I want to save myself, but I really need some guidance and help!。。

First of all, regarding the major, I think you probably haven't really understood what you're studying. If you are a little more curious to look at your major, especially what this major can do and what problems it can solve, you may be interested in your major.

Secondly, regarding relationships, I think you may have the following 2 problems that cause you to have little opportunity to communicate deeply with people, resulting in "coldness between classmates", which further leads to a strong sense of loneliness:

A: You don't realize that you need to take the initiative to socialize with others, and "being an outstanding student in junior high and high school" has actually become an obstacle to your normal interaction with others. I believe that because you excel in junior high school and high school, you are surrounded by classmates who follow you, teachers who like you, in short, you don't need to take the initiative to socialize with people, and naturally you have a group of friends around you.

Universities, on the other hand, do not value test scores, and everyone is more independent and values free interaction based on common interests.

B: You didn't actively participate in or organize club activities in college, and you didn't care much about public or collective affairs such as school and classes. In short, you're not trying to be part of a group.

Third, about academics. I think the key point is also your character. Try to socialize more with your classmates, try to join a club, try to do something for others.

Think about your social responsibilities as an adult, your responsibility to your family, and think about how many years your parents have worked for you, no matter what, you need to be able to support yourself as soon as possible.

University courses in particular.

The professional courses in the third and fourth years are actually not difficult, but the basic courses in the first and second years may be more difficult, and the knowledge of these basic courses is not good, and it has little to do with the major you choose.

As soon as you start learning responsibly, great.

3. There should be no subjects in the senior year. And big.

1. The subjects that you did not pass in your sophomore year will also be easily passed as your learning ability increases.

You can choose to spend the remaining two years of college happily and productively, or you can choose to continue to ignore your classmates, not participate in group activities, and tell yourself that "I don't really like this major." "And spent painfully.

I believe that you are willing to choose to spend happily and happily, and the method is also very simple, think more about others and less for yourself. More curiosity and diligence, less rejection and procrastination.

I'm in a similar situation to you, but it's not as serious as you, I'm in my junior year at the beginning of school, but I didn't do well in the college entrance examination, and I went to a school that is not very far from home, majoring in mathematics, and I'm not very interested in mathematics, I also failed the course in the first two years, but I'm not bad, because although I don't like mathematics, I don't study pure mathematics, it's actuarial direction, I like it, but I want to learn the foundation of mathematics in the first two years, although I have failed, but I can take the exam again, I don't think anything is as bad as it seems, For example, you, I think you don't have confidence in yourself now, once a person said, the real ability is not to learn what you like, is to learn what you are not interested in, I think you can not let your major fail too much, and strive to get a certificate when you graduate, you don't have to get a high score in each exam, 60 points are still okay, and then you can choose some other courses you like to learn, there are many people whose later work has nothing to do with their original major, Either learn a second degree or something, and there is a certificate after studying, which is not bad, but it is to pay more time, or to take those certificates that are more useful now, certified accounting or something, or use your spare time to learn a small language, Korean, Japanese, French or something, it is likely to be useful in the future, I think the university is actually still very beautiful, but you are too stressed, you don't have time to enjoy the good, you have to try to relax yourself, give yourself confidence, there is sunshine in your heart, you will naturally have the mood to think about yourself seriously and clearly, After all, the person who knows himself best is still himself, for parents, I think you don't need to worry too much, mom and dad are actually the people who care about you the most, maybe they show too high expectations for you, but in fact they just want their children to have a healthy and happy life, so I think you still have the most basic to ensure that you have to pass 60 in your major, and then enrich yourself with more spare time, and then there is friendship and love, in fact, you have to be ready to pay as much as you want, Be honest with others others will be good to you, no one doesn't like to have a sincere friend, you have to let go of yourself, don't always be alone, as for love is something that can be met but not sought, fate is very mysterious, in fact, there is not always always happiness with love, I think if you don't have a healthy psychology, optimistic attitude, even if you have love, it is not a good thing, it may bring you more troubles, not how to be happy in life, not what you love, but love you all, I think it's definitely right that you enjoy whatever fate gives you...Oops, we have similarities, I can play so much and say so much, I hope it can help you...

Go to the gym, if there is no gym nearby, just ask Hu Tsai to run and exercise every day, or play basketball, in short, insist on exercising every stove day, and if you continue to do this, you will become more and more autistic and even depressed.

How did this annoyance come to be classified here?

1.Usually practice in front of the mirror when you are alone, and imitate the momentum of the speaker's speech2Learn to smile often, and God will always favor those who smile often3Affirm your usual small successes.

4.Actively absorb knowledge.

Don't care what others think. Make yourself!! If you want to become, you have to do it step by step!!

Be bold!! But be sure to have a good relationship with your colleagues and classmates, which will increase your self-confidence!! Do things with efficiency, not by who takes the long time!!

Be sure to have domineering self-confidence, so that you don't dare to do anything in front of the public because of all kinds of worries and fears. Look at your family correctly, don't run away, and you will forget it slowly when you have fun with everyone. Don't close yourself, closing yourself is only bad and not good.

In the era of mass entrepreneurship and innovation, we must first understand what changes will occur in China in 2016?

Then follow the trend and the party is king.

1.Real estate will come to an end;

2.Civil servants are no longer iron rice bowls;

3.Unemployment after graduation will become the norm;

4.Individual entrepreneurship will blossom everywhere.

5.The pressure on brick-and-mortar stores to survive has increased dramatically.

6.The spring of the Internet era has arrived.

As the saying goes: the poor do things, the rich make the market, and the businessmen do the momentum [trends] can be exchanged.

Step 1. It's definitely going to be rented. and keep the rent to a minimum. And ask for a one-month decoration period.

Two. Assemble the room as quickly as possible. All the equipment is bought.

Three. Go to the Nantong vegetable market to find a seasoning supplier (if you don't have one, I will introduce you to one) and then find a fresh meat supplier. Go down to the grain and oil market diagonally opposite the entrance of Nantong Village. Find a supplier (I am a wholesaler), and the above 3 things can be memorized before opening.

Four. In the surroundings do propaganda in the form of posters ** means. Let the surrounding residents know that you opened that day and entice them to come and see it on the first day. Remember that the opening day is important. Be sure to fire. **Be sure to put it down.

Five. Put fruits and vegetables on the shelves the night before opening.

That's the basic step, but it's best to get a business license before opening. You yourself have to have the confidence to do a good job in your love shop.

It is recommended that you add alcohol to the category and make a lot of profits. And I don't understand looking for me.

Some of them also take over the house, but it's not convenient to buy things now.

It looks simple, but in practice it is quite tiring to do, and all the money earned is hard work.

And the amount is limited.

I have to go to the fruit and vegetable wholesale market every day to choose goods, and the tail goods are cheap.

If you don't have experience, it's best not to start with fresh. Wear and tear are not easy to control.

You can open a community supermarket, and go to the farmers' market to find someone to contract for the fresh food. Starts can be rent-free.

Let's take the public security test. Basic knowledge of public security.

Argument Study hard.

Housing architecture, ergonomics, etc.

Let's first learn "Architectural Drawing and Drawing", which is a prerequisite and a must.

These are relatively abstract, it is recommended that you go to a professional school to learn, this major is mainly to practice by yourself and get on the computer. For example, Xinhua, you can refer to it

If you don't have any foundation, you don't know much about it, so I don't mind if you go to a specialized school to learn a specialized major.

Dreams and goals--- analyze their own possibilities to achieve them--- summarize, analyze, find a way--- if possible, give it a go, but remember to do it appropriately, don't break the law