Are poor families better for their children s growth?

There is no doubt that good times are good for growth, which can be argued in the following ways:

1.Family conditions.

In a relatively wealthy family, it is a good condition for parents to train their children from childhood to adulthood, and they can enroll in various training courses and travel around, and their children will see a wider range of the world.

Because the parents themselves are good enough, they can give their children a better growth environment from an early age, and they can provide great help on the road to growth, including the shaping of three views, economic support, life planning, risk aversion, etc. If the child has IQ, emotional intelligence, talent and other bonuses, then the child is like a fish in water, and it is difficult to succeed.

For a poor family, due to the parents' own ability, knowledge, personality, culture and other defects, the children's growth environment is very poor, and they can't even talk about a good meal. Parents' own shortcomings are unable to provide their children with correct value guidance, sufficient financial support, and correct life planning ......It is difficult to raise excellent children in such an environment.

Wealthy families can easily cultivate successful people, whether it is Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Jack Ma, Pony Ma ......Their family backgrounds are relatively good.

Looking at the elites from all walks of life, those from poor backgrounds account for a minority, and most families are either rich or expensive. Of course, there are a few exceptions, for example, Liu Qiangdong, who was born in poverty, is indeed a model of grassroots background, and even the money to study and go to college is made up by people in the village.

2.Life Experience.

The older generation thinks that only by suffering hardship can they become superior people. But I don't think there is any need to suffer a lot of hardships at all, and there is no need to take many detours. Hardship is also divided into large and small, and divided into types.

Small suffering is beneficial, but big suffering hurts the body. Small sufferings make people cautious and strong, and big sufferings make people miserable and even desperate. Being cheated of 10 yuan makes people vigilant, and being cheated of 100,000 yuan makes people crazy; Gossip, snobbery.

Being oppressed, humiliated, and discriminated against will only undermine human dignity and increase hatred. For wealthy and powerful families, the ability to protect themselves and take risks has greatly increased; And a small accident in a poor family can put a mountain of pressure on the whole family.

Smooth sailing is not a good thing, it is necessary to endure small hardships, and the benefits of enduring hardships are limited to small setbacks, small failures, and small problems. If you encounter unbearable setbacks, there is no good in driving people to death and driving them crazy. When a parent suddenly falls seriously ill, it is not a good thing for the child's development.

Not necessarily. Because there is a probability that a noble son will come out of a poor family. Not all poor families can produce noble children, and the poor families are too cold, and it is difficult to even live, let alone have good educational resources.

1.The children of the poor are in charge of the family early, which means that they are independent early in life, such as working when they come back from school, have no extra time to study, have strong self-reliance, but are also prone to inferiority, because the family conditions are not good, compared with others, they seem to be a little lost, and even have low self-esteem. Some even stopped after completing nine years of compulsory education and became part-time workers.

2.If the economic conditions are better, the educational resources are more abundant, such as broadening the child's horizons, the child has more time to study, even if the study is not good, because the family background is good, parents will also try to provide their children with better educational resources, such as studying abroad, and it is more popular to come back. If the family conditions are not good, it is difficult to improve yourself, and there will be many difficulties in the future.

3.Poor families are not necessarily conducive to the growth of children, although adversity can temper people more, but not everyone can come out of adversity, and the family conditions are superior, children have stronger self-confidence, and have more resources to develop themselves. Imagine someone helping you and you're one step closer to success.

Or is it closer to success by taking more detours alone? Apparently someone helped. Therefore, the superiority of the family is more helpful to the child.

In short, poor families can provide less help to their children, and they all rely on their children to grope their way forward, and there are more detours, which may not be conducive to children's growth. The superior family conditions are more conducive to the growth of children, because they can give more help to children.

Not necessarily, there is a probability that a poor family will have a noble son, not all poor families can produce a noble son, the poor family is too cold, and even life is difficult, let alone having good educational resources, 1The children of the poor are in charge of the family early, which means that they are independent in life early, such as working when they come back from school, have no extra time to study, have strong self-care ability, but are also prone to low self-esteem.

2.If the economic conditions are better, the educational resources are more abundant, which can broaden the child's horizons, and the child has more time to study, even if the study is not good, because the family background is good, parents will also try to provide their children with better educational resources, such as studying abroad, if the family conditions are not good, it is difficult to improve themselves, and there are more difficulties in the future.

3.Poor families are not necessarily conducive to the growth of children, although adversity can temper people more, but not everyone can come out of adversity, and the family conditions are superior, children have stronger self-confidence, and have more resources to develop themselves, family superiority is more helpful to children.

In short, poor families can provide less help to their children, and it is all up to the children to grope their way forward, and there are more detours, which are not necessarily conducive to the growth of children, while the superior family conditions are more conducive to the growth of children, because they can give children more help.

Poor families do have more training for their children's growth. Because of poverty, he needs to take on many things independently. The family needs to be helped to do things, and there is a saying that the children of the poor are in charge of the house early, and this is the truth.

Children from acquaintances are often more sensible than children from wealthy families.

In today's society, families that are significantly wealthy are more conducive to the growth of their children. In a poor family, due to the defects of the parents' own ability, knowledge, culture and other aspects, the children's growth environment is relatively poor, and the parents' own defects cannot provide their children with good value guidance, sufficient financial support and correct life planning, which are not conducive to the growth of children. On the other hand, in a relatively wealthy family, parents can provide their children with a good growth environment, including three views shaping, financial support, life planning, risk aversion, etc., coupled with their own efforts, it is easy for them to grow into talents.

