Should I choose someone who is three years older than me or six years older?

Updated on society 2024-06-07
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm more inclined to the one who is three years older, but there are opportunities and risks. Going abroad is certainly risky, but what should you do if you meet a confidant in a foreign country? But then again, going abroad and coming back must be more promising.

    And the family conditions are somewhat better than the latter, which should also be taken into account.

    But if it's me, I'll take a look at it again... Because neither of them is very emotional, and you will get tired of getting along for a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Follow your heart.

    If you are still hesitating, you can not rush to make a choice for the time being, if they are sincere to you, they will respect you and wait for you.

    However, remind female compatriots that in fact, every boy will be very good to girls during the period of chasing girls, so you should pay more attention to the way he usually treats people.

    As my friend said, a boy in 3 years, when he goes to study abroad, the environment will change a lot, and no one can guarantee whether his personality and heart for you will change accordingly.

    20 years old is really quite young, no matter who you are with, you have to be kind to yourself, think more about yourself, only if you have to take care of yourself, he will realize that you need to be cared for!

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think the second one. You agreed to the first one, do you think he won't change his mind in the next three years when he doesn't come back?

    It mainly depends on how you feel.

    Two people can't be forced together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Landlord, you are a person who is not very assertive. What you need is a gentle and strong man. In my opinion.

    Let's look at the situation first, marriage is a lifelong affair of two families. Nobody wants to leave. You have to examine both parties, which one loves you more.

    I feel more sorry for you. But it seems to me that you will be more interested in the person who is kind to you and gentle to you. But it doesn't have to be your son.

    Perhaps. But I don't know. So be careful to stay sane.

    Take it seriously.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Choose to be 6 years older, mature thinking, have a certain amount of experience, he should really like you, go abroad? You don't have to wait, you basically see the flower world outside, and I don't have much feeling for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not to see how old you are, but to see who you like more, who can live better, the later stage of love is destined to be bland, to take a long-term view, I personally think it is better to be 6 years older The one who studied abroad is not realistic, can you guarantee that he will not change his mind for 3 years?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    But I don't think you like either. I don't know how to choose, I don't choose. Everything goes naturally, maybe your true destiny will appear tomorrow.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This one must be the right one. No matter how big it is, ask them a difficult question that is relevant to you, see the reaction, and then decide.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now love has nothing to do with the boundaries of age, if you really love each other, then tolerate each other and get married! Hee-hee, I wish you all happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A 30-year-old girl definitely doesn't have time to wait for you, and women at this age are a little hated to marry.

    If your relationship is okay, then you think that what separates you should be her maturity.

    You're only 24, and many boys haven't had enough fun at this age, and girls at her age should be quite mature, whether it's talking or living, so you think you'll be different, that's why you're separated by something.

    You don't have much time to think, and if you really like her, make a decision early.

    There's no need to think about it so much, as long as your relationship is genuine, that's enough.

    And physiologically, women are bigger than men, which is not a bad thing, and it is suitable for later life in harmony.

    Women are more realistic at this age.

    If you waver, she won't be able to wait for you, and she will feel that you are not sincere to her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then she likes you No, not every sister likes to take care of her younger brother My brother asks for care of me I ask for protection I don't feel safe or something, it's really annoying Even if I have a good impression and take into account the age problem, the family problem, and in case it doesn't match, she doesn't have much time to find one After all, it's 30.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The flowers are similar every year, and the people are different every year!Don't say that you have no chance in this life and wait for the next life; Don't say that the tears are dry and the heart is broken; Don't say that we can't tell the sun from dawn. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, when you don't come, handsome is no more, spirituality is gone, I am already soaked in red dust and condensed into frost for you.

    Sigh year after year, hate the years and years of parting, and the words fall into a sad freehand. The words of the heart turned into smoke and clouds, and it took a thousand kinds of lovesickness. I'm lonely, how can I sigh alone!

    Remember that the dream of this life is not broken.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm not your Lejia teacher, but there is something I still want to say to you, that is, age is not the limit, since I like people in my heart, I will be brave enough to pursue her! I sincerely wish you all happiness and happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Talk to her, figure out what she thinks, and make a decision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you know why she's separating you? Talk to her more and find out what is going on in her heart. If you really love her, respect her ideas and think about her as well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Remove the "like" from "like", that's overwhelming! I a girl who was 6 years older than me!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Brother. Meet true love! Don't be swayed by the odds. You try to be brave enough to tell her everything at once, and that age and the ridicule of others can't stand in the way of true love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Pursue your true love! However, that girl is indeed older, if you really love her, get married quickly! Doesn't she want to have a sibling relationship?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Nothing. Age is not an issue.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then get married as soon as possible.

    Still look at fate? Fate is a very unstable thing. Since you haven't decided that you want to leave or not, then you don't want to delay others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You're not even old enough to get married, so what about you playing with others?

    Do you know puberty sprouting? You're still in adolescence. Children.

    It's just a great youth to delay people!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Age is not an issue. The real difference in height!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It won't come to fruition, forget her, I had the same experience.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is understandable, but you may just have a longing for the other person, an ignorant idea, not necessarily that you really like the other person.

    It seems that you don't have a lot of contact with the other party, if it's really the same thing as what I said, then I hope you don't say it blindly, because you are likely to think of her because you don't know the other person and imagine the other party too perfectly, and you may not know the real person.

    It is recommended not to confess for the time being, get to know the other person more, and if you are sure that you love the other person rather than longing for it, then be brave enough to say it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, for today's society, age can no longer stop 2 people who love each other. As long as both parties' hearts are sincere, but you still have to distinguish whether the other party is friendly or love to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Age is not an issue, the most important thing is that you love each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Age is not an issue, but I advise you to think about it again and discuss it with your family, after all, the future life is not just two people can live.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, you have to figure out what you are for but you must know that being 6 years older than you means that she will age earlier than you, and will encounter some inevitable embarrassment later, you must accept what likes her, think about the reason, is it a momentary impulse.

    I read your question, you are playing like, why not love.

    It's that you don't feel that way about her.

    But if you really think about it after you wake up, you have a real love for her, then I bless you and be brave to chase, age is only the length of time a person stays in the world, not a mountain of obstacles.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Pro, be rational, it's a little too big, it's not that it's not good to love sisters and brothers, but most of them are unhappy after marriage, after all, women age fast.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're still young, just impulsive, just like not love, and at the age of 6, you rushed down to get married. Don't hurt others or yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    ...No, 6 years older than you, confess to him, if you miss it, you will regret it.

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