Peking University s high achieving student murdered his mother, why did the mother s family educatio

In this era of rapid development and change, people's ideas have undergone great changes, whether it is in life and work, or in education and people, they have different ideas. Such changes are not necessarily good for China's traditional 5,000-year-old culture. We always say that we should take the essence and remove the dross, but in real life, it may be that the essence and the dross are taken together.

The case of the murder of the mother of a high-achieving student at Peking University is worth thinking about, what kind of family education will educate such a child and such a thing happens. I think it may be because parents dote on their children, which eventually leads to different changes in children's psychology, so this kind of thing happens.

It's not that some people's home education methods are right, I think there are certain problems in everyone's home education methods, but there are such problems, some big and some small can be solved, and some can't be solved. Family education is crucial for a child because parents are the most important people in this life, and under their influence, we will become more or less like them.

In fact, the most important thing in family education is when the child is young, this time is when the child really quickly accepts external signals, and the education of parents is crucial, which will affect the child's future development, how to grow, and how to develop psychology healthily. Perhaps the root cause has been planted since this time.

Therefore, when we educate children, we must study well, learn how to educate a child, and learn how to cultivate a child into a real person who stands up to the sky. Even if we don't want our children to make any great achievements, we must also have a healthy mind and a correct outlook on life. So this is the homework that every parent has to do, and it is something that every parent has to learn.

We don't want this to happen again, and we don't want this to happen to our own children.

Just imagine, if you use Taoist ideas to educate yourself and educate your children, what will happen to the relationship between mother and child? Taoism pays attention to nature, and mother-killing is not natural. The Tao is natural, the Tao is the force of all things, the Tao guides people to work together and prosper, the Tao gives people a beautiful state of mind, and people regard a beautiful state of mind as a noble faith, so as to achieve the realm of unity between heaven and man.

The mother's family education lacks the understanding of responsibility, morality, gratitude, and kindness. Blindly pursuing success and fame and competitiveness will make children lose the most basic things of being a human being, thus laying the foundation for the future.

Family education is very important for children's development. But if parents are too domineering and like to influence their children's thoughts, their approach is not to cultivate their children, but to destroy their children's spiritual world.

The case of the murder of the mother of Peking UniversityThe four perspectives are analyzed as follows:

On April 21, 2019, Wu Xie Yu was already by the public security organs.

He was arrested and brought to justice, with more than 30 ID cards on his body.

Purchased through the Internet, it has been active in the country for three years. On May 27, the People's Procuratorate of Jin'an District, Fuzhou City, approved the arrest of Wu Xie Yu in accordance with the law.

On August 5, "Wu Xie Yu's mother murder case."

It was reported to the Fuzhou Municipal People's Procuratorate by the People's Procuratorate of Jin'an District, Fuzhou City, involving three counts of intentional homicide, fraud, and buying and selling identity documents.

Note: In the process of Wu Xie Yu's growth from childhood to adulthood, the "intrusive maternal love" forced Wu Xie Yu to start from usefulness and practicality, and pay too much attention to his achievements, ranking and reputation. In this process, Wu Xie Yu gave up his innocence, lost his teenage stubbornness, gave up all his hobbies, studied for the sake of learning, studied for the sake of grades, in the eyes of Wu Xie Yu's mother and Wu Xie Yu, only grades are hard currency, and only rankings are the most important.

It is precisely because of the pursuit of an extreme "usefulness" that Wu Xie Yu feels more and more pressure, as the so-called more is confused, he can't use the pitiful "useless" literacy he has accumulated over the years to dispel and release his pressure, he feels that the so-called "hopes" and "dreams" that he has struggled for many years have become meaningless.

So he was completely desperate, and used his mother to kill his mother to end the mother who had brought him great pressure, and at the same time gave himself a break and a break in his life, so a tragedy happened.

Introduction: Wu Xieyu, a talented son of Peking University, should have a bright future, but he chose to hurt his biological mother, and now, now he is sentenced to death in the first instance, but he is not satisfied and chooses to appeal. There is no doubt that Wu Xieyu's personality is unsound, his three views are incomplete, and people who study well do not mean that their character is good.

1. Wu Xie Yu's mother-killing incident. Wu Xie Yu's mentality began to change from the moment his father died, and his neighbors said that Wu Xie Yu became extremely obedient and sensible since her father's death, and helped his mother live after being admitted to Peking University, but Wu Xie Yu chose to hurt his mother, and even borrowed 1.44 million from his relatives, without planning to return it. At the trial, Wu Xie Yu confessed to his words and deeds, although he showed a quibble at first, but later chose to admit his crime, but he kept begging to give him a chance to forgive.

2. Wu Xieyu's first-instance verdict exposes the problem of human nature. In the first trial, Wu Xie Yu asked 40 questions from the judge, and Wu Xie Yu showed his inner darkness and thoughts in these questions, such as having planned to hurt his mother, such as deciding to let his mother die, such as borrowing money and running away with money for a long time to his relatives. Wu Xianyu's matter shows the humanity in his heart, and he will not let go of such a human landscape, nor will he forgive his evil deeds by listening to his one-sided quibbles.

3. Wu Xieyu's case is a revelation for everyone. First of all, as a talented man of Peking University, the society is absolutely tolerant of him, after all, the country hopes to retain such talents, but I didn't expect that since he has developed such a mentality, it can be seen that it is still very important for children's psychological education, if Wu Xieyu's mother paid attention to her son's mental health, then would it not become like this? If Wu Xie Yu's father had a kind guide to him before, would Wu Xie Yu have become healthier and would not have caused the incident of his mother?

All this reflects the lack of attention to children's mental health in the society, and I believe that a new idea of mental health will be born later, so that more children can follow in the footsteps of Wu Xieyu.

We currently have no way of knowing how Wu Xie Yu and his mother got along in his previous life, but we can be sure that there must have been a big problem, until Wu Xie Yu gave birth to the psychology of killing his mother.

Looking at previous similar cases, there is a very obvious commonality, that is, the perpetrator often performs well in ordinary times, at least in the eyes of outsiders, in the evaluation system of Chinese families, excellence often only requires the child's academic performance, as for whether the character is defective, whether the personality is sound, whether the psychological health is often ignored.

The one-sided evaluation system often makes the child's spiritual world fall into a vicious circle, and on the surface of excellent grades, it is easier to create a "bad son" like Wu Xieyu.

In our country, which is deeply influenced by traditional Confucian culture, the breeding of the psychology of "mother-killing" is obviously based on other social and cultural soils in addition to the children's own reasons, such as the feudal cognition of the parent-child relationship, the single evaluation system for the success of the child, and the parental power setting for family role-playing.

You are misleading! Do you want your children to stop listening to their parents? What's wrong with parents educating their children to study hard!

1) How much influence parents have on their children, how terrible family education is. Every child has the shadow of their parents. Parents are utilitarian, and children will be utilitarian as well. Parents value money, and children will also be careful.

Wu Xieyu's classmates once said that Guess Chen, he remembers the money spent every day. In college, he would also call his mother and tell her what happened at school. It can be seen how important money and mother are in his heart!

2) The utilitarian nature of education leads to the utilitarian nature of society, and conversely, the utilitarian nature of society will also promote the utilitarian nature of education. Although Wu Xie Yu is extremely talented, it is undeniable that his growth is flawed. Under the influence of the education with the attribute of "imperial examination", whether it is his parents, relatives and friends, he has regarded good grades as the basis for winning utilitarian benefits.