Who should pay when you re in love? When you re in love, do you make your girlfriend pay?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Decent boys will pay for it themselves.

    If a personable girl has no money from her boyfriend, she should give the money to her boyfriend in advance, and the boyfriend will pay for it.

    But... If you have been in love for a long time, you won't be separated from each other!! Whoever pays is the same!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's better to pay for each. (AA system).

    Occasionally a man can ask for a girl, but the AA system is the most civilized.

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  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The man is rich, the man buys, the woman is rich, the woman buys, and both run away when they have no money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Usually the man pays the bill, but sometimes you can pay the bill.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Stick to the AA system, but if there is a man who wants him to buy it, let him buy it, (give him a chance to perform).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also think that the party who invited should pay for it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I fell in love with my girlfriend, she always liked to pay, and then I told her that I would be unhappy if she did this, men always love face, and then we all use the AA system!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    AA pulling, so that it is most convenient to pull.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ordinary men want to save face, and they will rush to pay for it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There will be more boys, so that your image in the hearts of your friends will also be upgraded.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In general, there are a little more boys.

    But girls should buy it too!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Someone who invites the other person to dinner

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, because such an approach is not very gentlemanly and may cause disgust to your girlfriend, so you won't let your girlfriend pay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm definitely not going to let my girlfriend pay for it, because in a relationship, the guy should be in the driver's seat, so most of the things should be paid for by the guy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't, since I'm in love, then I won't let my girlfriend pay for it, I'll take my responsibility.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, because I feel that the other party is going to go through my whole life with me, and I am happy to spend money on her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Appropriate unilateral spending, as much as possible AA system.

    The expenses during the relationship are jointly implemented by both parties, so it should not be completely borne by one party, most of the college students' living expenses and pocket money are relatively limited, if it is completely unilaterally spent, it is a lot of pressure for anyone, of course, the two people who are in love can not be completely divided very clearly, appropriate unilateral expenditure is necessary, but the AA system should be the most long-term solution.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no definite answer to this question as different couples may have different economic circumstances and experience values.

    If couples have similar financial capacity and spending levels, then choosing the AA system may be a fair and reasonable way to go. Each person bears his or her own expenses, which not only avoids dependence and burden on the other, but also balances the burden of payment and strives for fairness.

    If one of the couples is relatively financially able, they may actively or passively bear more expenses. In this case, the two should also negotiate on the basis of mutual understanding and respect to ensure a good and equal relationship.

    On the other hand, the principle of survival of the fittest makes it not uncommon for one party to bear all the bills. But if one party bears all the costs and the other never pays for the costs, this unfair behavior can be the ultimate collapse of the partnership.

    All in all, the choice of AA or who pays should depend on the financial ability and willingness of the couple, and mutual consultation and understanding are required to ensure equality and harmony in the relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Going out to eat is a very common thing to do during warm periods. When it comes to payment methods, some people prefer the AA system, while some losers prefer to pay alternately.

    In my opinion, alternating buy orders is a better option.

    First of all, alternating payments can show mutual care and respect. In the process of alternating the Qing Imperial Bill, everyone will have the opportunity to pay for each other's empty rocks, and this way of taking care of each other will make people feel warm and valued. The AA system, on the other hand, can feel a little cold and uncomfortable.

    Second, alternating orders can reduce economic pressure. Under the AA system, everyone has to pay their own expenses, which can be financially stressful for some. Alternate billing gives everyone the opportunity to share the cost and reduce the financial burden.

    Finally, alternating orders can increase the chances of getting to know each other. In the process of alternating bills, each person can choose their favorite restaurant or dish, which also allows each other to better understand each other's tastes and preferences. In conclusion, I think it is better to alternate during warmer periods.

    It can show mutual care and respect, reduce financial pressure, and increase the opportunity to get to know each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the boy's economic conditions are not very bad, the boy should often pay the bill when he is in love, and the girl should not spend a dime, and occasionally he can pay the bill, so that neither of the two people takes advantage of anyone, and they can be filial enough to be equal and independent, and the boy will not feel a great burden. But if the boy's economic conditions are relatively poor, the girl can help him bear some of the burden, so as not to let him be too financially constrained.

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