I like friends a lot, but I m too timid to make friends, so what should I do?

To make good friends, you must first be sincere to people and things, secondly, love friends more than yourself, and finally, you can be with the kind of friends who are happy and sad with you, and don't care about gains and losses. Understand these points: First; Understand the importance of trust for friends, as the old saying goes, "Those who believe in others will always believe in them."

It shows that if you want to deal with the relationship between friends, if you want friends to trust you, you must first believe in friends, and the real "sincerity" is the foundation of getting along with friends; Second: to be generous, especially when getting along with friends, we must be generous, as the so-called "people are not sages, who can do nothing" friends are also people, he will also make mistakes, we can not always grasp the mistakes and shortcomings of friends, to really do strict self-discipline, lenient to others, in order to really get along with friends, but also to make real good friends; Third: in the midst of adversity, we can see the truth, the friendship between friends is not maintained by sweet words, the real friendship is able to withstand the test of time and environment, usually only the flesh and numb touting, the friendship that is coming to the end of the catastrophe but flying separately is what we should spurn, the friend who can give us a practical support at the critical moment is the real friend, the person who pushes you to the fire pit at the critical time is a false friend, a real villain, and the person who can persuade you to rein in the precipice is a true friend, a true gentleman; Fourth:

Friendship should be maintained by feelings, not by money, gifts to maintain, as the so-called "thousands of miles to send goose feathers, light friendship and friendship" can send you a simple blessing when you are happy, can give you a light greeting when you are troubled, such a friend is a friend!

Amplify your courage and try things you didn't dare to do before, so that you can break through yourself.

Personality problems, if you want to change in the big picture, do more speeches and other activities, that is the kind of activity that can speak very naturally in front of the eyes of many people in front of the public.

Fundamentally, your problem is to think too much, you should understand a truth, if a person is unwilling to be friends with you after seeing your shortcomings, it can only mean that this person did not intend to be friends with you from the beginning, is such a person worth cherishing.

As for your fear that others will not be happy, this question is the same as above, and the reasons and consequences refer to the previous paragraph.

Therefore, don't be pretentious when getting along with others, just be yourself, if a person sees the most real you and is willing to be friends with you, then this person is worth cherishing.

Finally, I would like to remind you that you see that others can make a lot of friends, in fact, most of their relationships are established with interests first, and when there is a conflict of interest between them, the problem will come out, so it is very easy to become friends as long as there is no conflict of interest between two people, but you don't have the luxury of being a real friend, you can have one or two in your life, you will be content

Make friends with an honest attitude. It is necessary to know in your heart, and your joy and anger are invisible. Whether you meet a friendly or unfriendly acquaintance or a stranger (Kwon spoke for the first time), you should smile and greet you in a friendly way, indicating that you are easy to approach.

After that, when you meet someone you know on the road, you should greet them warmly, friends are as simple as that, and your friendliness will be seen by everyone. Naturally, there are more friends.

Making friends is important in sincerity, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, compare your heart to your heart, and be honest and unrestrained is the most pleasant. The ancients said that "gentlemen are frank and open, villains are often relatives", and too much consideration is the source of unhappiness.