A little question about what your boyfriend is talking about? My boyfriend always says I have a prob

Baby, are you sure you both love each other? If he really loves you, he will definitely respect you very much. If you don't want to, I won't force you, and I will cherish you more for your persistence.

According to what you said, your boyfriend doesn't love you that much, he thinks more about his feelings and is very selfish. Baby, you think about what kind of feelings you have for him, and how much he is worth your efforts. If you really love him, and the two of you really love each other, it's just a marriage certificate away, so why are you so hesitant?

Do you also have concerns in your heart that he is not the person you are really looking for?

If he is really angry with you for this, then this man does not cherish you, does not respect you, does not consider your feelings, and is not worthy of your affection. Now there are very few women with bottom lines and principles like you, really, take good care of yourself and protect yourself, you will get the happiness you want, and you will meet someone who really loves you.

My boyfriend and I are very good, but he will not force me without my consent, he will only care more about me. I am with him, but also because I trust him and believe in him. You are still hesitating, do you still have a certain amount of doubt about him, you can slowly and carefully experience the subtle and subtle true thoughts in your heart, don't be afraid, follow your heart.

Don't give up your own principles, you must have your own bottom line, only you will know more clearly how much he is worth your efforts and how far he can go.

If he can't wait, and you really love each other, then get ready to get married. Then, your troubles and his needs are solved.

Baby, think about your relationship. Finally, I wish you happiness and believe that you will meet people who really like you, respect you, and cherish you, and you are a good girl.

Ask your friends!!

It's not easy for you to keep your body like a jade until now. I hope you hold on a little longer. You ask him to go to your house to propose, and when the parents of both parties have no opinion, agree to be together, agree to get married or engaged, and you can do it.

The family knows, so let both parents come out to talk and settle the matter.

In this way, you have no worries, and he will not have the unhappiness he wants.

Both people can get what they want. The most perfect.

I actually understand your boyfriend's psychology, because my ex-girlfriend is also like you, which is really head-starting... I think a lot of people have had the same problem, but they just don't know how to explain it, because it's hard to describe what this irritability is. It's not even a question of love or not, it's not a question of patience, it's ...

It's hard to describe. The kind of helplessness. My ex-girlfriend is 5 years younger than me.

It would be a real headache, and I couldn't explain to him why I hated it.

This is related to the knowledge, vision, and experience of two people. I'll take a simple chestnut, a preschool child, ask an adult question, the child's question is this feeling, the question is very innocent, because he is a child, you will answer patiently, and then tease him wittily, tell him that there is a group of "Ultraman" living in the stars in the sky. The children will laugh happily and ask you if it's true, and then ask you a series of more questions...

This is the communication between children and adults.

And my chat with my ex-girlfriend is like a conversation between an adult and a child, it was okay at first, at most I felt bored, no nutrition, and after a long time, it was like raising a girl by myself, and I had to face her countless 100,000 whys every day... It's a bit of a crash indeed. And she doesn't understand what I'm saying.,I'm going to lower my dimension.,To adapt to her topic.。。

It's not on the same channel at all, so I can only accommodate her, and after a long time, I really can't stand it.

And girls are particularly dependent on mobile phones to chat, my ex-girlfriend is the same, there are so many topics, who has a lifetime of words kept saying ah, now I think about it and feel very sorry for her, because she knows that there are fewer topics, but she is unwilling to accept this change in emotional relationship, but chooses to lead the topic, has been chattering about things around her, and even the gossip of her friends around her has been brought to me, I don't like to listen to the parents the most, those gossip, sometimes I wonder if she treats me as a best friend,Didn't treat me as her man.。。

I talked to her, and she kept talking about herself, chattering, completely no longer thinking about what I was doing today, what I did, and then I had to respond to his chatter, super draining, and when I wanted to open my mouth to speak, I was tired and didn't want to say it, because the thought of her would be chattering again. I'm getting bigger. In fact, it's just a simple chat.,Make it so complicated.,Give the other party some time and space to talk to you about recent things.,Don't keep talking about yourself.,Don't ask about it.,There's no love for your man at all.,Headache.。。

Sometimes I think that girls also care about the quality of the topic, whether the boy is witty and humorous, whether the content has connotation, and whether there is something in the words. But why, when boys are bored with the topic, they have to be patient? Do you have to rise to the question of love or not, to the height of quality, tolerance, and humility?

Boredom is boring.,Why can girls say "It's boring to talk to you"?,Boys have to say it's interesting.。。。 Isn't the psychological needs of boys important at all?

