What kind of people will have low levels of satisfaction?

People whose threshold is too high are quite low in satisfaction!

Because you used to be too easily satisfied, you will not be satisfied with the status quo if you can't keep up with your pace in the future.

What is a threshold can be understood here as our satisfaction point. If you get used to the warmth, it will be difficult for you to resist the cold, and if you feel the warmth, you will not be able to accept indifference.

Many people blindly satisfy each other and blindly please each other when dealing with feelings at the beginning. But you will find that if you dislike the other person a little later, the other person will fall into loss. Because what he used to feel was what you gave with all your might, and she took it as a normal thing.

Therefore, we will turn our backs on the slightest slack!

Because we should do the opposite.

I'll give you an example, a story I once saw, and I'll roughly plural it.

Once upon a time, there was a company owner who was supposed to give bonuses to his employees at the end of the year, but he was in trouble. Because my company's recent efficiency has not been very good, and even lost money, there is not so much money in the account, and it is a problem to pay salaries, let alone year-end bonuses. He had a headache all night and finally came up with a solution.

The next day, he called a meeting. At the meeting, everyone thought that the year-end bonus was issued, and they were all happy. At this time, the boss spoke, very sad and said, I'm sorry everyone, now the company is very difficult, there is no year-end bonus, even the salary can not be opened temporarily, our company is in a difficult stage, we have to lay off a large number of employees, leaving a group of heavy employees to leave.

It is true that everyone is very disappointed, the year-end bonus is gone, and the job may not be guaranteed, but no one wants to lose their job, and although they are very sad, they still try to show that they are working.

After a while, the boss saw that the employees were working hard to avoid being laid off, and then called everyone out. I was so touched to see everyone working so hard, I can't bear to lose any of my employees, you are all my family, no matter what, we have overcome this together, I have decided not to lay off employees. Everyone cheered and worked harder.

In fact, when we all look at this story, has his essence changed? It hasn't changed, but the year-end bonus can't be issued. But he made his employees happy.

There's a philosophical implication to that. Because he effectively controlled the threshold of employees. He first set an expectation too low for the employees, and then shook the facts out to dispel that concern, which made the employees overjoyed.

Same thing, different ending.

So, we have to control our own thresholds, you have to understand that you want to give to the top, and you have to give it to the bottom! Constantly suppressing his threshold is what makes it easy for him to be satisfied.

I don't know what kind of way you measure the level of satisfaction? There is a group of commonly known Sanhe gods in Shenzhen Sanhe labor market, they only work for a few days each time, only do temporary work, do not do long-term work, and then receive money, and then go to the Internet café in the future, and continue to do temporary work after the money is spent. And so on and so forth.

Is their satisfaction low or high?

As long as there is a small success or a good thing, you will be very happy, you will be very happy.

The ratio of people's satisfaction temperature to normal body temperature is the ** split ratio, and the normal person's body temperature is generally 37, and the person's satisfaction temperature is about 37

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When I was stared at, I would panic and immediately check my clothes and makeup, for fear that others would laugh at me.

If there is a whisper behind my back when I walk on the road, I will feel that others are pointing at me.

When I am praised for my good looks, I always feel that the other party is just out of politeness, and I dare not accept other people's praise from the bottom of my heart.

On the contrary, if someone comes to blame, it feels like the most normal state.

I have been said to be cold for a long time, but in fact, I just didn't dare to make friends, for fear of being hated, so I waited in silence. I'm afraid of being seen through by others, my self-confidence and coldness are actually disguised, and they will be broken when I poke them.

Extremely sensitive, I care about even the slightest reaction of the other party, and I almost never refuse to ask me to help with things, but I rarely bother others.

If a joke is said that a friend is happy, I will often say that to make others happy, until my friend says, "Why are you still talking about such an old stalk, it's not funny", I actually. I'm not good at making pistachios among friends, but I'm afraid that if I don't continue to do it, I will lose the last bit of value.

When the person I like likes me, I feel that I am really lucky, but I keep asking myself "why did I get such a good person".

The person who liked it left.

It's sad, but I'm relieved from the bottom of my heart that it's the right thing to do.

It's good if you're gone, how can I deserve it.

Later, when I met a good person again, my friend advised me to try it together, and I thought so.

Forget it, don't hurt others.

To be precise, it should be called humility, if you humbly love someone, you will eventually lose yourself, and the other party will also throw you off.

Sometimes I care too much about a person who will look down on himself very low, lest he be unhappy, he says that you can't go to the west, only promises, and even things that are very contrary to your will are attached to him, and you have no dignity.

Whether a man or a woman, as long as they fall in love with someone, they are prone to become humble.

As long as it is true love, she will have low self-esteem, full of uncertainty about this relationship, she will suffer from gains and losses, and she will be cautious about him, sometimes to the point of please.

