When I went out to dinner with my boss, he paid the bill first, and I transferred the money to him,

Updated on society 2024-06-02
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If that's the case, he really doesn't accept it, then you have to buy her some gifts or something, and if he really doesn't want it, he must make up for it next time, and he must invite him, and he must make up for this shortcoming. It is very impolite and unreasonable not to say that you owe the leader, and it will make him have a shadow in his heart. So the right thing to do is to find a time to ask him back, so that he can save face.

    You'll be able to do things again, and the leader will like you more, if you can buy him some gifts that he likes. He will be happier, he thinks you will do things, so he will take care of you more and like you more. Sometimes if you have the opportunity, you may be promoted, so be sure to handle these relationships well, if you don't handle them well, it will still have a big impact on you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since this is the case, I don't think you should give your leader this money, because your leader thinks that he can bear such a money, and the leader you give to him will also make your leader feel faceless, so he will not take your money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's no problem for the boss to pay the bill once in a while, you can tell him, how can you get the leader to ask for it. I'll ask for it, you can collect the money, if he doesn't take it, forget it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is that you didn't do a good job, and you should have quietly bought the bill when you went out to eat with your boss. A boss like you bought the bill, and you should wait for the next opportunity to ask him out for dinner and apologize, but you can't say anything about the last time he paid for it. This would make him look very stingy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No need to be reminded, he'll see. If you really don't accept it, please go back when you have a chance to do it later. If not, just back up the generous gifts and go home during the festival to show your gratitude.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, you mean that the leader helped you pay for the meal at the unit. But you transferred money to him, and he didn't ask for it. You don't know how.

    This is really not possible because the leader helped him pay for the meal. That heart will. It's very confusing.

    I always feel indebted to the leader. In fact, if the leader doesn't want the money, you have already sent it to him. He doesn't want to.

    Then in the rest of your life, you invite her to eat again. in a particular environment. Maybe if you have the chance, then you do the east and treat him to a meal.

    I think it's good that way, and I don't need to. Push back and forth to pay back the money. It's too much work.

    In our lives, sometimes it is easy to encounter this kind of thing, that is, when you are eating or doing something, you meet someone else? Someone else paid for himself. Expenses.

    At this time, I really wanted to buy this waste. The fee is returned to the people, but the people just don't want it. So it's hard to find in this case.

    I guess then we'll do it. No, pay first, and when you have the opportunity later. Treat him again in the same way.

    Let's see if that's okay. I don't think it's too embarrassing. Otherwise, if you pay him back, he won't be embarrassed, urging and making trouble.

    It's not good, especially the leadership part, it's not easy to get it.

    Whether it is a leader or a colleague, it is actually quite normal to have a window to each other together, let's not take the leader like that. So sacred. There is a sense of sacrosanctity, in fact, he is also a normal person, and you can get along with him in a normal way.

    It is. It took her face to spend her face, because after all, the road ahead is very long. A little bit of walking may be enough.

    Anyway, he's a favor. So don't worry too much. There is always a time when the favor will be returned.

    Wait patiently. Wait for the favor to pass.

    In reality, there is also one that is. I feel very embarrassed when I owe someone a favor, so I have always taken the initiative to hurry up, and I won't be so busy paying it back. It may be after a while.

    I was able to pay off a little bit and pay it back. Don't take that thing today, you have to pay it back tomorrow, and you don't have to last two days. You should be fine.

    Is there a sentence that you don't say? The world owes the world no money.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Expressing gratitude to the leader, looking for an opportunity to return favors, such as helping the leader buy food or other things?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he doesn't want it, you can say that the leader will invite me last time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How else can I say that I will help him pay for the next meal, and it is best not to owe favors I personally think this is very good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Thank you leadership for your help. I feel very warm in my heart for your help. If I have the chance, I would like to treat you to a meal and you can express my gratitude to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no need to pay for a meal with the leader, it depends on the situation. I'm sure everyone has experienced something like this. When eating near the company, they will meet their own leaders, some of whom deliberately sit at the same table as you.

    In this case, the heart of a normal person should be tangled together. Want to help leaders pay? Not paying will make the leader feel that this person is stingy, and he will wear small shoes in the future.

    If you pay the leader, your colleagues will think that he is pleasing the leader. Either way, it's embarrassing to do anything. Here are some ways to fix the problem.

    Try not to choose a restaurant that settles accounts after the meal. This way, even if you meet the leader, you won't feel embarrassed because you have already bought the order and can't buy it anymore. When he ordered, he had already bought it himself, so it would not be embarrassing.

    We must face this situation generously. You are not obligated to pay for him. However, to alleviate the embarrassment, you can order two bottles of juice, one for the leader and one for you, which will also make a good impression on the leader.

    When you meet a leader, you can generously invite the leader to dinner. Directly say that a friend invites you to dinner. It's free.

    No matter how stupid the leader is, he will not eat with you. When your friend invites you to dinner, he is not inviting him. Moreover, he doesn't know your friends.

    It's awkward to sit together, and the general leader will reject your kindness, which will make the leader make a good impression on you.

    We really can't underestimate the knowledge about diet. According to Chinese customs, more than half of the business of enterprises is negotiated at the dinner table. Lots of knowledge at dinner.

