Sister, how can you tell my parents that I have a boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I haven't talked about it before! It's the first time at first glance, I haven't experienced it, I've invested a little too much, I've made my parents sad sooner or later, you must be ready to go to the man's place to live, and you'll do whatever it takes to love. Don't be stupid, engineering girl.

    You don't think that you will be happy if you pay wholeheartedly, against the wishes of your parents in the end you have to suffer, you really because you have not talked about the wrong feeling that he is your only, the two are in love, the blessing of the family is very important, if you marry far away, your parents are a difficult problem to solve, don't look at the parents are in good health now, you will need to be by your side in the future, this is not only family affection but also love for you, in fact, you don't need to make this decision so firmly, there are such examples around me, don't listen to your parents, I had to live in the man's place, but I suffered a lot of grievances as soon as I went, because she was too hesitating, lived in the man's house, did not get love, but let the man's family look down on her, her mother-in-law often bullied her, not only did housework every day, but also scolded from time to time, she regretted it, hit **, but her parents couldn't help it, after all, this was the path she chose herself, if she listened to her parents at the time, find one locally, at least she was wronged and could have her mother's family to protect her. Having said that, think for yourself! Remember, it's all your choice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You test your parents for a while, and then you pretend to be joking, and say, if you find a person from out of town, do you agree, see how they react, if it's too strong, just wait, if it's not too strong, discuss it slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're not getting married soon, so why are you in such a hurry to inform your parents? On the contrary, you have eaten ginseng fruit for a year!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    FFF buy a barrel of gasoline and finish it yourself, don't send out the group.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Just say that someone is chasing, what should I do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A man who always calls you sister should most of them just want to get close to you and pull a sense of closeness from you.

    Because the title of sister is generally closer, and most girls will become more friendly to this person if they are called sister by others. It's as if the other party is more vulnerable than herself, so it will ignite this girl's desire to protect this man.

    So when a boy teaches this girl's sister, it means that this boy pins a lot of his things on this girl. So in the process of getting along with the two people, they can naturally see the sincerity of this boy.

    And I think a guy always calls you sister, obviously he wants to get closer to you, generally speaking, if a guy likes a girl or wants to be close to this girl, and at the same time will close the distance between the two by entering the other party's hall as sister.

    Another reason is that girls are very strong mothers. Calling them sister will make them feel that the other party needs to protect each other and deserve their own protection, so it will be better for each other, and the two people will be closer to each other in this way, and Nai Tong will heat up the relationship between the two people more quickly. I also found the opportunity for two people to contact many times.

    So a man is a woman, and the sister is either a girl who wants to find help with something, or she likes that girl more in her heart and wants to get closer.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Boyfriend Xingqi calls you sister, which may be his alternative view of love. Because of the implicit judgment, he felt that love should be cared for by his sister and his brother in every way. That is, he wants yours. pampered rather than completely output by him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can afford it, you can help your younger brother go to school, as long as it doesn't affect your life. As for marriage, you still have to be cautious, it is best to find someone you love and the other party also loves you, and you can discuss the bride price and dowry with your parents. Most parents still put their daughter's happiness first.

    But there is also the meaning of wanting to reduce the pressure on the family. As a member of the family, you should also be happy for your younger brother to study, let your younger brother be admitted to a good university, and have a good job in the future, and your boyfriend should also support you. A really good boyfriend should not only be good to you, but also to your family.

    The good and the bad are their own business, and the parents have no regrets. Is the mind progressing compared to your parents? From my own thoughts, now I am thinking the same as my mother, and my children are the same.

    According to the actual situation of the current society, daughters treat their parents more thoughtfully than sons, this is the specific situation of real life! In particular, the tuition fees of the university, the cost of living, is not a small amount. In most families, parents work hard to save money for their children to go to school and complete their education.

    If parents really can't afford to provide for them, it makes sense for the elders of families with many children to lend a helping hand!

    Although our family was poor, our parents' thinking was more advanced in that era. When we were in elementary school, our parents taught us that we must study hard and get admitted to a good university, so that we can find a good job and go to work in a state unit without having to work in a rural field or an assembly line in a factory. You say that you have social phobia, which generally requires a hospital diagnosis to say this, maybe you are just a little cautious, worried about making mistakes, which is also beneficial, that is, it is not easy to make mistakes, but it also makes you feel uncomfortable, and you can't relax and stretch yourself.

    In fact, it's thinking too much, worrying too much, worrying too much, stressing too much, as you say, almost depressed, suffering from mental illness. Therefore, it leads you to have a delusion in your heart, always thinking that your parents do not want to see you, are putting pressure on you, and have morally kidnapped you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This kind of thing is really very eye-opening, you definitely can't agree to your parents' request, and you'd rather break up with your boyfriend than give it to your sister, because boyfriend is not an object.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you should let it, and I think it's impossible to force this kind of thing in feelings, it's not that the deal is let go and it won't end well, so you should still follow your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should be responsible for your own feelings and communicate well with your parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think I should let it, my sister and my parents' views are incorrect, and feelings are not something that can be obtained by letting them out.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of thing must not be allowed, boyfriend is not the same thing, it is not said to be let go, you should make it clear to your family.

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