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Anonymous users2024-02-12Some people say that marriage is just a transaction, and it requires that the families of both parties should be consistent, that poverty should be matched with poverty, that medium should be matched with medium, and that wealth should be matched with wealth. What do you think? If you have a boyfriend who is in love, you have talked about marriage, but when you go to meet the man's parents, you are opposed by the boy's family, and the man's parents do not like the woman's family.
Do you want to stick with it?
If you love your boyfriend very much, and your boyfriend loves you enough, I think you can stick with it, because feelings are a matter of two people, not outsiders, as long as you have a good relationshipBut there is a premise, and that is that you should have a good job and a stable income, and you should be able to make sure that your mother's side does not become a burden to your husband, and that without the help of your husband's family, only you are independent and not dependent on your husband's family.
But if you love your boyfriend very much, and your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as you love him, I advise you to give it up because after marriage, you will be tired. There is a word called subtle influence, and it is reflected in marriage. If his parents don't like your family, they will often tell you how your boyfriend is in front of you.
Even if your boyfriend doesn't feel it at first, after a long time, your boyfriend will slowly feel that it's real.
And then there are the in-laws who will be a little disgusted with your parents. Over time, it is easy for your in-laws to clash with each other. If you're caught in the middle, you'll feel tired and stressed, and you'll probably argue inexplicably.
If you make too much noise, you will hurt your feelings. Everyone hopes that their son can find a family with good conditions, so that the burden on parents will be reduced, and the life pressure of sons and daughters-in-law will not be too great. After all, the previous generation had good conditions, and it was not necessary for young people to spend a lot of money to take care of them.
Even parents who have children or who live and work can be of great help. It is normal for a man's parents not to like a woman, and it is normal for a poor family. After all, many women's parents also hate men's poor families.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11It depends on how you dredge it up, and generally your parents don't agree because they are afraid that this person will not be able to give you a happy and healthy life in the future. It's up to you to find a way to help them reconcile the conflicts. I usually talk more about my boyfriend's goodness, and I also promote my boyfriend's motivation, and if I don't have money and ability, my parents won't refuse.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10You can communicate calmly with your parents and tell them that family conditions are not important, but your boyfriend's character.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09You can tell parents about the merits of your boyfriend. At the same time, let the boyfriend redouble his efforts to change his poverty.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Then let the parents see the advantages of the boyfriend, and let the parents feel that the boyfriend is particularly self-motivated, and they will be happy if they marry him.
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