What s it like to be obsessed with a man who doesn t have much to do with each other?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since there is no deep intersection, you don't have to forget, if you are single, and the other party is too, then you can try to date, live up to the heart of the past and say the past, don't be so affectionate if you don't know the details of the other party, you will be disappointed. Now the online avatar is very messy, men pretend to be **, women pretend to be men are everywhere, it can be disturbed by the photos, you will be confused and dizzy, but calm is your own heart, and it is a big deal to be a listener when you intersect with people, whether he is a man or a woman, treat them as confidants, talk about them if there is resonance, close the door if there is no resonance, treat people with a normal heart, do not have evil thoughts or delusions, and make friends online, I think even if there are few netizens, we don't resent each other or want to be wrong.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Tell a true story, the day before yesterday I saw a girl's avatar, I felt kind, so I paid attention to her, and then she posted a Korean drama heroine**, I think they are very similar, when I asked, the result turned out to be a person**! This story tells you that liking or loving is not a rational choice, but a sensual momentary gaze! I've watched this Korean drama for at least ten years!

    The fact that you are obsessed with him does not necessarily prove that you want to do something, but that he does attract you! If you both have ideas, you can try dating!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because he made an impression on you, and it was your first confession. When you don't have a man who is empty and lonely, it is natural to think of him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you haven't found a more suitable one for yourself, the wealth and utility that God has given to everyone is equal to you, see if he can give what you want, if not, it can only mean that you are not suitable for each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You this is typical unrequited love! The male protagonist doesn't want to see you, so don't go to him, and you can't go to him. Leave the truth to the right person for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It shows that you have a good impression of others, and only when you like someone, will you never forget it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Taiwan's genius Ah Cheng believes that love is just a period of great changes in the hormones in the body within a few months, if it is a hopeless relationship, it is recommended to treat it coldly, divert attention, and after a few months of hormone decline, you will feel a lot more unconscious!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Discover around you, a good boy has a lot of things, a person who has nothing to do with him, you go and never forget, and send you four words "live yourself".

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is difficult to forget deep emotions, and I will never forget the lotus silk, since this gentleman has no love, why bother to be nostalgic in another country!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The more girls can't get it, the more boys never forget.

    What kind of women men like, I think everyone's standards are different, some like beautiful, some like charming, some like kind, some men are outwardly oriented, some men are looking at inner beauty, but all men will never forget these kinds of women, whether you are married, unmarried, or second married.

    The woman who can't get it, the man is the most obsessed, which can be said to be a common problem for all men. Because I didn't get it, I fantasized about it, fantasized about getting it one day, and those who weren't married thought about how to get it, and those who were married often secretly thought about it, and those who were divorced thought about whether they could dig up the corner.

    What attracts men the most for women, I think it's definitely not appearance, appearance will only give you a moment of amazement, this woman can not be beautiful, not **, not smart, but definitely not gentle, not considerate, not kind. Innocence is not necessarily ignorant, kindness reveals love, gentleness and thoughtfulness can make you physically and mentally happy, there is no pressure on the front, there is such a woman by your side, you feel happy and happy.

    Married men are most afraid of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrels, there is such a problem, it will make the man sandwiched in the middle, very difficult to behave, inside and outside are not people, so there is a filial woman, the man will never forget, even if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have discord, the woman's filial piety will also think that the parents are old, everywhere polite, and wait until the heart is calm to communicate with the mother-in-law, will not make it difficult for you to be a person between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that you do not worry about the things at home and operate, rest assured to work hard in the career.

    First love is also everyone's most unforgettable, no matter how long the years are, how old you are, the first love girlfriend is always the most unforgettable in your heart, that is your first love with hazy feelings, it is she who lets you know what you like, what is love, but when you talk about your girlfriend, first love is undeniably your most memorable person.

    A man may have liked a lot of women, been in love with many women, and had friends, but only one of them is a man's favorite woman, especially the woman he loves the most but has lost, which is what men never forget, she is like a thorn, deeply rooted in a man's heart, such a wound is difficult to heal for a lifetime.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is the commonality of human emotions, we humans have a lot of emotions, for other people and some things will have special feelings, this is very normal, we live in a world, full of a lot of interesting people and interesting things, we go to them together, will always unconsciously establish a deep emotion, even we ourselves are not aware of.

    I used to have a good classmate in junior high school, we were inseparable every day, the three views were very compatible, but then they were separated because of some misunderstandings, we are all very hard-mouthed people, unwilling to reconcile first, but we all think about each other in our hearts, so many years have passed, I still think of her, it's all about her good, although later we have our own good friends, but still haven't forgotten each other, on some important days will send blessings, will also discuss some other issues, not very ordinary chat, I can't say that I know much about each other's lives, but I know that she is an important person in my heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Remembering people who have almost no intersections, probably because of the emptiness and loneliness in their hearts, when they are lonely, they will miss people who have nothing to do with him, and fantasize about the good times they had with this person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no intersection before it will be forgotten, the more people who can't get it want to get it, the more they miss what they can't get, this is people's hearts and human nature.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe this is the wonder of feelings, you don't have an intersection with people, but you don't forget, and you turn a blind eye to the people who give you the right face every day.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People who don't remember who don't have intersections, sometimes they just remember their beautiful selves during that time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because of the emptiness, loneliness and coldness, because I am full of food and have nothing to do, because I feel that my life is too leisurely, and I still have time to think crankily.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, men are obsessed with women who can't get it, and they are reluctant to give up on women who have gained and have to lose. However, we can only live and die with women who have joined hands for a lifetime.

    People are always easy to forget what they have done, but they never forget what they have done to achieve their goals. In psychology, we call this an unfinished event. Therefore, many people have a first love complex, but because, in reality, very few people can come together with their first love, and most people's first love is unclear, and it will be over with them.

    If you dig deeper, you will find that in fact, it is not how unforgettable the first love is, but regret that makes those past unusual.

    I have seen a story: When I learned that my ex-girlfriend was getting married, the boy was clamoring to grab the kiss, but on the day of the wedding, when he saw such a beautiful bride, he was cowardly. He drove his own car, followed the wedding car not far away, sent ten miles, and ten miles, and saw that he was about to arrive at the hotel, and the girl sent a message saying, don't send it, let's go here.

    It looks very affectionate, but have you thought about it, being together again, it is still the same ending, their fate is only enough to meet, not enough to go through the rest of their lives. So send it away, forget it, but think about it.

    Zhang Ailing once said that there will always be two women in a boy's life, who marry red roses, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood, and the white one will be the bright moon in front of the bed. If you marry a white rose, over time, the white one will become a sticky rice on your clothes, but the red one will become a cinnabar mole on your chest.

    I know that people always want the best of both worlds, but those who have Longwang Shu will not be happy in this life. Have you ever heard the story of a goat eating grass? When you go to Dongshan, you will feel that there is more grass in the West Mountain, and when you go to the West Mountain, you will feel that the grass in the East Mountain is more tender, and it has been wandering between the two mountains, and in the end, it finally starved to death on the road.

    Hesitating between the two of them, the result is that you can't get either of them. is like Zeng Xiaoxian in "Love Apartment", he likes Yifei's chic, but he can't let go of Nuolan's gentleness, whenever he has to make a decision, he chooses to pretend to be stupid. He thought he was having a difficult choice, but in fact this was scum.

    No one wanted to be hurt, but in the end, it hurt both of them. In fact, not only love, but also in life choices. You must know that people can only live once, and no matter how you choose, you will have regrets. The only thing you can do is choose what you love and love what you choose.

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