How long can this relationship last? How can you tell how long a relationship is likely to last?

This, in fact, is difficult to say. It depends on whether she and you have another more suitable relationship opportunity, and the relationship between you is more of a hazy opposite-sex attraction, and when you grow up, maybe your interpretation and needs for the opposite sex have also changed.

In fact, you are very lucky to have such a beautiful relationship that can motivate you at such a young age, work hard, if your fate is enough, there will be opportunities in the future.

This is a beautiful emotional story, you are lucky to have it, and even more fortunate that you have used it correctly to make yourself stronger and sensible. If your relationship is still so innocent now, start from scratch and move forward with good memories. If it's no longer the case, don't worry about becoming the hawthorn tree in your heart forever.

Now you definitely can't be like you at the beginning, love so impulsively and blindly. Now it takes sense, respect. Everything goes with the flow, the beautiful things you remember and fight for love have been experienced, and nothing else is so important?

Good luck.

I appreciate your self-motivated spirit, which is also a reflection of a man's good qualities, and it is rare to have a sense of responsibility at such a young age. Keep going up, because you know very wisely that even if she gives you a satisfactory answer, everything is unpredictable, and no one can say what will happen in the future. It's better to only read the sage book with one mind, even if this relationship is dissipated after you are really admitted to college, you have worked hard after all, and you will be grateful for the motivation that girl gave you at the beginning.

Not everything in the world is so good, let go when your relationship is still good, maybe there are good memories!

In fact, we can't give you an accurate answer to this kind of question at all.

You say, "I decided not to see you for 3 years, and she understands" and I want to know how you know that "she understands"? Do you think so? Don't tell me what you see from her words and actions. Of course, including how do you know that she silently supports you.

When our puberty begins. There will be a lot of emotional experiences. Some make you fall.

Some make you excited, your relationship experience is positive, look, make you a hard-working young man. That's what this relationship is all about. The real point --- not whether you can get her or not.

If you really really want to know if she will wait for you. There is only one way. Be brave. Go ask her.

What can't be with you must not be the best for you! "—So, you fight for emotional things, you have no regrets, it's enough. As for whether it's yours or not, time will tell.

Finally, I will give you a Zen saying, which is also something that will wake me up.

I asked the Buddha: What if I meet someone you can love, but you are afraid that you can't grasp it?

The Buddha said: How much love does it take to stay in the world, welcome the thousand changes of the floating world, and have lovers, do happy things, don't ask whether it is a catastrophe or fate.

You have to ask her and tell her what you think, no matter what the result is, you will not regret it in the future, because you have bravely expressed your thoughts, and it will be a good memory in the future, and she will also think that you are a frank person, and girls like straightforward and decisive people.

If two people who chat a lot take sharing their feelings with each other as a normal thing, then they will have a sense of dependence on him. Wax source ruler.

But this kind of frequent chat will make us have the illusion that we like each other very much, and even think that two people are only one step away from falling in love.

Driven by this emotion, the probability of two people falling in love is indeed very high, but whether they can maintain this relationship for a long time is another matter.

The two people maintain a fixed contact every day, and their first reaction when they see something interesting is to share it with each other, and almost all of their free time is reserved for each other every day.

And after a period of foreshadowing for this kind of online communication, one party will ask if they want to hang out together.

At this time, the other party is actually very happy in his heart, even if he may not agree to the other party immediately, but the offline meeting between the two people will not be too far.

If the two people feel good after meeting, they will secretly show their feelings when they come back, give each other some small gifts, and the atmosphere between the two people is becoming more and more ambiguous.

Seeing each other more and more often, it may be because of a certain opportunity that you will be able to establish a relationship and start your sweet love journey.

But how long this relationship can last is not guaranteed, because you will find that when two people do not break this relationship, you are the happiest time.

A friend said that a boy has been keeping in touch with him recently, saying good morning and good night to him every day.

During that time, she was like being immersed in love, looking at her phone every day and giggling, and when we got up, she covered her phone and didn't show it to us.

She said that the boy really understood her, and that the two of them had the same interests and hobbies, and even liked to drink unsweetened lemonade.

She always felt that she might never meet such a compatible person again, so after the boy sent an invitation to go to the amusement park together, she decisively agreed.

She thought the boy was romantic, so she chose a place like an amusement park, and even if she didn't have anything to say, she could avoid embarrassment in other ways.

Later, after the two met, the friend made it clear to the other party when he came back, and felt that the other party was not the person he was expecting.

Friends said that the boy was not what she saw and imagined in real life, she just liked the person who kept chatting with her, or that she liked to have an emotional sustenance.

There are also people who have a friend of the opposite sex who has a good relationship, and originally everyone just talked about everything, and they spent a long time together, and they all felt very comfortable.

But if once you chat more and more often, and the topics of conversation become more and more personal issues, there will be some subtle changes in the atmosphere between you.

You may even unconsciously coddle each other, and then make demands that only couples have, such as not letting him play with the opposite sex.

When you buy something for yourself, subconsciously bring him a copy too, so you have a couple water bottle and a couple toothbrush.

It would be too arbitrary to judge by time.

I think that the long-term relationship does not necessarily depend on the length of time, but should look at the two people who get along, if the two people are compatible, the personality can be, and the three views are in line, then the relationship may be firm, but this is not sure to be 100% suitable, then if it is a person who does not agree with the three views, it is even more inappropriate.

Because there are many influencing factors of feelings, getting married and living, maybe there is a sense of ceremony, there is romance, but there is also tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea that is not in love, maybe there will be a quarrel in life because of a little thing, then if the three views are in line with the character is suitable, then you can live forever, if the three views do not match, values, outlook on life, and world view are different, then how to live, you didn't say a remark, they all think it's wrong, and what they say, you don't agree, it's difficult to last long.

So I don't think the long-term relationship has to be measured by time, maybe they are afraid of missing you.