Girlfriend and ex boyfriend contact Is our 2 year relationship no match for three months?

Friend: Let me give you a suggestion, let your girlfriend choose for herself, if her heart is not in you, what is the use of reluctantly staying? Of course, it is difficult for you to let go of the relationship for the next 2 years, but do you know what is the true meaning of love?

To love someone is not to take, but to give! To be completely for the good of the other party without any conditions, I hope that she will be happy. Although this may sound a bit false, this is the true meaning of love!

I read between the lines that you are also a very kind man. I believe that you will not ruin yourself and the happiness of her life!

At this time, you have to be kind to your girlfriend slowly.

But you don't have to worry about it, you think you're really giving, don't be afraid of getting hurt, their years are just a kind of comfort for him.

Your girlfriend is stepping on two boats, give up early, get out of the pain early, in fact, there are a lot of good girls, but you didn't find out.

You and your girlfriend seem to be messed up right now, huh? Think about it, if a girl really loves you, she won't tell you that she can't let go of another man. It's not a pity at all, it's making excuses for being with that man!!

On the other hand, since they have chosen to break up in the first place, why are they still together now? What can you do to a man who can't even take responsibility for what he does?

It's better for everyone to be quiet, and give you and her a little time to think about it.

Such a girl....I just want to step on two boats...

To put it mildly...

It's just....Don't....There is no grass at the end of the world....

You also wait until the xth day of the x month to see her reaction, since you can think about it, you should be able to do it now, anyway, there can only be 2 people who walk together in the end, why don't you ask your girlfriend who she wants to choose? If not, you'd have to pull back from the precipice.

A blessing not a curse! It's a disaster that can't be avoided!

Don't care before you've chosen, since it's all happened, the past is over, what's the meaning of mentioning it, now I'm with you and it's not the previous object, it's no problem to make sure it's clean, confirm that it's true to be with you, and you can grasp it yourself.

Ways to enhance the affection between men and women:

1. If possible, try to spend as much time together as possible doing something that both of you enjoy. Of course, this is not to encourage couples to stick together all the time, especially in middle school, high school and college, you are academically oriented, but you can set a study goal with each other and work together.

For example, watching movies, playing table tennis, badminton, or getting together with each other's friends can also let the other party know more about their work, especially friends whose work is relatively different, which will help the other party understand themselves.

2. Set some common goals for the lives of two people, big or small. For example, this year, we want to learn to swim together, plant a few pots of flowers on the balcony, go on a trip together, etc., and having a common goal can bring each other's hearts closer.

3. Friction is inevitable, and small quarrels can enhance feelings. Don't be afraid that two people will argue, because it is inevitable sometimes. After the quarrel, look back and see what the quarrel was, see if it can be solved, and see if you can avoid disputes and resolve them peacefully if you encounter similar problems in the future.

Summarize problems in time and solve them as soon as possible.

4. Put the people you love in your heart. When possible, prepare a little surprise for him and her. A flower, a cup of milk tea, a hug, and a meal may bring him full and warm happiness, and these accumulated small happiness is the source of happiness and sweetness in your life.

5. Communicate in a timely manner if there is a misunderstanding or a concern. Two people, two worlds.

It is normal to have different ideas, different views, and different ways of dealing with them. Timely communication can make the other party understand you better. Although at the beginning of a relationship, the girl's mind needs to be guessed by the boy.

But when two people start to live together, they still have to communicate more, and only by understanding each other and feeling sorry for each other can they live a happier and more harmonious life.

6. Strive to improve yourself. For those who love and for themselves. To increase their wisdom and strength over time. In this way, we can better help our loved ones and help ourselves.

If you and your ex-girlfriend have broken up for several years, but recently got in touch again, I think you should face your ex-girlfriend according to your own heart, if there are still a lot of feelings between the two of you, then it is possible to rekindle the old love, after all, each of us has been with our ex for a long time, and there are many good memories between ourselves and our ex, which can not be said to be forgotten with the passage of time.

What kind of mentality can be. I can't find a better one. So ask your ex-girlfriend if she found a better one. If not, we'll make do with it. Definitely this idea.

There will be a feeling of being in a different world, I didn't expect that so many years have passed, and the bits and pieces of the two people before are still vivid.

It must be a peaceful state of mind, the past feelings are in the past, and now it is at most the relationship of ordinary friends.

It should be the kind of particularly mature and peaceful mentality after the vicissitudes of life, after all, the two of them have no hatred and no resentment, and they have had a particularly beautiful moment.

This mentality is a little excited and a little inexplicable, I didn't expect the two of them to be able to pass ** again, and there is also an indescribable excitement in my heart.

It must be very embarrassing. After all, they haven't been in touch for several years, and each has their own lives.

Summary. The explanation of words is very weak, so you have to look at his actions, and when you approve of it, you can soothe your wounded heart.

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and know that he has been in contact with her ex-girlfriend for 7 years, should I continue.

Hello, you have been with your boyfriend for 3 years, and you know that he and her ex-girlfriend have been in contact with the stool liquid for 7 years, do you know what kind of connection they have? If it's a normal friend's contact, I don't think the relationship is coarse, but if it's a lover's connection, it may not be good, and whether you want to leave or not depends on how you think about it.

I've been with my partner for 3 years, and this year I found out that he and his ex-girlfriend were in a relationship, and he explained that he owed her money, and after paying it off, he didn't contact You's family, saying that they would be together for a long time, so it would be impossible to have me! The woman also knew that we had been together for so long. What should I do now.

Oh, he can understand it by explaining it this way, how does the boyfriend owe money to his ex-girlfriend, you have to continue to understand, don't rush to say that you broke up, does your boyfriend also owe you money?

If there is a problem between the two of them, neither woman can tolerate this man's cavity rock and other women closing up in one hail. And this woman also gave him money, how can she tolerate us being together for so long, we also live together, my boyfriend got a gas station, owes me tens of thousands of dollars, we broke up before, he didn't give it to me, he said he couldn't contact him if he wanted to give it to me.

Oh, debt disputes eliminate sails, he doesn't take the hail is the same thing he said to his ex-girlfriend? Can't contact the money after it is repaid? Is this how you understand that the purpose of not paying back the money is to continue contact?

He is now envious of that person every month, once the woman hit ** and he wanted to send this money, he told me how much he would pay back that month, I just don't understand now that he wants to be with that woman, why can't he be together for 7 years? They can still be with me every day for 3 years, and we live together.

This is our chat record, originally we planned to get married in the second half of this year, isn't this kind of thing happening in this trip? He explained it to me about dismantling the foundation.,Later, I knew that the woman hit him **.,He said that he owed money to people and couldn't help but contact.,It's over in 1 month.,From the perspective of your total analysis.,Can he pass this explanation? He said that he worked hard to solve it again, and I would never approve of it.

The explanation of words is very weak, so you have to look at his actions, and when you approve of it, you can soothe your wounded heart.

From your point of view, it is also recommended to take the initiative to contact and talk about it.

Yes, communication is the way it should be, and only communication can open your hearts.