Do you have to go to a confinement center for confinement, is it necessary to go to a confinement ce

If no one takes care of them, they can go, they are still very experienced, and there should be other mothers there, and everyone can exchange some experiences together, and it will not be so boring.

It's okay to be at home, usually the family will come, if you don't understand, you can hire a confinement lady for a month.

I haven't been there, but because I haven't, I envy the people who can go to the confinement center, and I feel like they just want to enjoy it.

Because I didn't rest well during the confinement period, the whole person became irritable, affecting everyone's emotions, so I felt that I had already known that I would go to the confinement center, although I didn't know much about what services were in the confinement center, whether I could let the woman who had just given birth have a good rest, whether it could make the mother mentally healthy, I understood, but I thought that if I had a second child, I must go, otherwise I would not let go in my life, and I would remember the pain of confinement for the first time for the rest of my life.

It may be that the confinement center is better advertised, which makes me so envious, of course, I should also go if my own economic conditions allow. I think if you want to consider going to the confinement center, or before giving birth, you must think about it clearly, don't easily listen to others, I just listened to the family, saying that there are four old people in the family, so many people in confinement can not wait? Facts have proved that the more people there are, the more, the reason why I collapsed is not that I haven't rested well, I really haven't rested well, plus one doesn't know how to take care of a newborn, except for my mother who understands a little, others don't even dare to help get dressed, so there are more conflicts in the family, and my temper is big, I don't feel well, except that my body will be uncomfortable, my whole heart has changed a lot, I want to scold people every day, my mother feels sorry for me, wants to accompany the night, help me take care of it, my mother-in-law said that this is their young business, That's what I said before I was born, but why did you object to me finding a confinement lady or going to a confinement center?

It's improved a lot now, but during the dark confinement period, I had palpitations.

So if you have the conditions, let's go for it, after all, it's only once or twice in a lifetime, compared to family harmony, the baby is comfortable, not sinned, and nothing matters.

1. In the case of economic conditions, the confinement center is recommended first.

In the first month of life, the child's own needs are still very numerous, and the confinement center has professional staff who can take care of the child. And because she has just experienced childbirth, Bao Ma also needs more quality rest time to better recover her body. The formal and professional confinement center, general catering snacks, as well as the baby's daily bathing touch, sleeping, and breastfeeding are all taken care of very comprehensively.

With a new member in the family, everyone will be overwhelmed and pay too much attention to the mother and baby, while in the confinement center, you can give the members of the family more time to adapt to the arrival of the new member.

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2. It is recommended that parents take care of them.

Being taken care of by family members is the choice of more ordinary people, and it is economical. It's just that when taking care of the family, it may be more about experience, and the recognition of the elders is not very high. Give a suggestion, if you choose to be taken care of by the elders at home for confinement, it is recommended that you can buy a confinement meal on a certain treasure, and the amount of about 30 days is fine.

After such production, let the family cook the meals according to the confinement meal ingredients, which can avoid many conflicts caused by different concepts.

That's what I did, I bought a confinement meal and asked my mother-in-law to cook it for me, so the food in the confinement was not greasy, the weight was declining as a whole, and there was no increase, but the baby's weight growth was in line with the growth curve, and the growth was gratifying, hehe. After all, you will be more likely to eat healthy after confinement, rather than being too greasy and becoming fat after confinement.

The main contradiction is that the parents, seven aunts and eight aunts around you may tell you some of the experiences of those who have come over. For example, if the baby is crying, he is hungry, he can't take a bath, he can't wash his hair, he can't wear more clothes, etc.

In this regard, you need to be mentally prepared, you can read more professional parenting books at this time, to prevent you from losing confidence in taking care of your doll because you hear too many suggestions.

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3. Hire a babysitter.

Although I have never hired a nanny, I have relatives around me who have hired a nanny, and the results are very bad. The main problem is that the nanny is not dedicated enough to regret the early career, and then what to do, and this nanny is still introduced by an acquaintance, and then the nanny left a month later, and the whole Wuque's family breathed a sigh of relief.

Of course, it is not denied that there are some good nannies, but we need to see if our character can be found, if the home is inconvenient and you need to hire a nanny, it is recommended to see a few more intermediaries, you can also interview more nannies, and then determine which nanny to invite. Don't listen to other people's introductions unilaterally, or rely on company introductions to choose a nanny. Picking a bad nanny is much worse than taking care of your parents, and the cost is not cheap.

The bad heart in the confinement is enough to make people remember it for a long, long time... For a long time.