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First of all, you put yourself in the shoes of others, how would you feel if someone else made a joke on you? Do you know how to play? Can you accept it?
If you can't do it yourself, then it's normal for you to joke with others and others can't accept it, it's not a big deal. Jokes that go too far will definitely cause unnecessary trouble, whether it is for yourself or others. Secondly, avoid overdoing it, every time you make a joke, you stop for two or three seconds and think about it, can you accept this joke on your own?
Put yourself in your shoes to avoid a little hassle.
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There is no fixed standard for not picking up, and it varies from person to person, occasion, and personal privacy. We should pay attention to the occasion and object when we joke, and there are some privacy and taboos that must not be joked.
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Jokes are not excessive, as long as they don't damage the other party's interests and life safety, as long as he treats you as a friend, he won't mind too much. In reality, there are always some people, their hearts are made of glass, fragile, very girly, no jokes, just laugh at them.
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Joking will drain your relationship, but don't go too far, otherwise it will make people feel a little uncomfortable.
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1 If the above situation occurs between friends who have a good relationship and there is no violation of principles, I think it is okay.
2 If it happens between ordinary friends or people you don't know well, although it will be awkward in your heart, you should apologize first.
I wish you all a speedy reconciliation!
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A joke is a joke, you must distinguish the severity, some people really don't want to. I don't want others to play it, so you will be troubled as soon as you refresh. This is also a very normal thing.
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Although joking is to make each other more happy, but the joke should also have a degree, in fact, it is a joke between friends, and it should be appropriate, so it will be better.
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Joking depends on the situation, some people really don't know how to play, and some can, pay attention to it next time.
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Sometimes joking also depends on the mood, if he generally jokes with you and you tolerate him, but you joke with him and he is annoyed, if he knows that you are joking, you can say that he doesn't know how to play. But friends should be concerned about their feelings.
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Make jokes that are acceptable to the other person. And make the people around you feel like you're not really right for someone, and everyone is happy.
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It is recommended to change your temper, let yourself be broad-minded, be able to forgive others, forgive others, reflect on yourself more in everything, don't blame others, find your own mistakes, correct and apologize to others in time, don't quarrel with others, be more tolerant, more tolerant, more tolerant, find more shortcomings and faults from yourself, don't complain about others, love others, be benevolent, respect others, take into account the feelings of others when joking with others, and don't hurt others.
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Oh, don't be angry after I finish speaking, he may be colored Maybe this is called a heavy color and light friend, if this is not it, I advise you to put it with him as soon as possible This kind of friend is not worth it You have already apologized and now I don't blame you !! I used to be annoyed with my friend too, but it was fine in a day or two, not like yours !! That's what friendship is, you know?!!
That's all for now
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If you still want this friend and it's your fault, go and take the initiative to reconcile!
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Tell him seriously that you were unintentional at the time, and then talk about the happy days you used to have together, and show how much you value him. I think no matter how hard-hearted people are, they will be moved, and then you will naturally reconcile.
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From your description, it's hard for me to give a detailed answer. Because you didn't even say anything about the jokes, the way you are and your friends, and what he hates most about what people do to him. Still, it can be said about it.
First you have to apologize! He just wants you to admit your mistakes. Find him in a secluded corner and have a good talk (don't smile when you invite him, put on a sincere, serious, and serious attitude.)
Then apologize (try to put on a serious appearance, preferably turn your back on him before turning around) and reassure him that it won't happen again.
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First of all, apologize to him very sincerely and seriously, you can text or email, so as to avoid your embarrassment. Second, tell him that no matter what happens to him, you still be a good friend to him. Don't pay attention to him for a third period of time, it's best not to meet, (there can be an indirect connection, such as a text message, but the text message must not be related to your apology, to find a very real event, for example, you used to play there together, spend him out, you say that your friend wants to play to help ask, I am an analogy.)
Also, after a while, be careful not to take too long, find a good excuse, pretend to talk to him naturally, and that's it. I'm giving you attention from the psychology of people.,If he still ignores you.,I think he's more stingy than our girls.,Just drag you more than him.,Never pay attention to him.,Hehe,Really!
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Maybe people are still not in a good mood, and now they will only hit the nail when they apologize. In a few days, people are in a better mood, so let's try it again.
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Stay away from such people. Very self-centered, will not consider the feelings of others, jokes are okay, but it also depends on the face of the person, because your joke may have touched the bottom line of others, in your opinion, it doesn't matter, others may take it very seriously.
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There is no clear line between joking and pestering. If the joke is over, it becomes a joke. Therefore, the person who wants to joke first depends on the personality, acceptance, and reaction of others.
If you go overboard, the first person to apologize should be him, because his excessive banter is beyond your acceptance. If it's not too much, don't be like him.
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People are affected by the environment, or if there is something in their hearts that they can't think of, they are easy to get angry. In fact, there is a person who can solve this problem with a little sense, and there is something to communicate and exchange slowly. Don't use quarrels or cold war methods.
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I think this is normal, because not Fang likes to add expressions, which is a way to chat about some of life.
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In fact, jokes should be stopped in moderation, you don't know when you will run into each other, go away and talk carefully.
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In chatting, there are very few misunderstandings caused by an expression, unless you meet someone who is very careful, otherwise, it is unlikely to cause misunderstandings. Besides, what expression to add to the end of a joke is still a joke.
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This is often the case.
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There are too many such things, so be cautious when joking.
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Yes A pair of strangers, one eye at each other, and a fight broke out in an instant, and neither of them knew why afterwards.
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After you confessed to him, he said I'm joking, don't play with her, there are many possibilities to say this, but one of them is because you are timid, not sure if you are sincere, you dare not easily show your true feelings in front of you, I don't know the relationship between you, and I didn't look at his expression on the spot, so I can only speculate. Do you want to try and confess to him and tell him, "I didn't fool you?"
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I thought about it for a long time and said that I was playing tricks on you, saying that what the expression at this time would have an impact.
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Probably not.
Appear around him more.
Especially when he's unhappy and sad.
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Look at what the relationship between the two of you is, if it's a friend, there's no need to pursue it, maybe you really forgot, if it's a couple, then look at his attitude, if it's an understatement to answer you, then you have to theorize, if it's very sincere to say that you forgot and ask for forgiveness, then don't take it as an example.
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The other person said: Can I say that I forgot to go back?
Of course you can say.
You have the right to speak.
What do you want to say.
Just say anything.
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He didn't need to answer, he didn't reply because he didn't pay enough attention, as the old saying goes: you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep. Just let him sleep all the time, and you, through this matter, you can recognize a person, isn't it great?
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An obvious provocation?! If it's a joke if it's familiar, you don't have to take it so seriously. It must be not very familiar, so what else to consider, reply with a high profile, turn around and leave.
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