How do I let this relationship be good?

I think you can try to leave quietly, maybe you are sincere, and there is always some reluctance to make this decision (I don't know how to express it).

You've also been mentioning things about cats, and I don't think a woman who really loves someone will always use cats as an excuse. A woman in love, for example, leaving a message on QQ is every woman in love, it can be said to be a heart-warming thing, but she doesn't want to have a male message, and delete this is a real woman in love can't do it, from this it can be seen that she doesn't give all her feelings to you, but there are small bonds. This is also the only thing that can be celebrated in this relationship.

You also talked about money, and I don't think it's easy for me to speculate on that, it's hard to say.

I think you can be a little defensive first, but it should not be obvious, because if she is sincere in paying, your suspicion is undoubtedly the most harmful to him: so you should be quiet, find that he is not sincere, and quietly leave him, so that the two of them will not hurt very much.

This is purely a personal opinion, so I must give it to me. Don't turn it off meanly. That would be immoral.

She doesn't like you, she probably takes advantage of you.

First of all, both parties are independent and equal individuals. I remember that I had a friend around me before, she was usually not very busy, and she had more time, but her boyfriend was very busy, and girls always wanted to find boys when they were free, but boys would have a lot of time to be busy with their own affairs, causing girls to feel that boys didn't care enough about her, and cranky, and finally the relationship gradually ended. So I think that first of all, the state of both parties should match as much as possible, both parties have their own space to do their own things, and at the same time can enjoy the time together with the two of them.

And I feel that if one party in the relationship treats the other party as his own, the relationship is actually easy to be unbalanced.

The second is mutual respect and understanding. Respect your other half in the relationship, respect his life, ideas, choices, etc., but also try to understand each other, stand in each other's position and perspective, communicate more, be more considerate of each other, especially the way of thinking of boys and girls is also very different, boys need more recognition, need respect, girls need to care more, need to confide, in the process of getting along, always according to their own habits to speculate on the other party will produce a lot of contradictions because of not understanding, so when there is a dispute, also consider the reason why the other party does so and so on, try to understand each other and reduce conflicts.

The second is mutual trust, and cherish the trust that the other party gives you, trust also needs to be maintained, and frequent overdraft will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

And tolerate each other. No one is perfect, and no two people in a relationship are completely compatible, accept each other's shortcomings, discover each other's strengths, and two people can tolerate each other for a longer time.

Finally, learn to express your feelings, often express love, love needs to be expressed, not always let the other person guess your heart. "I love you" and hugs and kisses from time to time make each other feel important to each other and love from each other, which is also very important for maintaining a relationship.

In a relationship, one should learn from each other's strengths. At the same time, you should also understand the interests and hobbies of the other party. We also want to support each other's causes. And be sure to respect each other's preferences, and make progress together between the two of them. In this way, both parties can get better and better.

First of all, two people must have a common goal, and at the same time, two people should also work together, and then two people continue to develop towards this goal, constantly improve their strength and level, so that two people become better and better, and both parties should also respect each other and leave each other some personal space.

Trust each other, share some of your own things with the partner, and support each other and maintain each other.

In a relationship, there are often problems with the relationship, which leads to a very bad relationship between the two people. So how can we change this state through our own efforts, in fact, it is very simple, we only need to operate with our hearts, then naturally, he will become better and better. In real life, many people lack this patience, so our relationship gets worse and worse, which is very bad for us.

Therefore, we must face it positively and change positively. In this way, we can better help ourselves, so how can we do it? Let's take a brief look at it together.

The first is to give each other a little more trust. It is very important for two people to trust each other, and only we can give each other a little more trust. We will be willing to believe in each other, so that the other party can also believe in us more.

Only then will the feelings become sincere and harmonious. In reality, many people like to be suspicious, which is very wrong. Because every person has their own personality, they deal with it with suspicion, and the final result is that the two of them are getting worse and worse.

So for us, we have to trust each other more. <>

Second, give each other more space. If two people want to be more comfortable with each other, then they must have space for each other. In this way, our life can be more colorful, because if you are alone every day, it will make our feelings more single, and it is easy to have a rebellious mentality after a long time.

It's very bad for us, so we must actively change, give each other 1 point more space, and let each other have their own circle. <>

This is the right choice for us to take this issue seriously. After all, only we can really deal with these problems, and really make our feelings more harmonious and longer, and I hope everyone can really treat him carefully.

Then trust each other. Trust is the most important thing, because in a relationship, only by trusting each other can we show respect and love for each other. Secondly, be considerate of each other, and consider a thing from the other person's point of view, then you will get a different way of thinking.

