I quarreled with my boyfriend and it hurt. It s sad to quarrel with my boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    For him: 1Look at his mainstream side, whether he is the kind of person you like; 2.

    The two basic points required for "manhood" --- to be responsible; Dealing with people and things is not stingy; 3.what your usual temper is (excluding the noises you cause); 4.If he is usually a selfish person, then I advise you to think early about whether to continue to develop with him, and the "selfish man" will definitely hurt you in the future.

    For you:1Serious things and jokes can't be mixed together; 2.

    Don't force "nice words" – if he says and can't do it, wouldn't it hurt even more? 3."Spoiled" and "savage" are two different things--- I mean, spoiling should be just right, and if you overdo it, it will become a barbaric entanglement; 4.

    The "fuse" of this quarrel is you, please think about it, in that case, don't say to anyone that ---your own sister is married, even if you are poor, you have to "express" it.

    Hopefully, empathy, you will come out of complaining and sadness and make the right judgment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, try to make some changes! My boyfriend and I have been in this situation as well. My method is to behave in a way that is perverse, like:

    I used to stick to him and get tired of him, but he was still not satisfied, and complained to me when he had nothing to do. Until that birthday, he said to come and accompany me, but he didn't, and I was very angry, so we quarreled. After that, although it was okay again, I still made concessions, and I didn't want to quarrel every day like you.

    After that, I didn't give him ** every day, and he called and dealt with a few words casually, and he felt the change in me, so we had a deep talk, and both of us gave in, and it would be good to think more about each other. If you love him, don't go on like this, talk about it well, if he is still obsessed, then I think this man will be unwilling, and you will have a hard time getting married! Think about it for yourself!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your own sister.,Why don't you ask him to give money.,Even if you're joking, you can't do this.。。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There has to be one person taking the initiative.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Men sometimes love face, maybe when you are angry, he is also entangled in his heart, wants to coax you, and can't pull down his face, he will find you in a few days, you don't want to sulk yourself, still happy, you said what he said your requirements will try to change for you in the future, then give him time, two people need a run-in period to be together for a long time, only mutual tolerance, mutual understanding and accommodation of love, can last a long time, I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Dear, since it's sad to quarrel with your boyfriend, you can regulate your sadness by breathing.

    Dear, since it's sad to quarrel with your boyfriend, you can regulate your sadness by breathing.

    It's the morning before yesterday that I told him to tie up a software lover relationship, he said to bind his family, I said why, he said why he has to bind lovers, I said why can't bind, and then he said he didn't want to get it, and then I got angry, I said oh, he said every time because of a little bit of trivial things to quarrel hail acres, and then said to quarrel.

    I see! To put it bluntly, he doesn't want to fulfill your wishes, and your emotions collide, leading to a quarrel behind you.

    From his point of view, family is more suitable for your relationship than lovers, so he is not fulfilling your wishes.

    Because Yan Fan broke up with the first trip, and then the second time he tied up with my family, he lifted it again, and then this afternoon I wanted to talk to him well, I didn't want to talk to him that day, and explained to him, and then as soon as I sent a long message to someone, people were two words, three words were sold in dates, and people thought I was annoyed.

    You had a previous emotional change that led to the dissolution of the relationship between the bound lovers and the dissolution of the binding family relationship.

    To put it bluntly, the relationship between you is unstable.

    If you send a long paragraph, he has two or three words, and thinks you are annoying, which means that he has negative feelings about you and does not love you enough.

    And then I didn't talk to him, and then he said, what the hell do you want? You'll be happy after a fight! I'll just say, what is the noisy luck to raise relatives?

    I just want to know what you think? Then he didn't reply to me, and he said "Do you want to break up?" And he murdered me.

    If he loves you very much, then this phenomenon will not occur.

    In this way, he doesn't want you to understand what he thinks, and he doesn't want to break up with you.

    Otherwise, I won't reply to you, and I won't murder you.

    But he finally said, can you quietly play by yourself? I didn't reply to him, and I ignored him.

    That said, he wants you to play quietly by yourself.

    He doesn't want to argue with you like this.

    It can be seen from here that he doesn't want to continue to quarrel with you, he still loves you in his heart and is unwilling to break up with you.

    Teacher, I don't know what to do.

    You didn't reply to him, you ignored him, you did the right thing. This will help put the brakes on your emotional conflicts.

    Here's what to do: Don't contact him just yet.

    After a while, wait for him to take the initiative to reconcile with you.

    Doing so will help show your dignity and help ease the emotional conflict between you.

    I also thought that I wouldn't contact him anymore, and I kept sending messages and making people trouble.

    Uh-huh. It's good not to contact him, at least you can not continue to make trouble for your family.

    By the way, dear, why are you sad?

    Did he do anything excessive?

    Can you go on and add a little bit more?

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