I m 7 years older I m still worried, my boyfriend is 7 years older than me, and now I m having troub

Updated on society 2024-06-25
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Who says personality can't be changed? Otherwise, how can many people become more and more mature.

    He doesn't understand love, but he loves you, can you feel it?

    He doesn't understand romance, maybe he doesn't want to romance with you at all, can you be sure?

    Your understanding of love is definitely different, I believe that he understands more deeply than you, but it is easy to lead to boredom when it is profound.

    Tell him what you want, don't let others guess.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    5-year-old generation ditch.

    Although love, this ditch cannot be eliminated.

    For example, you love your parents, and your parents love you.

    But we all know that the generation gap cannot be bridged. It's the same thing.

    If you are still struggling with how to deal with your relationship, others can't help you.

    In fact, I think the most important thing for two people is - trust and tolerance!

    Some people say that love always has to be loved by one person more. Such love can be maintained!

    If you love him more, bear with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then it's better to communicate well, it's impossible for people not to change for the sake of each other, and if you are immature, that's because your life circle is too well protected.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People will always grow up, now you don't want to grow up, after a few years you will find that you have matured unconsciously, it's not a matter of being willing or not, the years will make you grow by yourself...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't want to change yourself, don't complain about him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ever heard the word flattered.

    Your boyfriend has been in society for too long, and it's just a little uncomfortable to see someone wholeheartedly treating him for a while, as long as you don't make yourself too cheap, it's fine.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, I have a colleague's husband who is eight years older than her, and he is also very happy! The key is to see how you both feel! If you really love her and are really good to him, he will be really good to you!

    You are such a good girl, he is lucky to fall in love with him, it is normal for people who work to be busy at work, don't worry! Just believe in each other!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's an instinct to be nice to someone you like. You can't control because you care. That's a good thing, but you shouldn't be overly concerned about the other person, because he will be psychologically stressed.

    After all, he is so big, and he has his own space and ideas for many things. You have to listen to his opinions and ideas and be a true listener. Love is like sugar, too much will get tired

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    7 years older than you and different classes, you don't have any life experience to run into him, of course you will lose momentum. Let's experience life well. He's not all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter how virtuous a woman is, she has a motherhood, but she is a child in her bones. Don't always expect her to think about you, how considerate she is about your feelings, and how much she cares about you. She also hopes that she can be as willful as a child, and hopes that someone will spoil her and love her like a spoiled child, take care of her and care for her, instead of just asking her for love and tolerance like a child.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why didn't you think about the current difficult crack when you were looking for a little girl?

    The age gap has an absolute impact on the rest of life. Don't compare with Yang Zhenning, he just found a little baobao in the name of his wife.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forehead. They are all in love, why are they still thinking about this question.

    The hardest thing now is to find someone to love.

    Either you don't love him, or he doesn't love you.

    Cherish it

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Age is not a problem, as long as it is true love for each other, you have to control your own happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ask yourself if you love her, if you love, why do you care what others say.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm better than him, dirtier than him. Do you understand! Sober up early, you have a great future ahead of you... After you get it, what will he do with his wife and children??? If you are his wife,,, think more for others, beauty.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's another tragedy of a third party What a good little girl Why do you always rely on an old man I really can't figure out your psychology If you are a sound person Why can't you find someone who can be entrusted with your life Think about it Do you and him have a future Will you be happy for a lifetime Impossible, don't imagine that he will get divorced It's impossible If you want to leave a long time ago, why bother wearing old shoes Besides, this kind of person is already a shoe that can't be broken anymore Oh my God, he can do this to you now When you reach the age of his wife, he will go to find other little girls Do you really think he loves you I think you should go to a psychiatrist first What you should do now is to correct your life values and life goals Look farther and take a good look at yourself Why should you be ruined by an old man who doesn't love you at all Finding true happiness is your goal Hey, there are too many tragedies like you... It's right to be stupid for a person, but you have to find someone who is worthy of you being stupid for him, if you continue like this, you will not end well If you destroy other people's families like this, you will be punished Every family has every family's troubles They can solve it by themselves If you go to destroy it, maybe they would have been fine, but you ruined the good possibilities People are doing it, the sky is watching, you are really pitiful, and it is also miserable, this is a tragedy of your own creation, no wonder others.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The landlord is brain-dead! I want to scold you! People who are 5 years older than you have the ability to succeed in their careers, and I admire them like that, but the question is, what is the success of a person who can be your father? A truly successful middle-aged person should not only have a successful career, but also a happy family.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're just a pawn in his hand now, and the sooner you retreat, the less likely you are to get hurt.

    I sincerely hope that you will leave him soon.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Women always want to get it for nothing, do you imagine how his wife came with him?

    If you want it, you can only be a second wife.

    Be smart and be nice to your boyfriend, and in 22 years your husband will be better than him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Father-lover complex, assistant, your opponent is an old woman who is more than 20 years older than you, don't you think you are too despicable to do this? You rely on youth to eat, what does she rely on?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Like you, I'm also in love with a married man, let's take one step at a time! Because I can't do without him at all!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You just like it.

