What does it mean for a girl to have a boyfriend and ask me out for dinner? I confessed to her befor

Updated on psychology 2024-02-22
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's supposed to treat you like a spare tire.

    Now, I think of you. When I confessed to her before, she didn't take a fancy to you. Now she may have some emotional problems.

    I remember that you once confessed to her, and I may still have her in my heart, and I want to ask you to have a meal together, tell you about the bitterness in your heart, and talk about your previous feelings. Let's see if you're still interested in her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Did you ask her out first? Who started first, the average girl to the person who likes herself, even if she refuses, will be a little self-righteous and superior, feel that the other party likes me, I can do a little, in fact, it seems to be the same!

    Maybe it's because she's been in a bad relationship lately, and she wants to find some sense of presence in you to satisfy her inner sense of superiority! Or just get together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello this netizen, this question of mine is, this is very likely to be, you think too much, just ordinary friends, you just want to have a meal together, it may also be that the girl wants to say something to you, so I ask you to eat, but I personally think that you still think too much, you are just ordinary friends. Don't overthink it. Everything is natural.

    Go with the flow! Let it be!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The reason why the girl asks you out to dinner may be because she is in a bad mood. So I wanted to ask you out. Let's have a chat and relax. He may just think of you as a friend, and you don't think about it too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is because she can't let go of her heart, or she has an awkward relationship with her boyfriend and wants to ask you to confide in her feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think she just wants to find a free lunch, and you are honored to be chosen.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is estimated that there is a setback in the relationship, and I want to talk to you, or it may be an appointment.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1, she may have quarreled with her boyfriend, and then wants to be angry with her boyfriend 2, using you as a spare tire, thinking that you still like her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's possible that I've had a fight with my boyfriend, I'm depressed, and I want to talk to you.

    Because you confessed before, you naturally think you can understand her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I want to treat you as a spare tire and take care of myself as a stranger.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It may be that you are in a bad mood or have a conflict with your boyfriend, so I asked you out. It shows that you are sensible enough or you don't really love her at all, otherwise you will agree without saying a word.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's thinking that you're a good boy, and your boyfriend may have quarreled and is in a bad mood. Only you can speak from your heart. If you love it, go for it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Enjoy the feeling of being chased, and the spare tire is more likely.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Girls have boyfriends.

    I also asked you out to dinner.

    What is the meaning.

    After you eat with her.

    You know what she means.

    She is asking for you.

    Or use you as a spare tire.

    After you eat with her.

    You'll know what's going on.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm going to use you as a spare tire, so you can do it yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's normal, maybe he will also refuse, he likes other people, it is possible that he confesses. It's not a normal phenomenon ...

    It's not that he rejected you, and then others will like you, he will accept him, this is not necessarily, maybe he was also rejected by others, and then he thinks you are relatively better, they are all weighing and playing, it is possible that you are indeed a spare tire.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Spare wheel! Arrangement! Tool man! Arrangement!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Today's refusal does not mean that you will refuse in the future, girls probably look at your future performance, send your love and sincerity, if you like her, you will have more contact with her, more contact, you will be patient with her! Use your own heart to do more touching things for her That girl is sensible, you'd better be as sensible as her Whenever she's unhappy, you make her happy When she's happy, rejoice with her When she's in trouble, you show up at the first moment to help her, as long as you are loving, you like her, and give everything in front of her for her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that this girl has no love for you, but she doesn't hate you either.

    Can't be lovers, but does she mean we can still be friends? So it's normal for you to drink milk tea and eat.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Empty, lonely, and cold, I need my girlfriend to eat, drink, and chat with me, but I can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. When a guy says "contact first", he may want to show his concern and interest in you, but he still needs more time and opportunities to get to know you. He may be asking you out to dinner to get to know you better and build a closer relationship with you.

    This is a positive response that indicates that the guy has a crush on you and is willing to develop a relationship with you further. If you also have a crush on him, you can accept his invitation to have dinner with him and get to know each other better. If you need more time to think about it, you can also tactfully, "Thank you for the invitation, I need to think about the timing and arrangement, and I'll get back to you when I'm sure."

    In any case, it is necessary to respect each other's feelings and wishes, and not to feel any pressure or discomfort.

    The girl confessed, and the boy said to contact first, and then asked you out to eat.

    When a guy says "contact first", he may want to show his concern and interest in you, but he still needs more time and opportunities to get to know you. He may be asking you out to dinner to get to know you better and build a closer relationship with you. This is a positive response that indicates that the guy has a crush on you and is willing to develop a relationship with you further.

    If you also have a good impression of him, you can accept his invitation and have dinner with him to further deepen your understanding of each other. If you need more time to think about it, you can also tactfully, "Thank you for the invitation, I need to think about the timing and arrangement, and I'll get back to you when I'm sure." "In any case, you need to respect each other's feelings and wishes, and don't feel any pressure or discomfort.

    Does the girl continue to have a crush on him?

    It can be continued.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    3 There are several reasons for this situation, probably because although she rejected your confession, it was just because she didn't think about whether she would have a relationship with you or not. Or she thinks that your confession is too sudden, she is not mentally prepared, out of respect for the two of you, for the sake of prudence, she still refuses.

