Let s talk about what you can do with vexatious people.

When the two progress from a lover relationship to a husband and wife relationship, it means that the two have a certain understanding. But marriage is different from love, two people have to live under the same roof, living habits, and the handling of family relationships behind two people require wisdom and patience. I have always felt that men have more responsibilities in family life, including the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If the daughter-in-law is unreasonable, remember not to quarrel with the daughter-in-law, and not to have a cold war, which will only break the marriage. Be sure to communicate well and discover the real reason behind her vexatiousness.

Let's tell some old truths and stories first, so that he can understand how bad his behavior is, and if he still says that he won't listen to you, let him make trouble for a while, and rest by himself when he is tired.

Don't be reasonable, be principled, especially for women. There is no trivial matter in life, and such a reason is not only unclear and unreasonable, but will be defeated. It is necessary to reflect on oneself in a timely manner, admit mistakes, give in to softness, and fall into the pit of "unreasonable trouble," so that the other party can wake up and be reasonable.

Don't be unreasonable.

Usually unreasonable people are seriously insecure in their hearts, give appropriate comfort, spend more time, and there will be changes over time.

Generally speaking, girls are more likely to be vexatious, as a boy should be patient with his girlfriend, and girls are vexatious is a signal to make you coax. Even girls who are five big and three thick sometimes have a princess heart. Boys don't think about reasoning with their girlfriends, because it doesn't make sense at all, the thinking logic of men and women is different, and you can never understand what your girlfriend is thinking.

A smart man needs to figure out why his girlfriend is vexatious, not staring at the vexatious performance.

The other party is unreasonable, and he has no good reason. This must not be reasonable. Use tender methods to infect each other, subdue emotions, distract attention, calm the mood, and resolve contradictions.

Unreasonable people are nothing more than brushing up on their sense of existence, and this kind of person is often in a state of strong self-protection in life, and once touched, it will explode. Their lives may be lonely, and they can find novelty in this kind of thing. In the face of this kind of person, let him go, and then turn around and leave, don't feel that you don't care, your heart is uncomfortable, people just want to endure, forbearance can be valuable people, after a long time, you can understand the benefits of forbearance.

You can ignore them, if you still have to be unreasonable and unreasonable, then you can't sit and let him continue, people are dignified, you can also choose his shortcomings to attack, although it is not good! But in relation to one's own dignity and not to allow oneself not to continue to be devastated, one must be angry, and one must show one's anger! This is called fighting poison with poison, so that they also know the consequences of being vexatious.

This kind of behavior cannot go on forever. Otherwise, they will continue to be vexatious.

Personally, I think that for unreasonable people, we should deal with them separately, and for people who have a good relationship with themselves, we must first tolerate them, and then wait for the other party to calm down before communicating and dealing with them, because the reason why he is unreasonable to you is your own habit, and it is that you didn't let him understand your attitude when you first got along. And for strangers, you can completely ignore him, because his vexatious troubles are completely a matter of his quality, such a person is not worth wasting our energy and time, and we can't lose our quality because of him.

My dear, the ways to deal with vexatious people are: 1. Control yourself, when the other party is difficult for you, the first reaction can not be to fight immediately, because in this way, people with a mild personality will be at a disadvantage, since the other party is prepared, you are caught off guard, and you will lose in momentum first. At this time, you should control yourself and avoid getting angry, if you get angry at this time, you will make yourself look very bad, and it is not easy to win people's hearts.

2. Respond calmly, carefully analyze the starting point of the other party's behavior, whether there are loopholes in the words, if there are obvious loopholes, then after speaking, just point out this point, get to the point, and don't give any chance to justify, because since it is an unreasonable person, then it will definitely come up with crooked ideas immediately, and if you don't give a chance to justify, it will definitely make you very depressed. 3. Lay a good foundation for the masses, if you can't point out the flaws at that time, then you must learn to win people's hearts, and your friends around you will not have opinions on you. 4. Take the initiative, find the opportunity to take the initiative to attack, don't be soft-hearted at this time, be tough when you should be tough, remember, be kind to others, there will be no half of gratitude.

