Who knows the story about Qinren, the more the better, the one in Meng s Mother Chooses Neighbors .

When we say that a person approaches a good person and treats his neighbor well, we use the idiom of kindness and kindness. Kindness and good neighborliness are from "Zuo Chuan: The Six Years of the Hidden Father": The Five Fathers admonished:

Kindness and good-neighborliness are also the treasure of the country. Jun Qi Xu Zheng. Actually, this is a thought-provoking historical story.

On May 11, 717 BC, Zheng attacked Chen and won a great victory. And Zheng Guo's attack on Chen was completely caused by Chen Hou's arrogance and unreasonableness.

It turned out that before Zheng Fa Chen, the prince of Wei Guo, Zhou Hu, killed his brother Wei Huan Gong and became the monarch himself. In order to consolidate its dominance, the state called for brutal suppression of hostile forces internally, and externally contacted the relevant countries to prepare for an attack on Zheng State, with which it was at odds. At this time, it coincided with the accession of Song Duke Song to the throne, and Song's younger brother Gongzi Feng fled to Zheng State.

Zheng Guo originally wanted to send his son Feng back to China, but after Zhou called for his brother to seize power, he used this matter to unite Song, Chen, Wei, Cai and other countries to attack Zheng Guo. Although the soldiers of these five countries were strong and strong, they besieged Zhengdu for five days, but under the stubborn resistance of Zheng Guo, they finally returned in vain. Zhou Hu was also killed by the defenders because of this.

It is regrettable that in order to be good-neighborly and friendly and turn enemies into friends, Zheng Guo sent people to Chen a year before the attack, asking for peace with him and getting back together, but Chen Huan Gong refused. The five fathers of the doctor advised Huan Gong and said: "Being close to benevolence and righteousness and living in harmony with neighbors is an important magic weapon for building a country."

Monarch, you should agree to Zheng Guo's request! However, Chen Huan Gong said: "The Song State and the Wei Kingdom are the real scourges, and they cannot be provoked."

And what is the little Zheng Guo? It was his erroneous behavior of bullying the weak and fearing the hard, not distinguishing between right and wrong, and perverse behavior, that ended up in a tragic end of disrepute. When commenting on this matter, the author of "Zuo Biography" said earnestly:

Kindness with others cannot be lost, and evil cannot be allowed to grow. This is like Chen Huangong, who promotes evil without repentance, and finally leads to the inevitable failure of the event.

The full sentence is"Xi Mengmu, choose a neighbor. If you don't learn, you will be cut off"Past: Once upon a time, in ancient times, choosing neighbors:

Choose a neighbor to live in: Mencius, Mingke, Zizi and, Zou during the Warring States Period, later generations, respected "Yasheng". Machine:

machines, looms; 杼, shuttle. Mengzi's mother: Mencius's mother, surnamed Yan, virtuous and virtuous.

The story goes like this: when Mencius was very young, his father died, and Mengzi's mother moved her family to a neighborhood away from her father's cemetery to educate Mencius with what she knew. Because there is a cemetery around, there are often people crying and screaming, and Meng Ke also learns from those people, they walk around, and Meng Ke follows them.

When Meng Mu saw it, she thought, "This place to live is not an ideal place. So, Meng's mother moved again and moved to the edge of the market.

Because the hawkers all wanted to make money and desperately solicited business, Meng Ke also learned to shout like the hawkers, and when Meng's mother saw it, she thought: "This place to live is not good." Meng's mother moved again, this time, she moved to the school, because there are often literati who come to the school to bow and kneel, Meng Ke proposed to Meng's mother to go to school to study, Meng's mother said:

That's the ideal place. Meng Ke was very playful, and once, when he skipped school and returned home, Meng's mother said angrily: "Why did you come back before school was over?"

Mencius did not dare to be silent. Meng Mu angrily broke the shuttle on the loom. She said

When the shuttle is broken, the cloth cannot be woven, and the same is true for learning. Mencius listened to his mother's words, studied hard, and became a great man.

Meng Ke (Mencius) was a famous thinker during the Warring States period, and according to legend, his father died when he was very young, and his mother took on the responsibility of educating Meng Ke. In order to educate him, Meng's mother moved three times. At first, his family lived at the foot of a mountain, and there were many graves on the mountain, so he often followed the example of the grave man, offering sacrifices and bowing down.