So as long as you do these two things well, the relationship will get better and better.

That is, two people have each other in their hearts, they will discuss with each other before doing something, and they will talk to each other before doing anything, so that they will not find each other, and then two people often do something to prepare some surprises for each other.

When getting along with each other, you should pay attention to certain ways and methods, two people should know each other well enough, and there should be some freshness between each other, and you should communicate often when you get along, so that you can make the relationship better.

Two people should trust each other, two people should also care more about each other, when they encounter some problems, they should also help each other as much as possible, and create some small surprises for each other, which will make the relationship better and better.

Create surprises every day, if you can do it, of course, if a person really loves you and doesn't need you to be so tired, he will still love you so much. The most important thing is to make yourself good and make him love you more.

Humor is a gift from life to a happy person, you have to be more humorous, so that he can gradually become humorous, humor is the regulator of life. Caring for and supporting your husband's work is his greatest comfort, and your relationship will grow.

If you want to make the relationship better, you have to work harder, a drop to move this person, so that your life will become better, if you don't work hard, but you can't feel your love.

When facing feelings, we should think more openly, and secondly, we should also give the other party some time and space, and don't think about things too complicated, so that the relationship can become better.

Because people get along with people for a long time, they will be rude because they are familiar, and sometimes they will forget their proportions when they speak, and husbands and wives don't want both of them to get along"Good guys"If that's the case, you'll always feel like you're right, and everyone should try to do it"Bad guys", for example.

Your husband inadvertently broke a cup, and if you see it, you immediately say:"You're going to be broken like this"As soon as your husband sounds like he is accusing him (of course you are not) he will immediately say:"It's all your bad place to put the cup there!

This is the result of both people being good people, and everyone thinks that they are not wrong) As a result, it will be unpleasant after the incident;

But on the contrary, if you see your husband breaking the cup, you immediately say:"Ah, dear, it's not good that I didn't slip hail, it was I who put the cup there and made you not a little broken"At this time, your husband will feel much more comfortable when he listens to it, and he will immediately say:"It's all my fault, why am I so careless".

That's when two people are bad guys) things will have a happy dry sail ending.

Although it may not be your fault, but people are like this, if you lower your body a little bit and don't force everything with the other party, then all problems are very easy to solve!

Home is not a place to be reasonable, home is a place to talk about love, in the world of love, no one is right or wrong, there will always be only love and tolerance.

True love is first and foremost romantic and joyful beauty, otherwise it would not be true love. If love is painful at the beginning, then surely we are not experiencing love. Maybe because we are not confused when we are young, we once loved but did not grasp love, and we turned a corner in front of the reef of reality, hurt, and hurt, but we can't say that we are not love, or there is no such love story in the world.

Now that true love has come to the side, we must also go to reality to run in it, we must maintain the freshness of love, and we must not be indifferent to the feelings that have been obtained in the trivialities of life in the auspicious hail ridge, first of all, we must have care, share happiness and share sorrows, and resist the ups and downs together. Love can be too selfish, we need to give each other some space, this is respect. It is undeniable that we are like glue to each other, bringing harmony to each other's beautiful attraction, so that our souls are blended, you are already me, I am already you.

Trust each other, understand each other, learn to respect each other, and have humor between them, not only in the heart of play, but sincerely.

I'm like you, I once had a crush on a boy, he was my classmate, and then he repeated a grade, not in the same class as me, but in a school, I always liked him, but I couldn't say it and didn't want to say it, because there were too many girls who liked him, and I was afraid. But he should have feelings for me, because one of his brothers told me that he liked me too when I graduated and left school. Later, we haven't seen each other for almost 5 years, and last month I occasionally met one of his brothers in an Internet café, and then he came, and I didn't see him for 5 years, and I would occasionally think of him, but I didn't think that I would meet him, and when I saw him, I felt that I still had the same feeling as five years ago, and he doesn't have a girlfriend now, but I never dared to say that feeling to him, and I don't want to say it, because I believe that if we have fate, we will, come together, Since God let us meet again, it proves that there is still a fate between us, but I don't know if we can become lovers, if not, then our fate is just friends.

I think the relationship is to be managed with heart, like you, you have known each other for a long time but there are a lot of strangers, if the relationship develops well, it will be very fast, if two people do not communicate well with each other, they may be very uncomfortable with each other, because you must cherish each other's love this time, sometimes you care too much and are easy to be caught off guard, you can recall together a lot of the time when you had a crush on him, let him think more about your past, that kind of decision should be good.