person you confide in, and as your family, and that's it!
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Then go outside, play ball, and go for a walk.
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It is important for couples to have common topics, which directly determines whether your relationship will go well in the future. But this is not all there is to the couple's feelings, and it can also be said that it is not important.
A common topic is a shortcut to getting the other person talking. It is a key that allows you to open a small door in another person's heart. Whether it's windy or rainy or an economic crisis, you can find it and turn it on.
Having common topics and interests is a matter of life. We need to communicate every day and achieve spiritual resonance through communication. Good empathy fosters mutual understanding and emotional development.
There are a lot of interesting things. If you don't have a common hobby, you can try to do something new and feel new things together. There's always one that will be you.
So don't always be in front of the other side, or always ask the other person to do something you like and that he hates, it's not good for both parties.
In fact, it's pretty good that couples can make up for each other. There is a saying that is good, you can't understand it, but you have to respect it. If the interests are the same, it seems difficult to attract each other.
Don't laugh at each other's hobbies and respect each other's hobbies. After a long period of time, the other person may slowly fall in love with their hobby.
You have common preferences and topics. When you get along, if both people have completely different hobbies, then the two people will often engage in activities that interest them, so that the two people will have less time and less topics to talk about. Therefore, you can try to participate in as many activities as possible, travel pure limbs, watch movies, etc., which will not only increase your enjoyment of life, but also strengthen your common topic.
Whether you are busy or not, you should keep a certain amount of time to communicate with each other, so that both parties can understand each other's needs and ideas, and at the same time think about the problem from a different perspective. In this way, when there is a problem, it can be communicated in a timely manner, and the relationship between the blind party will be more harmonious.
As long as you are willing to listen, he will try to respond to you, even if your level of knowledge, interest level, etc., will make our common relationship always exist while we pursue common things and retain differences. But there is no common topic, and they are not willing to respect each other. It's hard to say.
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Glad to come to your question.
For the point of view that couples have common topics, I understand that it is of course very important, because this is a consensus, the basis of feelings, and the guarantee of love.
The more together we are, the happier we are.
At this time, the feeling of the two of them is that even if they sit together, they will feel happy when they look at each other, laugh together, travel together, and say everything, which is really beautiful, and the limbs are even sweeter.
Appreciate and praise each other.
As for a true couple, they will appreciate and support each other in the emotional world, and then they will maintain and develop this beautiful relationship in continuous understanding and tolerance.
You can't be a couple without a common topic.
I think that if a couple doesn't even have the most basic topic in common, then what can they talk about together? The two of them sat stupidly and stared at each other, and there was no emotion, let alone romance, and I felt that in a few minutes, the two of them would break up unhappily.
A good couple is one who has a common topic.
And I will insist on my own ideas, I always feel that couples who have no common topic are not real couples, as if they are partnering with each other, although they are under the type and one roof, each has their own ideas, even if the body has contact, but the soul will not, because they have no tacit understanding and resonance, but like friends, there is no sincerity and true feelings.
I think that couples who have a common topic, no matter what they are doing, their thoughts can reach unity, all aspects of life will be in lockstep, their hearts can think together, and they can go out together, especially when talking about marriage, both parties can unify their thoughts, and many things in marriage can be solved and handled very well.
Use your smart brain to observe each other.
If you really want to be a long-term lover, I think you can try to see more things that the other person is interested in, and use your own intelligent eyes and brains to experience the process of your relationship.
Couples with common topics are easy to run in and get along.
I am most fortunate that there are couples who have a common topic, from them you can see the common point of view, the same language, although the relationship needs to be run-in, but they can complement each other, their state together makes people feel comfortable at a glance, and they themselves can feel simple and warm.
Because the goal is different, it will be the opposite direction.
Therefore, if couples do not have a common language, it can prove that their three views are different, their goals are different, and their directions will be opposite, so how can such a situation go further and further on the journey of life? How can the emotional world be stable, and the family and marriage will be even less secure.
I always understand that if there is no common topic, you can't become husband and wife, otherwise you will break up after starting a family, and the relationship will not last long, the most important thing is that you can't talk together, you say that he is talking about the west, it seems that he plays the piano to the cow, both parties can't stand it, and they naturally break up.
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It is of course very important for couples to have a common topic, because this is a consensus, the foundation of feelings, and the guarantee of love.
Couples who have a common topic, no matter what they are doing, can achieve the same, and all aspects of life will be in lockstep. Not only do you think in one place, but you also work hard in one place, especially when you talk about marriage, many things in marriage between the two parties can also be solved very well.
Look at each other with smart brains and eyes.
If you really want to be a long-term lover, you can try to see more things that the other person is interested in, and use your own intelligent eyes and brains to experience the process of your relationship.
Having a common language can complement each other and run in.
I am most fortunate that there are couples who have common topics in their lives, from them you can see the common concept, the common language, although the relationship needs to be run-in, but they can complement each other, their state together, people feel comfortable at a glance, they themselves can also feel simple and warm.
Therefore, if there is no common topic between couples, it can prove that their concepts are different, their goals are different, and they will be the opposite, so how can they go further and further in the journey of life? How can the emotional world be stable, the family and marriage will not be guaranteed, there is no common topic, and you can't become a husband and wife, otherwise you will break up after you get married, and the relationship will not last.
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It is of course important that couples have common topics, because consensus is the foundation of a relationship. But the guarantee of love. That feeling is like a family member shows that two people are inseparable and no one can do without whom, inseparable, couples with common topics, no matter what they do, they can achieve a unified standard, and all aspects of life will be in lockstep, not only the heart is in one place, but also the skills are in one place, especially when talking about marriage, many minutes of things on both sides can also be solved very well.
If you really want to be a long-term lover, you can try to look at the things that the other person is interested in, and use your own intelligent eyes and brains to experience the process of your relationship. I am most glad that there are couples who have common topics in their lives, from them you can see the concept of common grinding, common language, although although the relationship needs to be run-in, but they can complement each other, their state together, people feel comfortable at a glance, and they themselves can feel the simplicity and warmth of the sedan chair.
Therefore, if there is no common topic between couples, it can prove that their concepts are different, their goals and directions are different, and they will be the opposite, so how can they go further and further apart in the journey of life? How can you stabilize the family some time ago, and the marriage will not be guaranteed, and you can't become a husband and wife without a common topic, otherwise you will break up after you start a family, and the relationship will not last long.
Falling in love is to find people who share the same frequency and share the same interests, there will be a lot of common topics and easier to get along, some people say, couples, don't care, whether the interests and hobbies are the same, and don't have to change themselves to cater to each other's hobbies and respect each other, but can, the relationship has a long-term freshness, if there are the same interests and hobbies, then you can feel the beauty of having a common topic, you can talk because of the same interest, express different views, you can feel together, The joy that comes with this interest.
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Of course, there is no common topic that will not go far. Of course, couples are not the same as marriage, so since you don't have to endure it, you must have a common topic.
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