Should there be a bride price for marriage?

The bride price is something that the woman can not do, but the man can't say no, and similarly, the woman's parents can give the dowry, but the mother-in-law can't ask for it. The bride price does not need to be sky-high, but it must be able to correctly express your intention to marry the woman.

The Chinese marriage system is different because of the region, ethnicity, customs, beliefs and other relationships. We should respect the customs of all places. Although some people will scoff at it, they are all old and superstitious.

As an indispensable part of Chinese marriage, I believe that people in different places have different habits in dealing with bride price.

Should a bride price be given? Should. It's been like this since ancient times, so everyone is a layman, and it's not a fairy, so it's not unavoidably vulgar. However, it is true that there are cases where the bride price is not given. For example, if the custom does not need it, the family does not allow it, and the money is used for other things.

A man's love for you is all false except for transferring money to you, spending money, buying gifts and taking bride price to you.

The bride price is a woman's guarantee and an account to her parents. For a woman, marriage means leaving the familiar environment in which she grew up to go to another unfamiliar environment and start her later life.

No matter what the custom is, you still have to ask for it, because this can reflect the attitude of the in-laws.

The bride price is a custom and etiquette, but I am afraid that many people use the sign of the bride price to buy and sell marriages.

A bride price, it can be seen that men are unreliable.

Should a woman ask for a bride price when she gets married?

People often talk about: should there be a bride price for marriage? Yes, absolutely.

However, in accordance with the formal local traditions and customs, and in light of the economic conditions of the man's family, an appropriate bride price is reasonable. The first is to show respect for the woman, the second is to thank the father-in-law and mother-in-law for raising his wife, and the third is the folk marriage custom since ancient times. If the malicious lion opens his mouth, it is not a normal marriage relationship, but a marriage buying and selling relationship.

A marriage of sale is not only unemotional, but also illegal.

Isn't a buying and selling relationship a blatant trafficking in human beings? Isn't human trafficking illegal? Isn't it a crime?

To ask for a bride price, a sky-high bride price, not only emptied the man's savings of three generations, but even asked for half a life of the family, just ask: Will such a buying and selling marriage be harmonious? Will marriage be happy?

Will the family be in harmony? Will the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well? How will you live in the future?

Excuse me: Is your daughter living for love, or is she getting married to collect money? Seeing this, I believe many people will understand whether or not to ask for a bride price when getting married!

Let's summarize how much the bride price is!

Whether you want a bride price or not to get married, this is completely up to your own opinion, I think there is no problem with asking for a bride price, but the bride price is more or less.

First of all, since ancient times, we Chinese people have believed in traditional customs and habits, and all the processes in the marriage ceremony will be borrowed, so the bride price and dowry are essential.

But if you don't value the bride price when you get married, then you can cancel the bride price.

However, I still think that it is more or less necessary to give some bride price, but you can consider giving a small amount.

The bride price originated as one of the ancient Chinese wedding procedures, but in modern times it has been given too many meanings. Some people say that the bride price is an old custom of marriage, and it is suspected of selling daughters, and it should have been abandoned a long time ago; Some people say that the bride price not only represents the sense of ceremony of marriage, but more importantly, it can reflect people's attitude towards whether they are responsible for marriage and whether they attach importance to their future family.

Regarding the bride price, many people have their own opinions and opinions, the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable. Some time ago, we interviewed some married and unmarried young people, and sorted out some of them, from which we can understand the views and attitudes of modern young people on "should you ask for a bride price when you get married" and some of the "truths" behind the bride price.

Ms. Xu is married.

When we got married, the conditions in my husband's family were really bad, but according to the customs of our hometown, we must give the woman a bride price when we get married. There was no way, I secretly lent my 20,000 yuan private money to my husband and asked him to give it to my family as a bride price. My parents didn't say anything when they found out, but gave me 66,000 money at the bottom of the box, saying that they only hoped that my husband and I could live a harmonious and beautiful life.