    Just as we did to our father; Or grandpa.

    They give us a sense of security, a sense of solidity, that person cares about you, and that you develop feelings of dependence on him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The bitter sea is boundless, and the back is the shore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since there is no result, don't waste your youth, people always have to live, sober up! Or let him divorce and marry you!

    Time can be a wound.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Partially agreed upstairs.

    Calmly travel somewhere else for a few days and come back.

    Then calm down and think about it all over again, and think seriously about whatever the final decision is, as long as you don't regret it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You won't end well either.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then love to be once that time is over, you will not love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not a question of how many years older.

    He also loved his wife.

    He will not give up on marriage for you.

    Be a junior. Would you like to?

    In the end, he still has to return to the family.

    You're the only one who is hurting.

    It's a society where there are more men than women.

    There's no need to grab a second-hand item.

    Sober up. To let go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is no future, the sooner you let go, the better, and talk to people of the same sex and socialize.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Alas, sympathize with you, emotional things, it's hard to say, especially the most painful to fall in love with your colleagues, together every day, embarrassing, but I want to see him, I don't dare to look at him boldly... It's amazing.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Who doesn't know what the result of love is, only time can test everything, do you believe that he will love you for the rest of your life? Feelings can't be played.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Although it is good to control our own happiness, after all, we are young and have a lot of things that we can't see far enough, or we are affected by the emotions at that time. The opinions of parents should be considered and never annoyed, because you were born to them, and if he doesn't love you, he won't hurt you, and they think too far ahead. Of course, I hope you think about it carefully, because a friend of mine has had a similar problem with you.

    But in the end, through the efforts of the two of them and practical actions, they persuaded the parents of both sides to be together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There are many cases like yours.

    It mainly depends on what you think, even your own mother disagrees, so should you think about it again?

    Or are you so strong in your love for him that you want to go with him even if your mother doesn't agree?

    Now the most important thing is which is most important to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The key is to see how many children you have, if you are the only one and you go farther, what will you do then, so it's not just because you're older, hehe, you can talk to your mother more

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Did you meet? What does a boyfriend do? How old is it? Parents must not agree to leave it alone, it depends on the person! Be careful!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As long as the two of them are sincere, age is not a problem, 7 years old is nothing, I know 11 people who are still missing, and the two of them are planning for the future, which is very good, communicate more with your parents.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Now is the time for free love, if that person is very good to you, a good person, and the economic conditions are okay, I think you can consider it, the most important thing is whether you want to go with him! In fact, you can bring him to your mother and let her know about it!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Age is not a problem, but parents are also worried about their children, for the good of their children! Try to convince your mother to take her home to see your mother more often! Slowly impress her!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Then if you really like him. Just go south with him. Your mom will want to open it after a while. Whose mother doesn't want her daughter?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In your heart, family affection and love are important, choose whichever one is important.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Leave, but I know you're going to be ruthless. Well, men just need you to give him a stick at the right time to wake him up. Give yourself a chance and give him a chance, and calm down with each other.

    Think about what has happened between yourself for so many years. I'm a man, and I guess if I do what your boyfriend does, what I really like in my heart and what I really love is definitely not you!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't waste time, I'm just like you, I found a boyfriend like this, and in the end he went back to his former girlfriend. Trust me and leave him. Leave him, or you will be the same as me!"

    Nothing was gained, and in the end it was just a dream. Oh my God, it's the same as how I felt at the time, you ended up like me, don't lie to yourself, and don't fall into the trap of gentleness! Leave him.

    Men are cruel. Leave him.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You already want to leave him, cut through the mess quickly, find your own happiness, what are you doing when you are 7 years older Find 7 years younger.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Everyone will lose their eyes in the face of possession and love, you should have a good talk with him if he wants to possess you?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Leave him. You're just a fodder to fill his loneliness.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Leave him. That's the only thing you can do. Don't hesitate! I'm really worried about you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I didn't even want to be together again in the future, so let's leave, don't waste time.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Make friends with a 27-year-old boy first, and say that I like you within four days, which is also a kind of indecent performance You have to be more mature yourself Don't sell yourself easily Besides, it's easy to chase others won't cherish it too much Hehe, just pay attention to your love art.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The landlord is cautious, after all, he is seven years older than you!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Age is not a problem, older people still know that the key is to see if you like him too! Let's make a friend first

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's not too late to date for a while to see if he's sincere, but also to clarify the relationship and go as a friend, hehe, but if you have a good impression of her, that. I wish you happiness.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Let's be friends first!If you make another decision, it's not a problem to be 7 years older!My husband is also 7 years older than me

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Love at first sight?And then the more you see, the more affectionate you getFinally, after 4 days of torment, he finally confessedOr was it premeditated?

    But anyway, I also recommend getting to know each other more before making a decision!As for the issue of age, it may have been very important in the past, but now it's 2010, and as long as it's not too disparity, who cares about it?

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Be friends first, see how others are, and then decide.

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