Is the vitality of human beings strengthened in the midst of painful suffering?

This sentence makes a lot of sense, it's a sentence. Very philosophical language.

Life can't wait for others to arrange, you have to fight and struggle for yourself; Regardless of whether the result is happy or sad, it is consoling that you have lived in this world in vain. With this understanding, you will cherish life without being cynical; At the same time, it will also inject a strong inner strength into oneself.

In fact, each of us lives a world, and even the most ordinary person has to fight for the world in which he lives.

People would rather care about the eating, drinking, and trivial aspects of a crappy movie actor than understand the turbulent inner world ...... of an ordinary person

People and society, the overall outcome of all struggles may be just the mean. Instead of being serious, it is better to be casual, pick chrysanthemums under the east fence, and see Nanshan leisurely. If you have money, you will find a drunk, if you have no money, you will find a sleep, and there is no dispute with you, and you will be at peace with what you encounter.

Fate is always not what people want. But it is often in the midst of countless sufferings, contradictions and hardships that people become mature.

The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go. Discipline yourself well and don't care about others.

No matter how independent a person is, his feelings are always looking for a kind of attachment and a home.

Why do some people think much more deeply than ordinary people when they are young?

Because extreme, heart-wrenching pain knows no age.

If a person has not been brutally destroyed by the three views, has not been brutally overturned the worldview, and does not have the pain of "it turns out that everything I was wrong before", then the depth of thought that Zen Buddhism thinks about is all pretending.

I was lucky enough to meet one of these people when I was in college. He was born in the countryside, and he was the only one in the village who was admitted to university and came to study in a big city, and he sat in a hard seat for two and a half days. I often met him in the library and struck up a conversation.

Congratulations. As a person who is really a "class leaper" now, I heard him say that the last sentence that shocked me was that "I felt depressed once, and then I grew up." "I felt something touch in my heart.

Later, I began to deliberately feel some "pain". For example, I would read books that I couldn't read before, talk to mentors I was afraid of, and force myself to write long and difficult essays.

It's not that I've become a person with a lot of thought, but I've found that my attitude has changed a lot.

I have found that it is indeed "pain" that is the raw material of the depth of one's mind.

Only by going through and reflecting on the pain can we get a depth of thought that is much higher than that of ordinary people, and there is no shortcut.

Only by experiencing pain, despair, and despair can we understand the preciousness and greatness of life. And it all needs to be strengthened and strengthened to finally appreciate it.

This sentence is very reasonable, which shows that only after experiencing hardships can human beings stimulate their strong vitality and desire to survive, so as to strive for progress.

Agree. Because people can burst out with strong vitality in the midst of painful suffering, of course, this also requires people to have a strong psychological quality, as long as they are not defeated by difficulties and face difficulties, their vitality will become stronger and stronger.

Do you want to give up yourself, since you ask this question, then show that there is still hope in your heart.

As long as you are not desperate, then at least you are saved. It doesn't matter what you define the meaning of dawn, the most important thing is your own confidence, I have many friends around me, and after in-depth understanding, I will find that they all have their own misfortunes to a greater or lesser extent, including myself. When you're in the mire of misfortune, if someone can pull you along, it might not be as bad as it is now.

Maybe you have few friends, but it shouldn't be nothing, you know that a good friend will become another life for you.

Please think about it carefully, do you still want to go on like this, there is a Buddhist saying that I like very much [Hanshan asked: "The world slanders me, despises me, deceives me, insults me, laughs at me, despises me, hates me, deceives me, how to deal with it?" He replied

Just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and look at him. ”

This is an open-minded state of mind.

And my motto is: I treat people with sincerity, and people will treat me with sincerity. That's how it should be with friends.

Some people may feel naïve and frustrated in reality, but they still need to persevere. I firmly believe that I will be able to get the most sincere friends and treat my friends with sincerity.

So, I really hope you don't give up either. It's easy to give up, but it's hard to live with a strong belief, so what about your choice?