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<> in life, there are many things worth cherishing and recalling. At the same time, there are many setbacks waiting for you to face on the road of life. And setbacks need a good attitude to deal with, and I used to be more depressed and inferior.
The sky was overcast, as if to herald the coming of a storm. Today is the day of the final exam papers, and I calmly listened to the teacher calling my name and scores, alas! Didn't pass again. I expected this, listen, people are talking about me again.
I stared at the test paper, and suddenly found that I had done the best question wrong, so I hurriedly asked my tablemate, and the tablemate said, "You are so stupid, you can't do such a simple question." As soon as his voice fell, the person in front of him also said:
It's stupid, there's no way." After I listened, I didn't refute, but my heart was full of helplessness and inferiority, and I bowed my head deeply.
When I got home, I knew what I was going to face, a real storm.
Dad had a gloomy face, and I sighed silently in my heart, alas, he must have known about my results. Just wanted to eat, but my father said coldly: "Are you my daughter, why are you so stupid, you are really stupid."
These words, like a thorn, pierced my heart, except for pain.
However, the golden cicada will shed its shell, the caterpillar will become a butterfly, and everything will have a new side.
No, Dad was going to buy groceries, and everything didn't go as planned. The bike broke down, and my father, who has always been smart, didn't fix it after repairing it for a long time. After I asked clearly, I found out that my father had done everything, so he had to replace a screw, but the screw was rusty, and my father couldn't remove it.
I had an idea and confidently said to my father, "Dad, I know the way."
Dad looked at me with distrust, I nodded solemnly, went directly to Dad's toolbox, took out the syringe, sucked some oil, and oiled the screws. Then when I asked my dad to screw it again, he easily unscrewed it. Dad was very happy and said with a smile
Daughter, when she grows up, she will find a way for her father", needless to say, I myself was happy and happy.
Go your own way and let others say go! I finally understood this sentence. People will always change, there will always be a new side, and from this matter, it really makes me feel a lot. In the future, I will no longer feel inferior, and I want others to see a different me.
From this little thing I regained my confidence, like a key finding a lock cylinder.
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Fan Wen: Look for self-confidence.
It is inevitable that there will be some setbacks, some worries, some troubles that will be easy to solve, and some troubles will disappear with the passage of time, and some troubles will be different, the more you dodge, the more it will haunt you, and it will become tighter and tighter over time, like a man-eating vine in the primeval forest of Africa, which will entangle you to exhaustion and refuse to stop. That's what happened to me.
When I entered the sixth grade, my parents put too much pressure on me, and I gradually felt that I could not bear the pressure of schoolwork. The efficiency of learning is getting lower and lower, and the grades in all subjects have regressed again and again, and I was originally a good child in the eyes of my parents, a good student in the eyes of my teachers, and a good role model in the eyes of my classmates, because of the rapid decline in my grades, I feel that their vision has changed. In order to recover everything I have lost, I redoubled my efforts to study, in addition to completing the homework assigned by the teacher, I also found a lot of course tutorials, and I plunged into the books.
Gorky said, "I pounce on books like a hungry man pounces on bread." I've never felt like this, I'm just studying for my own dignity, and in order not to let others look down on me, I think I have to "suffer hard".
Maybe it's Huang Tian who lives up to his hard work, I can figure out the questions raised by the teacher in class, and the students' questions are difficult, and I also know it clearly, but when I stand up to answer the questions, I don't have the same eloquent demeanor as before, I am drowning in the eyes of my classmates and can't extricate myself, they seem to look at me with a suspicious look: This is a difficult question, just rely on you, can you answer it? My heart was pounding, I was stumbling, and my words didn't make sense, and the result was that my classmates chuckled more sarcastically.
What's going on? I pondered and meditated, but I couldn't find the answer, could it be that success would never be with me.
Occasionally, when I was bored, I flipped through a book of "The Reader", and an article "The Power of Self-Confidence" moved me inexplicably. There is an adage at the Brookings Institution in the United States: "We don't lose confidence because something is difficult to do; It's because we lose self-confidence, and some things seem difficult to do. "yes, isn't that what I am?
I firmly say to myself every day: I am born to be useful, believe in yourself! As my self-confidence grew, I gradually returned to my old ways and found myself in the eyes of others.
Yes, when troubles are haunting you like vines, escaping is not the way to go, you should cut through the mess quickly.
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"The wildfire burns inexhaustibly, and the spring breeze blows and grows", this poem is a poem that describes the tenacious vitality of the grass. Nature is a wordless book, which taught me to understand the preciousness of life and the tenacity of life!
Human life is like grass. In a person's life, there will be many ups and downs, just like the grass, which may be scorched by the merciless fire at any time, but scorching does not mean the end of life, on the contrary, it means a new beginning of life! The relentless fire is like a bump in a person's life, it may be a disease or a heart-wrenching lesson!
But it doesn't mean the end of everything! It doesn't mean the end of life! In the long river of life, there are often many things that you can't change after your efforts, but you have worked hard for it, and in the end, you can still proudly tell people "I am successful"!
In fact, living in this world, there are many tenacious lives around you that are struggling. It's painful, but it's motivating! Let me know the preciousness of life!
I remember an incident where there was a man who was seriously ill and that was not curable by today's medicine. The pain he endured every day was indescribable!
But he fought the disease tenaciously! I remember when he couldn't walk on the ground; Remember when he was half paralyzed; I still remember that when the pain made him unable to breathe, he was still fighting tenaciously; He still smiled and said to us, "Wait until I go back"! However, he has never overcome fate, although he still yearns for a better tomorrow!
