Can I lend money to someone who doesn t pay back?

He doesn't pay back the money, which shows that he has no respect for others.

People who don't respect others don't deserve your respect, so it's better not to borrow.

I think you might as well borrow it! Otherwise, you won't be able to pass this level yourself! ~~

You're just as miserable as I am! Soft ears!

When you can really draw a line with her, you'll be liberated!

It depends on whether your friends are worth it, you can measure it by the money you pay and your friendship!! See where the scales of your friendship and money are turning!!

Don't just say yes or no, think with your brain instead of your heart

Sometimes, you can't be soft-hearted, like a beggar on the street, if you give him the first time, he'll be with you a second time.

Lend her if she is really pitiful, and persuade her not to lend it to her if it is fake, and persuade her not to do it again.

Of course not, what kind of friendship to people who have no reputation.

Turn his face, break off relations, and tell him to die.

Let's find out what she's doing with the money, and then we'll talk about it.

If you don't want to lose more, or don't want the two of you to have more conflicts in the future, I advise you to stop in moderation I think she may not treat you as a friend!

Tell her, I'm not a bank here! Let's talk about the previous one! He's just grasping your weaknesses and constantly trying to borrow money, friend! Do you understand?

Of course not! I have the same bitter loyalty as you! You have to learn to say: "No" and don't have a good face for people who don't tell their promises.

It is not difficult to borrow again.

If there is such a person, it is not still customary to borrow money, and don't have any illusions about her.

Be sure to give up this kind of discredited person!

If the lender fails to repay the money lent to others, the lender may urge the other party to repay the loan within a reasonable period of time; If the other party refuses to repay the loan, the lender may file a civil lawsuit with the court in accordance with the law, or apply to the court for a payment order in accordance with the law. If the other party still fails to repay the loan after the judgment or payment order takes effect, the lender may apply to the people's court for enforcement.

[Legal basis].

Article 120 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China.

A complaint shall be submitted to the people's court, and copies shall be submitted in accordance with the number of defendants.

Article 214.

If the creditor requests the debtor to pay money or valuables, and meets the following conditions, it may apply to the basic people's court with jurisdiction for a payment order:

1) The creditor and the debtor have no other debt disputes;

2) The payment order can be served on the debtor.

The application shall clearly state the amount of money or valuable ** requested and the facts and evidence on which it is based.

Article 216.

After accepting the application, the people's court shall, after examining the facts and evidence provided by the creditor, issue a payment order to the debtor within 15 days from the date of acceptance, if the creditor's rights and debts are clear and legal; If the application is not sustained, a ruling shall be made to reject it. The debtor shall pay off the debt within 15 days from the date of receipt of the payment order, or submit a written objection to the people's court.

If the debtor does not raise an objection and fails to perform the payment order within the period specified in the preceding paragraph, the creditor may apply to the people's court for enforcement.

When those people borrow money for a long time, they will feel that the money is their own. So, when you need them to pay them back, he will feel like he's suffered a huge loss. Psychologically speaking, they are very resistant to paying back, especially the one with a relatively large amount, which is tantamount to making them suffer like cutting off their flesh and mending sores.

They must have a strong sense of self-discipline to overcome this nature, but most people borrow money often because they are not able to manage themselves financially, which essentially means that they are a very undisciplined person.

We can conclude that asking the borrower to repay the money is tantamount to making an undisciplined person self-disciplined. What is self-discipline? The essence of self-discipline is to kill a decadent self with your own hands, which is originally a very difficult thing, which is why many people borrow money in real life and do not pay it back.

If you cherish friendship, then it is best not to have any financial dealings with your friend, especially not to lend him money, because the person who borrows money often will most likely not pay it back. Laugh up.

As the saying goes: making money is like picking up soil with a needle, and spending money is like water washing sand. No one's money is blown by the wind, and it is not easy for anyone to save a few dollars.

Some of those who lend money to others should cherish this friendship, not everyone is willing to lend you money, especially in the past two years when the economy is very tight, and there are still people who are willing to borrow money for you.

When I say this, I don't have any confidence in my heart. For those "old lai" who are thicker than the city wall, it is tantamount to playing the piano to the cow, maybe he will immediately reply to me: Yes, the cow is playing the piano.

In conclusion, those who are ready to lend their money, before you lend it to someone else, understand these four points:

First, 90% of borrowers don't pay it back on time;

Second, 80% of people don't want to pay back;

Third, when he borrowed your money, he didn't think that he would become the one who didn't want to pay it back;

Fourth, the money you borrowed is basically going down the drain.

Even though he was sincere when he borrowed money, even though you think he is a very nice person.

Of course, not everyone will shout "lai", not everyone is not honest, and there are still some people in this world who are trustworthy. But please don't test a person's integrity and character by borrowing money, many people's performance in front of money will make you completely "cold and happy". This is not a prejudice, nor is it a misunderstanding, this is a reality with a high probability.

In this way, there is no doubt that you will pay a heavy price, and he will not lose a penny, and he will take your money around and be happy.

Psychological analysis of borrowing money and not repaying it: a kind of not wanting to repay the money at all, or the group talks about whether he has money or not. One is that they want to pay it back but don't have the money to pay it back.

There is also a kind of Buddhist debt, not that he does not repay the money, but when there is never hope, he always feels that if he does not get rich, the money can only wait until the sky is old. It's not easy for you to say that he is still afraid of hurting his feelings, but you don't say it, he doesn't seem to have such a thing, his life is quite leisurely, not like he owes money, and he doesn't feel what efforts he has made to repay the money, without any guilt, if I owe money myself, I feel guilty to death in my heart, thinking about how much I can exchange every day, at least to express my heart. There is nothing to say about the first two types of debts, the key is that the third type is very special and difficult to define, just like drinking alcohol can do things unscrupulously, and drinking can not admit it.

The third type of debtor is actually the most common, if he does not repay the money when it is due, it can have 10,000 reasons, and you can't talk about him, but his behavior seems to be forever fighting with promises. This kind of thing, if it is a small amount of money, ordinary people forget it, and the money that is tangled is definitely not a small amount for the creditor. It doesn't seem to be good to make a big fuss, it is not in line with the style of the Chinese at all, everyone wants to give things calmly, but the reality is just impossible.

Taking the legal route is the most unwilling to accept it in China, and every tens of millions of people will not choose to take the legal route, and everyone can't afford to toss. So, I can only urge slowly and remind back and forth. But the person who wants to pay back, he has already repaid, he is not not not repaying, there is not so much money, first live his life in a chic way, there is no guilt in his heart, people with a sense of guilt, if he does not pay back, he is not comfortable, even if he has 500 yuan of spare money, he has to pay you back first to express his heart.

So people who don't pay back the money and don't have anything to say have been numb to the debt, usually such people, the creditor is not one or two, otherwise it will not be numb, if you only owe one person's money, you would have already demolished the east wall to make up the west wall, so the debt owed by this kind of person behind it may be beyond your imagination. Because you are used to owing money to others, the guilt in your heart has been exhausted, and it is of little use for you to urge him. Essentially, not paying a debt when it is due is a kind of perfidy, and if you really have special circumstances, you will definitely explain it in advance, and your actions must make people feel sincere, not just talk.

People who really want to repay the money will definitely know how to save and live a tight life, and only then will they return to their normal standard of living until they pay off the money. Owe money to others, do not repay the money on time, do not know that others also have the difficulty of urgently using money, but they are unwilling to reduce the level of life or life, and live a nourishing life.