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1. Stick to it as long as you can get by, and don't mention divorce whenever you can, otherwise it will hurt your feelings.

2. Who is the main business leader, if you also give a lot, you can discuss with your husband to give you some money to dispose of.

3. Your husband's approach is right, it is very fair for your parents to send money, you don't need to ask for more for your parents, after all, his parents are divorced. It can also be seen that he is an emotional person.

4. You have to judge clearly, as long as he is sincere and sincere with you, don't quarrel anymore, it's too unnecessary.

5. The problem of the property certificate does not actually exist, but your husband's statement is correct, because you are a little unreasonable and only recognize the feeling of money, husband and wife live a life, there is always someone to come to the main, unless you are better at it, but at present, you don't have your husband to run the house, and it makes sense that he refuses to give it to you.

6. Take a step back and open the sky, you don't care, your husband will trust you and give you money.

As a child who grew up in a single-parent family, his psychology is more or less deviant Maybe he is affected by this and has such an attitude towards you, you have to be more understanding and tolerant Let him find a sense of security in you Since you choose to marry him, he has his advantages Quarrels are very hurtful There is no overnight feud between husband and wife If there is no principled problem, everything is not a problem You start a business together and run together for the purpose of living better When you quarrel, you can't just see each other wrong Calm down and think about whether you are also at fault Do you have a baby? Having a cute baby that belongs to you may improve a lot You remember that it is his parents anyway Don't worry about more money and less money He may think that his parents are two families And your parents live together as a family Although I don't agree with your husband's approach You have to discuss it slowly Slowly influence it Talk calmly The reason why he does it will definitely have an effect And don't keep talking about divorce Even if you are angry, don't say this unless you can't make up your mind Jin Wuzu is not perfect.

The issue of feelings is complicated, and it depends on how you deal with it.

Obviously, your husband is selfish, you can try to analyze the reasons for his selfishness, and prescribe the right medicine. Blindly making a character will be counterproductive.

In addition, I advise you to have the ability to survive, if you can support yourself, then your economic status will be independent. Anyway, it's not something that can be said clearly in a few words. Be sure to be independent in all aspects, then your family status will also improve.

The house you bought after marriage, no matter whose name it is, is the joint property of the husband and wife, including everything in the family, what do you have to worry about, does your husband think that you spend money generously and is unwilling to let you control the financial power, don't think too much, communicate well, after all, it is not a big deal, and it has not affected your feelings.

If you find that your husband is an extremely selfish person, whether it is to the point of divorce depends on the specific situation.

If his extreme selfishness has affected your normal life, and you can no longer bear it in this life, feel very depressed and difficult, have no way to control your emotions, and have no way to accept his extreme selfishness, then you can only choose to divorce. After all, whether or not you want a divorce is determined by your own subjective assumptions, not by the judgment of others. When you feel that there is no longer any fun and meaning in life, then only the path of divorce is the right path for you.

But if his rhythm is selfish, and it just seems incredible to others, but you can accept it yourself, and the company can tolerate it, then there is no need for divorce. So this is still different from person to person, depending on your own perception.

However, extremely selfish people are indeed helpless, after all, they are born to have a good family and life. The husband's extreme selfishness will only put the family in a predicament, that is, either everyone becomes extremely selfish, or they are forever selfless and selfless. In either case, it is difficult to accept, or it is possible that in the long run, the other party will be able to compromise and accept this life.

The marriage relationship can be maintained, but any girl who has ideas, in the face of such a husband, will not have any love, and the relationship will only become very weak, and even the emotional breakdown, such a marriage does not make much sense to continue.

When having a child, the child can also experience the direct impact of the father's selfishness on him, that is, he may also become extremely selfish, which is also very detrimental to the growth of the child, so if the husband can not change at this time, you might as well try to find your own new life, after all, people's lives are very long, and it is not good to live in such an environment and family.

You should divorce him, because selfish people are very scary, they only love themselves, they don't know how to care for others, such a married life will only make you worse and worse, so you should divorce him.

Of course, you have to divorce such a man, because he is very irresponsible to you and doesn't care about you very much, so you should divorce in the face of such a person.

Don't divorce the other party, you are already married, you should solve this matter, so that you don't feel very unhappy, and you won't let others look down on you.

The husband is very selfish, is it not du should divorce immediately, treat it differently.

zhi。If the relationship between the two parties is indeed broken, and there is no power to reconcile, divorce can be considered; Otherwise, it is advisable to consider carefully, after all, marriage is not child's play.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

Of course, such a man wants to leave.

1. Even their own children.

Du Zhi is not raised, and a man still has to rely on DAO to support you to live, to say that it is ugly.