When people were still immersed in the sound of the happy firecrackers of the New Year, he closed his eyes and fell asleep as usual, but the difference was that he could not wake up, he left us forever! The pain in the hearts of each of us cannot be expressed in words. However, when we look at his ** with tears in our eyes, his sunny smile seems to tell us:
Don't feel sorry for me, although I have left you forever, but I have worked hard to fight the disease, I have no regrets, I am successful, because I have worked hard! "He may be gone from us, but there will always be him in our hearts, and he inspires me! He's like grass, he's tenacious, he's brave!
I don't think I should shed tears for him, because he is now probably starting over in another beautiful world! I should bless him silently here!
In the withering of the grass, I read tenacity! As he struggled with pain, I read life! Nature has given us infinite knowledge to experience the mysteries of it in our growing years!
In the wordless book of nature, we will read its meaning; read its philosophy; As young people in the new century, let us sing the hymn of life and hold up the sun of tomorrow of the motherland! Let's struggle.
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I finally understood the joy of success.
Last summer, my mom and dad and sister were out. I'm the only one in the house. I was playing with my sister's favorite rag doll by the window of the cottage upstairs, and since the window was open, I accidentally touched the rag doll out of the window with my hand. Fell on the roof.
In my heart, there are six gods without a master, like 15 buckets - seven up and eight down. At this time, I looked up and saw that there were a few people downstairs walking in front of me with fishing rods, and my eyes rolled, and I had an idea, and I made a hook to hook it up like a fish. Just do it, I got it from downstairs.
Needles, threads, lighters and vises. I first clamped the needle with a vise and heated it with a lighter so that the needle would bend easily. Do this step well, and the next step is threading, which sounds simple and difficult to do.
I wore it over and over again, and I put it on. I was so happy that the power of the six gods and no master had already flown out of the clouds.
I put the line long. Well, the hook fell on the house, and I moved carefully, but the hook didn't seem to obey the call, but it couldn't hook me, and I thought, is it too light in front? I decided to weight something, I took the hook up, added an iron rod about 4 cm long, I put it down again, this time, it was much better than the last time, the first time it was not hooked, the second time it was not hooked, the third time it was not hooked, I thought:
Failure is the mother of success. Only do it with your heart, there can always be a good time, who has not failed. I tried again and again, and it really paid off, and I finally hooked the rag doll.
I did it! I did it! I am very happy in my heart, and I know that success can bring joy and happiness to people, and it can increase our knowledge and experience, and enhance our self-confidence and pride!
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I finally understood my mom.
In the world, only mothers are good, and children with mothers are like ...... treasures"Every time I sing a song, I think of my dear mother. My mother is the closest person to me, and she has given me infinite love and care. However, I also had a misunderstanding about my mother, and there is one thing that I still remember vividly.
How do you do it, art is good! Mom looked at the report card and scolded me, "No, you have to learn to draw!" "What?
Learning to draw? "I was stunned, painting has never been my strong point, and now I am actually asked to study art! I think my mother is really strong, why do I have to learn to draw?
Hum! When you're old, I'll let you do what you don't want to do! But now, I dare not speak out, so I have to rely on my mother, because I know that my mother's "women's singles" and "saliva station" are first-class.
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Find the coffee beans in your life.
When you stand on the high mountain and overlook the earth, do you appreciate its loftiness, or do you feel the domineering spirit of "being at the top of the mountain and seeing the mountains at a glance"; When you face the vast and boundless sea, do you admire its boundlessness, or find the inclusive mind of "the sea is inclusive, and tolerance is great"; When you see the autumn sunset leaves falling one after another, are you sentimental about its withering, or learn the dedication of "falling red is not a ruthless thing, turning into spring mud is more protective of flowers". The world is so wonderful, and life is so colorful, see if you can appreciate the true meaning of life and discover the truth, success and proverbs everywhere.
There was a father who gave his daughter such an experiment: he boiled a fragile egg in water, and when the water was boiled, he got a tough egg. Then the hard carrot was boiled in water, but a soft carrot was obtained.
In the end, he boiled the hard and unpalatable coffee beans in the water, but they got a mellow, evocative cup of coffee. The father told his daughter: "Life is like boiling water, it is unremarkable, but when you experience and discover the truth in it, life will become colorful, no longer monotonous, but full of opportunities and fun."
Indeed, there are so many things in life that you should learn, discover and utilize, and it is like a stepping stone that opens the door to success for you.
Wang Bo realized from life that "when you are old, you should be strong, and you would rather move the heart of the white head; poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds"; Su Dongpo realized from life a different kind of life of "parasitic mayflies in the world, a drop in the sea"; Li Bai realized from life the optimistic attitude of "there will be a time when the wind and waves will be long, and the clouds will sail into the sea". The ancients have already seen the shining place of life, and they learned and felt from it, and won valuable wealth for life.
When we are in a difficult situation, we should not be discouraged and run away, but pursue the things available around us, so that we can step out of the predicament and realize the value of life. Like Nadalton, Momofuku Ando, and Jolly, they are good at discovering the truths in life and using them for themselves, and eventually succeed in their careers.
Life is a hidden treasure, it's up to you to find it and make the most of it; Life is the golden key in the pile of keys, it depends on whether you can find it and open the door to success; Life is about boiling water and coffee beans, depending on whether you can use them to brew mellow and aftertasteful coffee.
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