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Love is actually quite simple. It's also very unpretentious! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true!
For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true. Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far?
As a result, love has become a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; As a result, love becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money. Love at this time. has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and mundane.
Is there still true love in this society? Yes But very little. Modern people don't know how to cherish love.
When you have it, you suck the essence of love without watering. If you don't apply fertilizer, the flower of love will wither after a long time. When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me.
It's a pity that there is no regret medicine in this world. Therefore, when you have a good love, you must cherish ..
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It is an unequal payment system that some boys and girls in love in some cities begin to implement when they pay for love consumption. Put simply, it means that when it comes to paying the bill, the boy pays most of the cost, while the girl pays only a small part of the fee. As for the specific proportion of payment, it depends on the actual situation.
The emergence of the love ab system is the embodiment of the pluralism of the concept of love in contemporary society, and it is also the manifestation of the progress of the concept of love.
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When we fall in love, we will often go out to play, for example, eating, shopping, two people together, so who pays has become a problem, in the eyes of many of our girls, the money should be paid by boys, and boys should pay, but when they meet stingy boys, they will not think so, girls consume, why should I pay. <>
In love, now there is an AA system, that is, two people give half of each person, which is the fairest. After a long time in the AA system, there will be more than two people, and it can be said that in a few months, girls will take the initiative to break up, which is not a sign of love in the eyes of girls.
Now there is a new term in love, the ab system, that is, when paying the bill, the boy pays 80% and the girl pays 20%.
This is especially fair to girls, after all, girls make less money, girls are parents little padded jackets, this little money, girls can still take it out. <>
Eighty percent for boys, I think it's particularly reasonable. After all, boys make a lot of money, and they should spend money on their girlfriends. Besides, boys should be generous, since they like girls, they are reluctant to spend money, and they can't say it.
Taking a step back, if you choose to be reluctant to spend money, you will have no way to live if you get married in the future.
I'm a girl and I'm in a relationship about expenses. I support the boys to pay and the girls not to spend. The reason is very simple, the girl has no money, and the girl is the princess of her parents. If a boy is reluctant to spend money on a girl, it can only mean that the boy does not love the girl.
In love, girls are the stupidest, he can give up some for love, and he can accept mediocre boyfriends, but boys are different. Boys can find a girlfriend who cares about themselves when they are mediocre, but after a boy succeeds in his career, he will never work with him and help his girlfriend get married. That's the reason for the reality of boys.
Let's not be that stupid girl, the boy doesn't want to spend money on you, let's just leave and go to find the guy who loves him and treats himself like a princess. Girls should remember that our parents love us the most.
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The ab system in love means that the man is responsible for most of the consumption and the woman is responsible for a small part of the consumption.
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Such a system is actually a way to fall in love when falling in love, and then in this way, the relationship between the two can be balanced, and then the funds of the two can be well balanced.
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That is, both parties are in the process of consumption, one time, this method is similar to the AA system, but it is not agreed.
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The AB system is the embodiment of the pluralism of the concept of love in contemporary society, and it is also the manifestation of the progress of the concept of love. In modern society, men and women are equal, which requires women to have the same decision-making power as men in love, and they even feel that their own money is a manifestation of their own ability. They are financially independent and will not be dependent on men.
Therefore, men should not be sad either, which is a good thing. Reducing the economic burden on men is also a woman's love for men. As for the future development trend of the AB system.
I think that as a concept of consumption in love, no matter how it changes, its premise will not change, and the premise is the love of two people, the love of heart-to-heart! —Professor of Sociology You Ligong.
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1. In modern life, women are very independent economically, and people with independent personalities are no longer vassals of men. Women have the same decision-making power as men in love, including the "right to pay" in love consumption.
2. The love AB system involves not only the question of how to pay money, but the problem of the concept of love in an era. If both boys and girls think about each other, it's easy to say who pays and how they pay. Love is a matter of two people, as long as both people in love are happy, as long as it is conducive to their love to thrive!
3. Now that the money is so clearly divided, how will you live in the future! How can there be such a careful separation? You guys don't want to come out all, then we women have to be gentlemen, we're out, what's the big deal.
4. Is a woman inferior to a man, I advocate that the party who can grasp the initiative of love pays. This is the fairest! You think, both of them are there grinding and counting the bills, and then blinking their eyes to settle the score, who will pay a few dimes and cents, what kind of system is this.
Even if you can't give it up, she can't give it up. is so tormented, waiting for the other party to give him an excuse. What all need the other party to give themselves courage is what I think is a tug-of-war for i.
It doesn't matter who pays for love, because since you love each other, don't divide each other, it doesn't matter who pays.
Personally, I think the best state of love is plain, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, two people live a dull life together, integrate the love of first love into real life, and like to rely on each other.
The best thing to do is to like someone now, and it's the kind of person who is dead hearted! It's better that the person doesn't like to talk to you yet. In this way, you will avoid reducing the number of times you love.
Although love is selfish, hurting others is something that should never be done. In the process of falling in love, keep a kind heart, so that the relationship can go further and further, after all, everyone likes to be kind to others. If you hurt others for your own benefit, you are actually hurting yourself, after all, everything you have done has a cause and effect relationship. >>>More