    The next time you meet with a leader at a dinner party, don't run away and don't respond generously. There are few opportunities to connect with leaders. This is the perfect time for you to show off your style.

    Take out your usual self-confidence, master the way you speak, and always pay attention to the leader's expression. If you are impatient, tidy up your mood, even if the leader does not give you a salary increase for the time being, you will definitely leave a good impression in your heart, and you must seize the opportunity next time you see the leader.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should pay the money, because it is a kind of respect for the leader, and it will also make the leader feel that you are a good person to get along with.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think we should pay the money, because it is very appropriate and will not cause embarrassment to the leadership.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think yes, doing this will make the leader have a better impression of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Needless to say, please come back next time

    1.The act of stealing the bill is by no means simply more than enough, but you value the friendship between you more. Of course, it's not that the leader doesn't cherish it, it's just that his heart thinks a little richer.

    2.First, I don't want to trouble the leader to break the bank, and second, he really treats you as a friend. Have you ever seen those hypocritical friends pretend to rush to pay with you, but in the end they can't rob you? Or there is no intention of paying at all, and they take the opportunity to leave.

    3.Of course, you may not see each other for a long time, and this behavior may be embarrassing for you, but ask yourself, you must find this behavior very comfortable.

    4.How many people are there who can bring comfort? Therefore, such friends are worthy of deep friendship; Slowly, you will find that there are fewer and fewer such people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello: You can tell him tactfully that you have already paid, if he still insists on it, then you can say, I can reimburse you for this meal, but you can't ask me to reimburse you for the money, then it is not good for him to insist on giving you the reimbursement money, because you have already given him. Hope it can help you and good luck.

    The leader invited me to dinner, but I had already paid for it. What should I do if the leader has to give money?

    Q: I'm an ordinary employee in the company, and the head of our department is a petty person. Our company's rule is to invite customers to dinner once a month.

    But my supervisor doesn't invite people from our department to dinner every month. Once our company wanted to invite a customer to dinner, our supervisor asked me to invite the customer to dinner, but I didn't agree, so I didn't invite him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The leader eats, the leader pays the bill, but pays the price in advance, which means standing out. An act of omission. If the leader has to, respect and disobey.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you have a meal with the leader, but the leader pays, you can consider the following:

    1.Show gratitude: Show gratitude to the leader and let him know that you appreciate his generosity and kindness.

    2.Share the cost: If you want to share part of the cost, you can take the initiative to pay for the next few meals, or buy some small gifts or coffee for the leader to express your gratitude.

    3.Don't take expenses for granted: Even though the leader pays the money, you shouldn't take this behavior for granted. For future meals, you can offer to pay or offer to split the cost.

    4.Don't invite the leader to dinner again: If you invite the leader to dinner again, it may make him feel uncomfortable or misunderstand your intentions. You can look for other ways to show your appreciation, such as giving a small gift or card.

    Most importantly, respect the decisions of the leader and maintain professional courtesy and good relationships.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is normal for leaders to invite them to dinner. Leaders have a lot of income, and it is also appropriate to invite colleagues to dinner occasionally and gather team strength. If you transfer money to the leader, it will be very outspoken.

    You can pay for it the next time you have a meal, or send some home or hometown specialties to the leader during the festival, and it's over. When checking out, remember not to push around with the leader and rush to pay, which is not decent.

    But it still depends on who the beneficiary of this meal is, there is no need to worry about the benefit forbearance is the leader, the beneficiary has you and him, and next time find a reason to ask for it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Although it is a generous gesture for the leader to take the initiative to pay the bill, it also makes you feel a little lost and uncomfortable. As a social person, you may feel that this is an embarrassing or unfair situation. However, you can alleviate the situation by expressing your feelings.

    Say how you feel, for example, "Thank you very much for your generosity, but I actually invited you to this meal and I should pay the bill." This shows your gratitude and makes your ideas valued.

    Eventually, you can show your sincerity and gratitude again in later interactions to strengthen your relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The leader invited me to dinner, but I had already paid for it. What should I do if the leader has to give money?

    The best way to do this is to treat the leader's "treat" as a form of friendship or respect, so you can politely refuse to give him money, and at the same time show that you are completely accepting of his friendship or respect. That is, it is possible to say "thank you very much for the gift, I can accept your friendship, but the money has already been paid, and there is really no need to give money anymore". In this way, you can politely express Min Xianzao's thoughts to a certain extent, and avoid an uncomfortable atmosphere because of this matter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

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    I don't think so. But since the leader can transfer money to you, it means that he doesn't want to take advantage of her, and he doesn't want you to think that she is a person who is greedy for profit, so he should also sincerely want to return the money to you. You can first politely excuse and tell the leader that it should be, don't be so polite, if the leader insists on paying it back, but you can't shirk it, then accept it.

    The leader said please eat, and I will settle the bill at the end! In the end, I should not accept the transfer of the leader.

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    I don't think so. But since the leader can transfer money to you, it means that he doesn't want to take advantage of her, and he doesn't want you to think that she is a person who is greedy for profit, so he should also sincerely want to return the money to you. You can first politely excuse and tell the leader that it should be, don't be so polite, if the leader insists on paying it back, but you can't shirk it, then accept it.

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