Hello, I don't know if you and your husband have any other contradictions in addition to the economy, "he is reluctant to spend a cent of the money he earns", "he never gives the family, and I pay for the expenses" is not the AA system (some couples around us AA system, most people are very unacceptable), it is excessive, I don't know how you have allowed it to develop like this in recent years, I think this is not a simple economy can be summarized, even Scrooge is just like that, it's a little ugly, But I really thought so after seeing your description. "It is said that it will be left to the child as an inheritance in the future" "The child is now two years old, and he is not even willing to give milk powder money after birth" Can the child grow up without milk, and if he can't grow up healthily, how can he inherit the inheritance? It is most unrealistic to look forward to the future despite the present.

Now my mother is seriously ill and needs money urgently. He said it wasn't his parents who couldn't have given it. "It's really a bit ruthless, and he's also a mother-in-law, but it's conceivable to see that he is reluctant to spend money on his own children.

I didn't think of me as a family. "Does he treat the child as his own family, isn't he reluctant to pay for milk powder and the cost of hiring a nanny, they are still related by blood, let alone you? So I think your husband is a person who values money very much, at least more than feelings, more than children than you.

Have you talked to him about your thoughts?" is now my mother seriously ill and in dire need of money. He said it wasn't his parents who couldn't have given it. I am an only daughter and have no siblings to share the pressure with.

In the future, when I get sick, I guess he will do the same, no matter what. Your worries, apprehensions, and insecurity.

I think that because of this divorce, it will not solve the problem, because your mother's expenses will not be raised after the divorce, and "divorce is very shameful." And I can't bear to have children, I'm 31 years old this year, and there is pressure to remarry. "It's better for you to talk and determine the post-menstrual AA system, the family also has his share, everyone contributes, you can also give your share of the rest of the support to your mother, as for the urgent need now, you ask him to help, lend it to you first, after all, it is important to save people."

He is a typical miser, he said that he gave the child as an inheritance, it was ridiculous, and now the child is alive in front of his eyes, and the money in the milk powder is not allowed to be given and the property will be given?

And with his current situation, what will happen to the children's school expenses and living expenses in the future? If you are the only one who does it, then what does he do.

I think it's better to divorce and divide half of his property, at least to protect your children, maybe you won't get anything for the rest of your life, and you're still angry!

If it's my mother-in-law who is sick, old.

If the mother-in-law has brothers and sisters, then I have to pay at least half of the money, and the wife wants to be an only daughter, then I have to smash the pot and sell iron, you can't have a husband like you, it is recommended to leave him, be resolute, rather lack than abuse, and, you have to go to the court first to sue (note, not to sue for divorce first), sue him to pay, one party in the marriage gets half of the rights and interests of the other party, 200w you can at least divide 100w, legally speaking, your mother's medical expenses must be from your family, and your family, including the two of you, got it.

Your husband is not your average selfish. It really hurts for you. If you really can't get by, just leave. It's just that it hurts the child.

I only say it once.

As for the dao problem that others look at the law after divorce and it is difficult to remarry, I can only say that inside, those are all superficial.

The clouds will pass.

For a man who is unwilling to spend money for his wife and children, no matter how much money he has, I am quite speechless. Money is not the problem, the problem is responsibility! Of course, because you don't know what attracts you to him, handsome?

The perfect sex life? You are not a woman who burns buns with a lot of money, and you should review it yourself. Also, for the sake of your child, you can't learn from him, so no matter what, the farther away from him the better.

Can't get divorced, your lover is stingy, but not divorced, as long as he really saves the money, it means that he still has cuteness, he can only say that it is a problem of character, his essence is good, just you have to communicate well, I think he will change, the truth is caused by the golden stone for the open.

Tianla. Is such a man still a man? Divorce him and divide half of his fortune...

It depends on whether you choose to suffer for a while, or for a lifetime.

You can talk to him first, talk about your thoughts, and see what kind of attitude your husband has, if he is still his style, I think it's better to leave, otherwise how will this life go on.

Your parents are sick and they don't give it That's not a matter of saving money at all It's your man who has a problem Divorce what's the use of such a person Don't care what others think You have a clear conscience and it's over, and you still say that you will leave an inheritance to your children? Your child is only 2 years old. The man was speechless.

As the saying goes, "I'd rather demolish ten temples than destroy one family", it is impossible to persuade you to divorce, but your husband's behavior is indeed a little unbearable, and I hope to find some way to help you.

Leave, if you don't leave, you'll drive yourself crazy!!

What you two are entangled with is not whether he loves you or not, but why they quarreled, and this is also the problem to be solved, if you don't quarrel, there will be no such thing as divorce if he can't go on

Why quarrel? Whether he doesn't care enough about you or the economy is tight, these are the key, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, it depends on what they are quarreling for, you have an emotional foundation to get married, marriage must be managed, men should not say divorce at every turn, everything else can be said, don't say this word, this is the bottom line. I see that you don't want to get divorced, but you can't help but quarrel, you analyze the reason, whether it is your own problem or his, and then try to solve it, you don't have much information, so I can only say this, I hope it can help you.

He thinks you're finding fault and making him angry.

When you quarrel, you talk angrily, but don't always quarrel and it really affects the relationship.