From your chat, I found that you have the following questions:

1.In your relationship, you are more passive, you have no aura, and you are relatively weak more than a little, I suggest that you be silent for a while, wait for him to come to you, if you don't have it for more than three days, then goodbye.

2.If the other party really likes you, or in the early days of love, what he eats, what fun he sees, and hears a good song, he must want to share it with you for the first time.

3.The other party's character and cultivation, sense of character and responsibility, family background, you must know these things, which is related to how long you can go. For example, his attitude towards a person of relatively low status, how he will treat you when you lose your attraction to him more and more, or when you enter into a marriage in the future.

The boyfriend wants money or not, he wants to have feelings without feelings (your family has even a problem with basic conversations), he wants to be good-looking, and he wants to be accompanied without accompaniment. Do you keep it for the New Year to make your parents feel blocked?

Also, in addition to falling in love, spend more time studying, making friends, or food and movies and other entertainment investment, if your focus is all on him, then you will lose him quickly, it is recommended to hang him for a while, make yourself beautiful, smart and powerful, wait for him to come to you, if you are not looking for you, you just wait for someone better to come to you.

Otherwise, you will become more and more humble. It is also easy to become unhappy.

Friend, I think in your relationship with your boyfriend, you love him more than she loves you.

Judging from the chat, he is already extremely impatient with you, and is expected to be planning cold violence to force you to break up voluntarily.

It's not your problem that you nag, it's that he's deliberately denying you, if he likes you, he'll only think you're cute, even if it's really annoying sometimes, it's just an occasional gentle complaint, the two ** are already deeply impatient, he's denying you, so you must not doubt yourself. Be bold, just get along with him as you are, he is not worth your change for him, if you really can't get it back, it's best to break up! It's really not worth it.

Don't be clingy and annoying all the time. What's the problem with a lot of questions? There's nothing I need to explain to you in the first place, so wouldn't it be nice to find something else?

Talk about life and work, or talk about the interesting things you encountered. Everyone has their own pressures. Originally, I fell in love, and I made friends just to make myself relaxed and happy, but when I met a silly white sweet like you, your boyfriend was really super unlucky, or that sentence:

At first, I thought you were quite simple, but now I directly think that you are just brainless. Nothing else, I just can't look down on you. Please don't do that.

Learn something, do something. At the very least, fill your mind.

If it's the kind of basic common sense question, I suggest you think more and read more books first, after all, there is a limit to patience.

Maybe your circle of friends and work circles are different, and there will naturally be fewer common topics to talk about after being together for a long time, so let's use more snacks to walk into each other's lives! Long live understanding.

That means you don't have any common language, either learn more, or cultivate a common hobby, and if you have the same hobbies, you have a common language.

It shows that your boyfriend doesn't love you enough and doesn't have the most basic patience for you.

Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other for some reason and separate, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and open the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't be envious of the scumbag, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

Leave the wrong feelings.

The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

My boyfriend always says that I have a problem with speaking, it may be that you are always annoying him, you don't regret sticking to him all day long, let him have his own space, two people need private space together, so that the relationship between two people will become better.

Your boyfriend always says that you have a problem with your speech, do you have any verbal clear answers when you speak? If you don't have it, you can ask him where your problem is, and always saying that will make your face very dull.

According to your description, the boyfriend is "used to it" may mean that he has adapted to the Iwayama Hall and you can hear him every time you speak, believing that this is a normal phenomenon that does not need special mention or rough hermit explanation. This may be due to the way you communicate or the environment in which you live, for example, you often communicate in the same room or in a public place, or you have a loud voice that causes him to hear you every time. Your boyfriend may be used to this situation and will not feel uncomfortable or distressed by it.

It's important to note that although your boyfriend is used to hearing you every time, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about what you say or doesn't take your opinion seriously. You can communicate with your boyfriend to understand his thoughts and feelings, and you can also try to change the way you communicate or live in order to better facilitate communication and understanding between the two parties.

If you hear your boyfriend respond every time you speak, but your boyfriend says he's used to it, it could mean that he's used to your voice or your communication patterns. However, it is important to note that if you feel upset or tired, or think that your words are being ignored or underestimated, you need to communicate and express your needs and feelings in a timely manner. At the same time, it is also necessary to consider the wishes and needs of the other party, and establish a mode of mutual respect, understanding and trustworthiness.

In this way, love can be more beautiful and happy. It should be emphasized that the rhetoric and behavior between men and women should be based on mutual understanding and equality, and there should be no oppressive or disregard for each other's needs. Only on the basis of mutual respect and understanding can a long-term and stable relationship be established.