In addition, in front of the leader, we must learn to "be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner", and behave when it is time to perform, and not being proactive is a sign of weakness. Extended information: know how to protect yourself 1, low-key:

For those with strength, keeping a low profile will be more protective of themselves, and being high-profile will only attract some people with bad intentions. 2. Principled: For people who do not have the strength for the time being, they must be principled in everything so that they will not be oppressed by others.

If you are unprincipled and have no bottom line, you will only become a bad person. 3. Trust your own judgment: see more and think more, have your own judgment, instead of listening to what others say and do it.

4. Learn some specialties to support yourself: When people live in this world, they must always be warm, fed, and stable, so they must have skills to support themselves in living in this world.

It is a very common situation to encounter vexatious people, and dealing with such people requires certain skills and ideas. Here are some coping strategies for you to consider:

Communicate calmly: Try to stay calm, communicate with the other party with a calm mind, listen to the other party's demands and ideas, and express your own opinions and needs. If the other person is in an emotional or aggressive state at the beginning, you can temporarily stop the communication and wait for both parties to calm down and try again.

Stick to your principles: If the other party's demands are unreasonable or contrary to your own principles and values, you can stick to your own position and explain your reasons and considerations in a rational way, and find a solution that is acceptable to both parties.

Seek help from a third party: If you are unable to deal effectively with someone who is vexatious, you can seek help from a third party, such as friends, family, colleagues, superiors, etc., so that they can give them sound advice and support.

Protect yourself: In the process of unreasonable and violent trouble, some people may use threats, verbal abuse, violence and other means, and they need to protect their safety and rights and interests. You can choose to protect yourself by temporarily dodging, calling the police, etc.

In short, dealing with vexatious people needs to solve problems effectively and protect their own safety and rights by communicating peacefully, adhering to principles, and seeking help.

Those unreasonable people speak uprightly, think that they are wrong to others, they have no cultivation and quality at all, they fly and trek, and even beat and scold others, in the face of such people, we should think of some coping strategies!

1. Persuade the other party to correct their mistakes.

We should pay attention to one point, that is, we must not give up our own ideas, also known as not forgetting our original intention, we can't feel that this problem is tricky, and we can't solve it all at once, so we just give up, we should stick to our own ideas and not give up easily.

2. Try not to clash head-on.

We should try our best to avoid head-on conflicts with unreasonable people, because there is a saying that Xiucai can't be justified when he meets soldiers, and when he meets unreasonable people, you can only communicate and explain appropriately and try to persuade as much as possible, but you can't counter violence with violence.

3. You can ask for help from relevant personnel.

If we encounter unreasonable people in our work, we should actively ask for help from our superiors, and if it is a matter of life, we can ask the street, the district police station, etc. to help coordinate and solve it.

4. If the other party is too much, don't swallow it.

I should maintain a correct attitude, because if we condone his unreasonable words, it means that our attitude has been compromised, and his rudeness has triumphed, which can only further fuel his arrogance.

5. It is necessary to stick to your own principles.

If the other party is unreasonable, we should also explain the reason with him, try to persuade him, and find a way to make him understand through other channels, and correct it in time.

If you really can't do it, you just stay away from people who are right and wrong. We have to judge according to the situation, if we guess that this person is something we have to face, we should try to solve it, and if it is dispensable, we can also choose to stay away, try to avoid it, and not be disturbed by them.

In the face of vexatious people, we can take the following ways: stay calm, communicate rationally, avoid arguing roughly, and ask for help. It is necessary to respect the emotions and rights of the other party, and face and solve problems with a peaceful and judgmental mentality.

There are always differences between people, and if you really take these things to heart, don't you become a person of the same level as him? Maintain a standard smirk and let him make trouble, a large part of the psychology of the unreasonable quarrelsome person is actually hoping that you can express and react to his behavior, so that he can take the initiative in the whole scene and be stupid. If you care too much, you just want to go with him, right?

When it comes to your mood, do you really want someone who is significantly lower to spoil your mood? Every day is a precious drop! How much time is wasted when you are angry and depressed!

Let's do something else meaningful!

Ignore it directly, if you have the ability to deal with it, you will naturally go back, and the unreasonable person does not need to be reasonable, after all, he can neither listen nor understand.

Ignore them. It's hard to communicate with vexatious people.

In the face of unreasonable people, staying away is the king.