    But she still agrees to make a separate appointment with you, which means that you still have a chance, maybe she still wants to date you for a while to see if you are really suitable for herself.

    Another reason may be that the girl just treats you as a spare tire, and thinks that if you ask her out for dinner occasionally, she is also willing. Maybe she doesn't really have any emotional involvement, but it's up to you to figure it out.

    There is also the situation where the girl thinks that she is just going out for a meal, and there is nothing, and you don't have to think too much. If people reject you, will they have no contact with you? It's okay to go out for dinner as an ordinary friend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    "Although I don't want to have sex with you, I think you're very nice, and I'm willing to eat with you."

    Although I refused to deal with you, I didn't have a crush on you, I just felt that it was developing too fast, and I was a reserved girl."

    I don't deal with you, but I can do what boyfriend and girlfriend do with you."

    In the above cases, you can take a seat and see which of them you belong to?

    In fact, it is really difficult to guess the thoughts of girls, not only boys, but also girls.

    After all, everyone has the right to choose, and it is naturally her right to choose the best of them that is most suitable for her. You can't say that you like her, you have to deal with you. But I have to advise you that before you invest, whether it's your feelings or money, you have to see if she's a scumbag first.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is a song, everyone doesn't know if you've heard it, the girl's mind, the boy, don't guess, because you guess and guess, you can't guess at all.

    Women are very emotional creatures, and often the words they utter do not express their innermost thoughts.

    Therefore, it is not easy to find out a girl's heart.

    If we confess to the girl we like and they reject me, maybe they accept me in their hearts, but they are ashamed to say it.

    As long as a man remembers a shameless spirit and stalkers, he will definitely chase the girl into his hands.

    Maybe the girls rejected our confession, and they will think in their hearts that we are actually a good person, but they don't know much about it, and they want to understand it in more detail and accept our confession, so they will agree to eat alone with you.

    In fact, I think that a boy does not have to confess to a girl in order to officially make two people become boyfriend and girlfriend.

    Nowadays, boys and girls are very smart, and some things don't need to be said too thoroughly, and the layer of window paper doesn't have to be pierced, just tacitly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that she is interested in you and wants to develop with you, or wants you to be her spare tire and maintain a more ambiguous relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Girls often ask you to eat because they are usually interesting or purposeful to you, and a girl with a boyfriend often asks other boys to eat, so you should ignore it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    She may not have that deep feelings for her boyfriend, and then she wants to maintain a more ambiguous relationship with you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe I'm ready to change my mind, or don't have more contact, such a girl doesn't know how to have self-respect and self-love, so don't deal with this kind of person as soon as possible.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe she's having a problem with her boyfriend's relationship and wants to use you as her next target. If you are not interesting to her, don't agree to her invitation in the future, so as not to have a bad misunderstanding with her boyfriend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    One foot wants to step on two boats. For a girl who has a boyfriend, she often asks the opposite sex to dinner, which will be very ambiguous, indicating that she has a good impression of you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If she often asks you to dinner, she may have a good impression of you, or you have interests in her, so you had better be cautious when you often ask you to dinner.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    She just treats you as a spare tire, even if she already has a boyfriend and eats with you all day long, which means that she treats you as a spare tire.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think she may have a crush on you, maybe she's about to break up with her boyfriend and wants to find a home first, and you're the one she chose.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Summary. Hello friend, I think you should have been deceived, just like you bought something and were deceived.

    Boy, as soon as you met a girl, you always asked her to dinner alone, and after she refused a few times, you directly told her that you already had a girlfriend, and she scolded you for blocking your hand, and you will feel good now?

    Hello friend, I think you should have been deceived, just like you bought something and were deceived.

    Such a man is basically a scumbag.

    Later, he figured out that the girl had been testing him, so he was about to agree to him, he revealed that he had an object, what would he think in his heart at this time.

    The psychological gap is relatively large, because a lot of ideological work has also been done.

    Regardless of the boy's own condition, the girl needs to keep her eyes open and keep herself clean.

    This situation is more common, girls are not very defensive, and are confused by sweet words or money, resulting in themselves being deceived.

    Is he satisfied with this reaction now? More than 20 days later, he is still exposing himself to himself in a large group, and wants girls to care about him, what does this mean?

    It shows that the boy is not aware of his own problems at all, he just doesn't take the girl seriously, and he is selfish to the extreme.

    I hope this girl can keep her eyes open, don't be deceived, and don't lose her big because she is small.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Summary. Hello, the girl I just met, when I just wanted to ask her, he said that I had dinner with my boyfriend, and there was still hope to pursue.

    Because she was just having dinner with her boyfriend, she was not married, and her relationship with her boyfriend was not necessarily too good, as long as you could impress her with your sincerity, you could catch her.

    The girl I just met, when I just wanted to ask her out, he said that I had dinner with my boyfriend, is there any hope to pursue?

    Hello, the girl I just met, when I just wanted to ask her, he said that I had dinner with my boyfriend, and I still had a vertical talk to answer the hope of pursuing. Because she just had dinner with a male waitress and was not married, and the relationship with her boyfriend was not necessarily too good for Yu Hui, as long as you could impress her with your sincerity, you could catch her.

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