Meng's mother was afraid that her son would go astray, so she moved her family to a crowded market, but his neighbor was a butcher, and Meng Ke learned to drink and sell meat. Meng's mother was very worried, and moved her family to a place close to the school, he heard the sound of reading and the teaching of Mr. every day, and the sound of reading in the school attracted Meng Ke, and he gradually learned to read. Meng Mu was finally satisfied.

With the efforts of Meng's mother, Meng Ke finally found a good learning environment. Later, he worshipped Confucius's grandson, Zi Si, as his teacher, and eventually became a great thinker, known as the "Yasheng".

Do you want to ask the story of Meng's mother's three migrations? In the past, Mencius's mother moved to the vicinity of the slaughterhouse and crematorium in order to educate her children, but in this way, the children would learn the behavior of butchers and funerals all day long, and finally moved to a school nearby, Mencius was influenced by the style of learning and made progress.

In the past, when Mencius was young, his father died early, and his mother did not remarry during the festival. In the beginning, they lived next to the cemetery. Mencius and the children in the neighborhood learned to bow down and cry as adults, and played the game of handling funerals.

When Mencius's mother saw it, she frowned: "No! I can't let my kids live here anymore!

Mencius's mother took Mencius to the market, where she lived near the place where pigs and sheep were slaughtered. When he arrived at the market, Mencius and the neighbor's children learned how to do business as a merchant and to slaughter pigs and sheep. Mencius's mother knew about it, and frowned again:

This place is not suitable for my kids either! So, they moved again. This time, they moved closer to the school.

At this time of the first day of the summer calendar every month, ** go to the Temple of Literature, bow and bow, treat each other politely, Mencius learns to remember one by one. Mencius's mother nodded with satisfaction and said, "This is where my son should live!"

Later, everyone used "Meng's mother chooses neighbors" to indicate that people should be close to good people, things, and things in order to learn good habits! It also shows that the environment can change a person's hobbies and habits.

Look at the Three Character Sutra, there are many such stories in it, just look at the commentary.

tells the story of Zou Mengke's mother, known as Meng's mother, and Meng's mother chose to live next neighbor.

Meng's mother moved three times, that is, Meng Ke's mother moved many times in order to choose a good environment to educate her children. In the "Three Character Classic", it says:"Xi Mengmu, choose a neighbor.

Meng's mother's three moves came from this. The explanation of the word is that Mencius's mother took great pains to make sure that her children had a really good educational environment, and they moved to three places twice. Nowadays, it is often used to refer to parents who have good intentions and do their best to nurture their children.

The story of Mengzi's mother's choice of neighbors: When Mencius was young, Liang Tsai was very naughty, it turned out that Mencius's family was near the cemetery, Mencius went to school to cry and mourn, and played a funeral game with the neighbor's children; When Meng's mother saw this, she moved her family to the vicinity of the bazaar, and Mencius learned from the merchants of Qi Tong to buy and sell and butchers to slaughter; Meng's mother moved her family to the vicinity of the school, and Mencius was affected and learned to read every day, so Meng's mother settled near the school.

The meaning of Meng's mother's three movesThe three migrations of Mengzi's mother refer to the fact that Mencius's mother moved many times in order to choose a good environment to educate her children. Meng's mother's three migrations is a well-known idiom story, from "The Legend of the Daughters: Zou Mengke's Mother". At first, Mencius's family lived near the cemetery, then Meng's mother moved to the market, and finally moved to the vicinity of the school, and then settled.

The allusion of Meng's mother's three movesThe allusion of Meng's mother's three moves comes from "The Biography of the Daughters: Zou Mengke's Mother": "Zou Mengke's mother is also called Meng's mother. His house is close to the tomb, and Mencius is also young and frolicking for the things in the tomb, and he is actively buried.

Meng Mu said:'This is not my place to live. 'It is to go to the city.

Its frolic is a matter of Jia people's show-off. Meng Mu said again:'This is not my place to live.

Returning to the palace of the school Its frolic is to set up a bean to make way to advance and retreat. Meng Mu said:'I can really live in my son.

So he lived there. and Mencius, who learned the six arts, and died in the name of Confucianism. ”