Some people say that if you don't want a bride price when you get married, you will be looked down upon by the man and not cherished. In fact, there is no matter, it still depends on the person, after marriage, my in-laws treat me as a daughter, not only to help us in life, but also to save money to get daily necessities to our small family. Even my parents said that I had a good eye and found a good family.

At the beginning, it was because my husband was very good, so I didn't care about the bride price.

Ms. Li, divorced.

My ex-husband and I were introduced to each other by a friend, and the two of us were also in love, but I didn't expect that when we got married, the two families had a very unpleasant quarrel because of the bride price. In the end, the bride price was not given, and I insisted on getting married despite the opposition of my family. After getting married, my ex-husband's family made it difficult in every way, and no matter what I did, it was wrong.

Every day is a day of chickens flying and dogs jumping. I didn't want to marry into their family for a penny, and they didn't appreciate it at all. I couldn't bear it anymore and filed for divorce, and their family readily agreed.

In the end, she didn't spend money to marry a daughter-in-law, and she didn't know how to cherish it at all.

Only now do I deeply understand the importance of the bride price, and you can see your position in this man's heart from the bride price. As a woman, when getting married, the bride price must be there, it doesn't matter how much, what matters is your position in his heart and your value in his heart.

Marriage is a major event in life, and both men and women will become serious when facing marital problems, because marriage is not just a matter of two people, but more of a family. In traditional Chinese customs, when two people get married, the man has to give the woman a bride price, but now many young people will choose not to have a bride price or dowry, but to choose to marry naked. So should there be a bride price for marriage?

I've heard what people have thought before, so let's take a look at it if you're not married.

First: The bride price is a guarantee from the man to the woman's parents.

Marriage is not just a matter of two couples, it is more about involving two different families. Two people who enter marriage need to form a new family, and for the woman's parents, it is really difficult to give up the pearl of the palm that they have been raising for more than 20 years to be handed over to others. However, the bride price money given by the man to the woman's parents is more like a guarantee and guarantee to the woman's parents, ensuring that he can treat the woman who will spend his life with him well, and can also let the woman's parents rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to the man, so it is necessary to give the bride price money.

Second place: bride price is a custom from ancient times to the present, and it is a sense of etiquette and envy, which needs to be passed on.

Anyone who has ever been married and has a wedding knows that marriage is not just as simple as two people going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate, both men and women will attach great importance to marriage, and marriage is more like a grand ceremony for two people. It takes at least half a year from preparation to end of marriage, and it is a long battle. The bride price is also one of the indispensable ceremonies, a marriage without a bride price is not a complete marriage, the bride price can not care about the number, but this sense of ceremony is essential.

Third place: everything is simple in modern society, and the bride price can be unwanted.

Many young people with many emerging ideas are more disgusted with traditional marriage customs, such as the sky-high bride price in some places makes many young people unable to get married, thus breaking up a lot of lovers, so more and more young people are getting married is the attitude of everything is simple, and there are naked marriages that do not require bride price money, and there will even be weddings that are not even held.

Conclusion: Everyone has the right to choose independently, especially in the major event of marriage, we need to make our own decisions, whether it is a traditional marriage with a bride price or a naked marriage without a bride price, it is a lifestyle choice. We must respect both the traditional way of marriage and the choice of young people nowadays, no matter whether they want a bride price in the end, as long as two people can truly love each other, can manage this marriage publicly, and can take responsibility for every decision they make, Liang Wei should be blessed and supported by everyone.

In the case of marriage, the woman should of course receive the bride price. Because this is the traditional habit of thousands of hail years handed down in China, it cannot be easily changed. However, the number of Ming and Qing sail gifts can be negotiated by parents on both sides.

Some people think that if you get married, you should ask for a bride price, not a bride price, then what is it, everyone else has to pay a bride price when they get married, if they don't get married, wouldn't they be laughed at by the friends around them, and if they don't marry with a bride price, will the man thank the woman? Maybe they will only look down on the woman and think that the woman is upside down.

The things that should be returned to the letter must be missing, and the empty space must reflect the value of the woman and reflect the dignity of the woman.