Poverty suppresses desire, but it does not disappear, it only expands more and more.

When they see children of the same age as themselves in the city, eating snacks they have never seen before, drinking bubbling Coke, and they can only swallow their saliva silently, watching their friends have high-end toys, and they can only look at them with envy.

Do you think they really don't have desires? It's just that this desire is tightly suppressed by poverty, and in the process of growing up, the desire will not disappear, but will expand more and more in the desire. When they reach a certain limit, when they become adults, it will be a big hidden danger in their character.

Children living in poor families, they feel that the future can be seen at a glance, no matter how hard they put in, their fate cannot be changed, so they lose the idea of struggle, thinking that even if they struggle in this quagmire, they will only fall deeper and deeper, since there is no possibility of change, why do they have to work hard?

2. Children who grow up in poor families will have great deficiencies in personality.

You might as well recall the bits and pieces around you, maybe there are children from remote mountainous areas around you. Although they have jumped out of the dragon gate and come to this big city, are there more or less big problems in their personalities?

Because he is poor, he is afraid of being looked down upon by others, so he is naturally very sensitive in character, and when he encounters a little thing, he will immediately be anxious with others, and even start to move. This kind of personality is extreme, because in a poor family, parents have no time to take care of their children's education, and when they see this sense of disparity between them and others, they will give birth to an extreme idea.

Especially now a very popular word in society "phoenix man". It is said that the outstanding children who came out of poor families, although they have made some achievements in academics, although they are not lagging behind in work, they are always shrouded by the word phoenix man.

This is the sorrow of a poor family, they have never escaped the bottom of that poverty, and they have always been dragged down by this poverty.

The pattern of parents determines the pattern of a child's life. Poverty can exercise children, and poverty can change things!

Therefore, <> generally wealthy families not only provide children with a basic sense of security, but also allow children to have more conditions to pursue their nature and give full play to their strengths, and the chances of becoming talents are greater, and the ceiling is much higher.

Poor families, as far as I can see, generally such families, parents do not have very good material conditions, for children, the main thing is to ensure three meals a day, for study, travel, etc., pay less attention, or even if there is no good way to pay attention.

However, in most poor families, parents often pay more attention to their children's academic performance and require their children to work harder in their studies, but due to their own family conditions, it is often difficult for their children to obtain better protection.

For example, many families who come to the city to work and open shops live in very ordinary conditions, some of them rent in an urban village, or a small house behind the storefront, and their children do not have a good learning environment, or even a decent desk, let alone a better school, or a better extracurricular learning opportunity.

Children from wealthy families tend to be more comfortable in interpersonal communication and social understanding when they grow up.

And children from poor families, even if they are some bright, and strive to achieve opportunities such as college in terms of grades, still lack a lot in these aspects.

Moreover, parents in poor families are busy earning money and have less time to spend with their children, which may also have some impact on the children's personality.

Therefore, I personally feel that the impact of poverty or wealth on children exists.

However, people's own development, the whole is affected by many factors, family is a very important piece, but it does not necessarily determine a person's development, there are many complaints about the original family on the Internet, and there are many beyond the influence of the original family, and finally realize personal dreams.

Of course, there is an impact on children, and children from poor families may become very inferior because they are not as good as other children. Children from wealthy families can become overconfident, easily look down on others, and have an inexplicable sense of superiority.

It still has an impact, because children from wealthy families can go to many places to play with what they want, which will make them more confident, while children from poor families will not feel inferior, but they cannot often broaden their horizons, which will lead to a gap between them and children from wealthy families.

In the process of growing up, the poverty and affluence of the family will of course have a great impact on the child. For children from poor families, it is difficult to eliminate the inferiority complex in the process of growing up, while for children from wealthy families, they are often able to have better educational conditions.

It has an impact on children, and children from poor families are generally more inferior, and children from wealthy families are more confident.

1. This is for sure, is it not difficult for parents to throw all the burden on their children if they don't work hard to make money?

2. The family is poor, and many of the parents' education and choice of losers are wrong, causing children to keep taking detours.

3. Poor, parents have no security when they are old, and the pension is small, so they must rely entirely on their children, which must be difficult.

4. Poor, it is possible to carry debts, and these debts will overwhelm the children of their children.

5. If parents are poor, they will not be able to provide financial support to their children, and their children will have to rely entirely on themselves to start a family and buy a house in the future.

6. If the parents are poor, they hope that their children will work quickly to make money, and they may give up halfway in studying, and they will lose their choice in society without knowledge and education.

7. The family is poor, the children cannot see the world, they cannot get material satisfaction when they are young, they are easy to feel inferior, and they have an adverse impact on the future.

8. When poor families have children, most of them can't turn over, and they are still poor.

9. Now people have figured it out, if you are poor, make money first, don't think about having children.

10. I didn't understand what I wanted the next generation to do, which was irresponsible.

11. Getting rich is a relay race, and there are very few people in a generation who can turn over and change their lives.

1. Become inferior.

Many children will show off their privileged family background, which will make the poor children feel that they are different from them. These poor children will feel that they are inferior to them in all aspects, and over time, the children will develop an inferiority complex.

2. The horizon is not broad enough.

Due to the poor conditions at home, children rarely have the opportunity to be taken out by their parents for a walk, and they don't know much about the outside world. When you're with children from well-to-do families, you're basically just going to be a listener.