What happened to those unmarried and pregnant girls?

In fact, there are many girls who have children before marriage, and now they are living very well, mainly depending on the relationship between the two.

The woman has a weak appearance, but her mind is reticulated and sensitive. Imaginative and suspicious. Sometimes it's hard to tell whether it's a dream or a reality, and the transition between happiness and crying is a blink of an eye.

So, men can't understand how women behave in a fight:

I like to turn over old accounts so much, and I can think of such vicious words. How did the ladies of the past become in the blink of an eye?

All I want is a little tenderness. You don't agree to this, and I'm too shameless. Admit your mistakes, as long as you admit your mistakes, I will forgive you immediately.

And women can't understand what men behave in a quarrel, women always think wishfully:

Although I like to compare you to others, it's not because I like you. Otherwise, how could I be nice to you! You don't love me at all.

And the logic of men is: You say that others are good, so why do you want to follow me? Since you don't trust me, why do we need to talk about it?

Since you are in charge of everything, every time you are in front of your friends, I can't get off the stage. What does it mean for us to be together? True love is plain but not ordinary.

True love is like a bowl of boiled water. It's not so unfazed, but it's absolutely impossible to leave him. If the other party is your beloved, then even if he is not romantic enough, there will be no surprises, but you can always find each other's shining points in the relationship between the two, even the most ordinary days will become flavorful because of each other.

True love is responsibility and responsibility. How many people squander each other's feelings in the name of love? True love in the beginning.

And he made a promise. took the other party's hand, then she will be responsible for the rest of her life. Taking on the responsibility of love means that you have to put all your heart and mind on one person.

It means that you have to reject all living beings for her.

Some had abortions, some gave birth.

Children are the hope of a family, the continuation of life for parents, and the most beautiful testimony of love.

Getting married and having children is something that most people have to go through, whether it is for a mother or a family, the appearance of a small life will make people feel happy.

The times are advancing, thinking is also changing, and now many young people are living together in love, so there are many unmarried pregnancies.

For some people, getting pregnant out of wedlock may not be a problem, but it's not the majority. In life, I believe that many people have heard, seen, and even experienced unmarried pregnancies.

Some people will say that this is for love, some people say that it is fate, but I believe that some people can't accept it, so what happened to those unmarried and pregnant girls?

Many examples in life tell me that they end up tasting the bitterness of life.

Not long ago, I heard a friend talk about her sister, her sister didn't work in a bubble tea shop after graduating from high school, and it was at that time that she met her current boyfriend.

At that time, I was young and my income was unstable, so I didn't think about getting married. Later, they had a little savings, and the friend's sister wanted to get married, but the boyfriend never mentioned the word marriage.

Just a year ago, my boyfriend proposed to move in with my sister, and my sister agreed to save rent and be together every day.

That is, five months ago, my sister was pregnant, and she should have prepared for marriage according to normal thinking, or if she met a scumbag, she would have to kill the child, but her boyfriend was neutral and couldn't beat the child and didn't say marriage.

The reason for him to do this is very simple, because his sister's family asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and he felt that it was too much, so he dragged on like this.

To put it mildly, my sister can't beat the child when she is a month old, and even if she kills the child, it is not good to find her in-law's family again, so she can only marry him like this, and in the end, her sister's family will always regress in the bride price.

You think that getting pregnant out of wedlock is love, but what if it is your one-sided love? Then the child in your belly is not the crystallization of love, but a threatened bargaining chip.

In the end, you chose to regress for the sake of your children and yourself, but don't you think such a pillow person is too terrible? Will you be happy for the rest of your life for decades?

The normal order of marriage is to get married first and have children, disrupting this order, it may also change the direction of your life, so don't be willful, the most important thing is that a person who really loves you will definitely give you a name first, have a family first, and then have a child belonging to two people.

1. Being despised by the in-laws

For girls who are pregnant before marriage, the in-laws generally think that it is very easy to do it, so they will not pay attention to it. Because she is pregnant, it is generally believed that it will have a greater impact on girls, and girls will be more anxious to get married. Therefore, the in-laws will not be in a hurry, and the in-laws can also reduce the bride price.

Lili and her boyfriend started living together when they were working together, and then accidentally got pregnant, and the two discussed getting married. Because Lili wants to marry far away, her mother is afraid that Lili will be bullied in the future, so she wants a bride price of 100,000 yuan as Lili's net worth. But the future mother-in-law refused to nod, and only told Lili that the family had no money.

Go back and discuss with your son, don't want your son to compromise, Lili is pregnant now, even if there is no bride price, she will agree to get married.

Seeing Lili's growing belly, her mother's family had no choice, and finally agreed to get married reluctantly. But after marriage, she was not cared for by her mother-in-law, and she was always looked down upon by her mother-in-law, and she used Lili as an example to teach her daughter to love herself.

2. Being looked down upon by her future husband

Love and marriage are full of variables and can end at any time. Even if you sometimes conceive a child for each other, you are not sure that you will be able to come together.

Some people are pregnant with children, but for reasons of life plans, they don't want children for the time being, and they will**. If you break up one day, when you meet your future husband, there will always be a day when the secret will be revealed. When the secret is revealed, she will be looked down upon by her future husband.

Although unmarried pregnancy is not a problem for girls alone, there are still many straight male cancers in boys. There are also a lot of requirements for women, and all the problems will be blamed on the girl alone. Think that girls just don't have self-esteem and self-love.

Although this situation is not recognized by society, there are still many girls who are suffering for this reason.

Third, it is not good for the body

Now couples face unmarried pregnancies, and the most common result is surgery. All this has little effect on boys, but it greatly hurts girls' bodies.

As the saying goes: if the medicine is poisonous, then no matter how big or small the operation, it will have a bad impact on the body. So when a girl experiences this kind of thing, it will definitely damage the body.

Nowadays, there are too many social variables and people's hearts are unpredictable, and it is still necessary to fully understand each other when getting married. Living together before marriage is also a correct choice, and each other is familiar with each other's living habits in advance, and both parties run in. But in this process, for girls, you must cherish yourself extraordinarily.

It is not absolute for girls who are not pregnant before marriage, and most of them have encountered people who are incorrect in the above three situations.

The in-laws shouldn't be very good to her, so it's not very good.

I don't think the ones around me are good. Many people get pregnant before marriage, it's just a curiosity or a man's immaturity. After all, many people just start to get in touch and then they don't understand each other, so the two families forcibly form a new family.

Just a lot of things look in different directions. So it also led to a flash marriage and a flash divorce. Or if there are also abandoned children, they will be thrown to the old people.

There must be some good ones, but some people are not very good