The more you love, the more humble you will be, fall in love with him, he is the whole world, you think about him every day when you are free, think about him when you are busy, and think of him every moment.

Disliked by all kinds of people! I can't leave because I am burdened! It's okay to be said or scolded!

It's okay to be run! can only bear it silently! Disliked by all kinds of people!

I can't leave because I am burdened! It's okay to be said or scolded! It's okay to be run!

can only bear it silently!

How humble can a person be? I think there are still the following netizens who said, being disliked by all kinds of people, etc., and it is not easy for the baby to do anything by himself? Wei Wei to what people look down on?

People who don't have a common language to do anything, are so humble that they fail to do whatever they want to do? So it's annoying, it's annoying.

Looking at the boundless sea, quietly thinking about the journey of life, looking at the boundless sea, quietly thinking about the journey of life.

A person can be so humble that he wants to be with him despite the opposition of the whole world, he wants nothing but him, he doesn't want to do anything but him, if he doesn't seem to lose all meaning, always look for him every day, always take him as the center of everything!

The extent to which a person can be humbled depends on how much pressure the individual can withstand.

What you want to express, humility can have no bottom line, there is no degree to measure.

Because he was so broken and hated that he didn't want to see you, when he saw you, he beat and scolded him, and the old man didn't get along, and in his heart, he was bad, and he died.

I don't even have the consciousness to control myself.

Humility means that you don't have a little strength yet, and if you can realize it, you have to change positively.

In love, two people are equal, no matter how superior the other person's conditions are, two people should also respect each other. In a relationship, see who loves whom more, the person who loves will give more, and there is no humility or anything, if in a relationship, there is a person who has been accommodating and enduring the unfair treatment of the other party, then the relationship will not come to the end.

There is no distinction between dignity and inferiority! But the role that man plays for entertainment cannot be taken seriously to any extent.

First of all, stay away if you can.

The character of such a "colleague" has already been formed, and it is not necessary to expect to be able to change them and impress them through hard work.

If you don't have a lot of work handovers with them, then thank God you only have to endure a few tortures in a year, and you should go out in a traffic jam.

If there is a lot of work handover, then find a way to disconnect and transfer the work. Of course, this is not easy, and no one wants to take this plate if they know the situation.

Second, don't give gifts, because it doesn't work.

Some friends will think that I will send something small to make him happy, don't card me again in the future, and even give me some convenience, such as financial reimbursement, such as stamping, I can be much more convenient.

If you think about it this way, it's troublesome.

In general, "small favors" are a good means to make friends and deepen relationships. The other party knows that you are showing favor and accepts your goodness, and everyone gets along harmoniously and happily.

But know that a person who is unwilling to maintain the most basic work ethics generally has a large appetite, is not easily satisfied, and has no gratitude. Giving a gift will only make his appetite bigger and more difficult to cooperate with the work.

Again, maintain your "bearing" and shoot when it's time to shoot.

In the face of such colleagues, they can neither directly conflict, but also humble and weak, and "neither humble nor arrogant" is the best way to deal with them.

Direct conflict cannot take advantage, because they are generally close to the above, and because of this, they have the courage to "not cooperate" (make it difficult).

It is also not okay to show weakness, which will only make them feel that this person is easy to bully, rather than feeling that the other party is showing goodwill, and the purpose is to "seek" a good attitude towards cooperation.

Act when it's time – look for the moment and positively and subtly reflect the problem when they cause bad consequences. Don't be soft-hearted, soft-hearted is cruel to yourself.

Finally, if they suddenly come to "woo" you, resolutely refuse.

It is very important to choose a reliable partner in the workplace, and those who do not even respect their own work cannot be expected to have a good heart.

In short, in the face of such "colleagues", they are usually neither humble nor arrogant, they are reasonable and responsible, do not try to form a united front with them, and do not expect to become good friends with them. Stay away, it's fine.

It must be different, some people look at the same nature, but, after careful interpretation, you will still find differences.

Nature is something in the bones, and to discover it and tap it yourself, you need a mature quality.

Not an easy task.

Personality is not born temperament can be inherited, in psychology is like this, of course, everyone's personality is different, personality can be cultivated, can also be changed.

Human nature should be in the bones!Some people are born cheap!It's indescribable!And he thought it was a good feeling.

Masters with low sensitivity are generally not anxious when they see people, because they feel that after seeing the enemy, calm down and aim at the head to shoot, so the sensitivity should not be too fast, too fast will not be able to control the probability of aiming at the head, and people who are used to low sensitivity will slowly become not anxious when they see people or many people, will not tremble, and will kill one by one.

Because the sensitivity will not float when hitting, it is relatively stable.

If you get used to it, you can do anything, the sensitive low point is easy to control, and the machine gun will not be very floating.