How terrible is poverty? What are the poorest families you ve ever seen?

I once watched a movie "I Am Not the God of Medicine", and the deepest line in my memory is "There is only one disease in the world, and that is the disease of poverty", and I believe that only poor people have a deep understanding of this, and in my impression I have seen the poorest families should be those villagers in remote mountainous areas, every household is working hard to maintain food and clothing, and their pursuit of tomorrow is to hope that there will be three meals and a full meal.

It was an experience I had in the early years, when I followed a project team to follow up with a volunteer, and I came to the depths of the mountains to see what real poverty is in the world. As soon as we entered the village, we were shocked by the situation in the village. It was just in time for the rainy season, and under the guidance of the speaker, we went to a place to shelter from the rain, and everyone was deeply shocked by the scene we saw after crossing the threshold, the house was made of wood, and the raindrops flowed into the house along the various gaps in the house, and the owner of the house responded to this scene with a flat face, using a only plastic basin to catch the leak in the house, and when it was full, the rainwater was splashed out, and the rainwater in the house was scooped up with his hands and swayed out.

The dampness in the house hit everyone's faces, and the owner seemed to be accustomed to this scene, rubbing his hands and trying to invite us to sit down, but looking at the scene in the house, he could only smile and apologize, and we fell into silence for a long time when he saw that their lives were so hard.

In the later conversation, we learned that many people in the local area can not even solve the problem of food and clothing, their only income ** is farming, but because there is no fertilizer moisture, the annual harvest is pitiful, in this case going to school is an unattainable goal for them, the villagers here are generally less educated, this phenomenon really happens in our lives, I believe it will subvert many people's perception of poverty, sometimes we don't care about the reality of the other party's dream of life, The huge gap truly interprets the meaning of poverty, the real poverty is always in the struggle to survive, ragged clothes, three meals are not settled, most of their tomorrow is in the pursuit of food and clothing, enjoying life is an unattainable dream for them.

Poverty is very terrible, and now some families can't even afford normal fruits and vegetables, and their children's seasonal clothes can't afford to buy them, which makes people feel very sad.

Very scary indeed. First of all, it is because in today's society, it is difficult to move an inch without money. It's impossible to live the life you want. The poorest people are those who have no clothes at home.

Poverty can limit a person's imagination, and there is no electricity or water at home.

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Harm to children

The most terrible thing about the family is not poverty, but the consequences of your parents crying poor are so serious that you despair.

Good education is not to teach children to strive for the first, but to awaken the seeds in children's hearts.

1.Let children have an inferiority complex.

Parents crying poor will make their children realize in their hearts that I am different from other children, and my family has no money. I can't afford to buy nice clothes, and there are toys that other children have. When children watch other people's children show off their new things, they naturally have an idea that they are not as good as others, and then they have an inferiority complex, becoming sensitive and vulnerable.

2.Let the child be vain and selfish.

Parents cry poor, once the child knows the fact that his family is poor, he will care more about money, and he will also care more about the eyes of others. I don't want others to know that I am poor and look down on myself.

Children even learn to lie to cover up, and they don't want to share their things with others, because they know that if they share it, they won't have the money to buy it again, and in the long run, they will become vain and selfish.

3.Let the child be at the mercy of money.

Parents who cry poor often say to their children, if you are disobedient, you will not buy toys. If you don't do this, you won't be given pocket money, etc., these words are like a trap for the child, restricting him. Let the child slowly become dominated by money.

In the end, children may be "obedient" but are oppressed by their parents' money. In the future, I didn't dare to make my voice heard.

4.Affect the child's vision and pattern.

The rich know how to invest, and the poor are misers, is it really the reason for the rich and the poor? It's just a limitation of thinking.

Fathers often cry about poverty when they touch their mothers, which leads to children saving too much money, not knowing the long-term way, narrowing their horizons, and restricting their patterns. It is branded as poverty, and it is naturally difficult to get out of the poverty circle.

5.Distort your child's view of money.

In life, you should be calm and calm about money, but if your child is financially strictly controlled at an early age and has not been satisfied with material things, he may become more faithful about money when he grows up.

The concept of money first will corrode children's minds, distort children's view of money, and make children become profit-seeking and calculating.

A family can be materially poor, but not spiritually lacking, we can be poor in the economy, but we must be rich in the pattern, upbringing, and three views.