What are some of the moments when you think a girl is very sensible and educated?

I know a girl who never pokes at other people's sore spots when she speaks, nor does she divulge secrets, nor does she not mix with other people's feelings.

When I talk to her again, she will smile and pretend to hear it for the first time, she will smile and say thank you to the waitress and other groups that pay for herself, she will accommodate the elderly and children, and she will pretend that she didn't see it and didn't hear it when others are embarrassed.

will reason with you, and will not come up with a sentence: how you are, how you are.

I used to have a good relationship with a friend.,I told her who I had chased and what was ugly.,Later, I don't know why I didn't get in touch.。 But she didn't tell me anything about me in the years that followed.

My girlfriend and I used to share the same dormitory, and when my mobile phone came, if I was staring at the screen for more than three seconds and didn't answer, she would just want to go to the bathroom or go to the balcony to stroll around, giving me space to avoid embarrassment.

When we brushed our teeth together, she buried her head very low, almost just above the sink, and she didn't splash me at all.

One night I played ** with a female friend, I took care of myself and ridiculed, but the other party did not respond, I said, "Why don't you squeak, sleepy or", she sent a WeChat message over: "My roommate is sleeping, you say, I'll type." ”

A good friend in high school, we often go to the cafeteria to eat together, she usually eats less than me, but every time she eats together, I didn't pay attention to it at first, but then I found out that she didn't eat slowly, but every time there was not much left in the bowl, she slowed down, and then put down the chopsticks with me, and I was really full of emotion.

One of my classmates, every time she borrowed my power bank, she came back with a full battery, which really felt very educated.

When the daughter of a relative came to my house to pay New Year's greetings, she greeted my parents as soon as she entered the door, and after she came, she did not sit idle and go to the kitchen to help my mother, wash vegetables and chop vegetables.

A girl in the class will refuse in time to those she doesn't like, will not deliberately hang others, and will not consume the boy's time and feelings.

A girl's move will instantly make you feel very educated. For example, girls will pay attention to proportions when they speak, and the moment they take care of other people's feelings will make me feel very educated, and real education is not to be humble everywhere and let yourself suffer, but to do a good job within the bottom line. Start with the little things in life, be sincere, responsible, humble and polite.

In a family with a good family style, because to continue the good educational tradition, parents are well aware of the importance of teaching by word and deed, and will strictly abide by the family rules to set a good example for their children. Under the influence of such an environment, her daughter knows how to abide by the rules when she is a child, and has a sense of civility and etiquette, because it is imperceptibly imperceptible for a long time, such a girl's words and deeds are the embodiment of subconscious upbringing. This can't be bought with money, and it can't be made overnight, only by developing such a habit will you maintain such a style.

1.Be polite.

If a girl is very educated, he will be very polite, will not lose his temper, and will not show his bad mood in front of anyone very obviously, so this is also a kind of politeness, because he will not spread his negative energy to other people to prove that it is also a kind of responsibility and a responsibility.

2.No swearing.

If a girl is always full of swearing, then the impression of this girl is very bad, at least it makes people feel like a social person, this is not a compliment, but a kind of er, sarcasm and ridicule. Fifteen words will make people feel very comfortable, and if a person always makes people feel particularly uncomfortable, then this person is also very uneducated.

3.Don't rely too much on others.

If a person is always overly dependent on others, then this person's upbringing is not very good, after all, everyone has their own busy things and things to do, and not everyone has to revolve around you, so many times, if a girl always makes people feel that it is very dependent on others, it is very bad.

4.Attitude towards elders.

If a person's attitude towards the elders is particularly bad, it means that the person is very pampered and has no politeness, that is, he is very uneducated, so many times in the evaluation of a girl to see how he is to the people around him, then you know how he is a person.

1. Observe time.

A well-bred girl is very time-conscious, whether it is for class or for an appointment, they will not be late, because they know that if they are late, their friends or others arrive first, it is disrespectful to the friends who are on time, and it will give people the impression of not being punctual.

2. Don't interrupt others' conversations.

In the process of communicating with others, they will not interrupt between the conversations of others, but respect and tolerate the views and opinions of others, listen patiently to the other party's speeches first, and wait until the other party has finished all of them to supplement and refute their own views and opinions, explain the reason, give others a reference, and let the opposite distinguish and analyze, instead of accusing the other party.

3. Listen patiently.

Calm girls always listen patiently to each other first, look into each other's eyes, and stay focused when communicating with others, and do not act as indifferent and absent-minded, they know that this behavior is also disrespectful to others.

Fourth, the tone of speech is calm.

Girls who know the etiquette in public places will be calm in communicating with others, will not make loud noises, snatch the right to speak, but listen patiently, treat them with a fair heart, and convince people with reason, not miserable personal selfishness, this kind of girl can often give people the impression of being well-read and reasonable, and will not be annoying.

5. Don't be arrogant.

This kind of girl will not emphasize the special side of the individual in the process of interacting with others, nor will she deliberately show her superiority, but communicate with a humble and humble attitude.

When a girl feels very educated, it is a test of a girl's upbringing, she can control herself when she is angry, and he doesn't argue when something needs to be argued, and at this time he shows that he is very educated.