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Yes, children also have self-esteem, so if you can't reason with your child outside, you must ignore it, don't scold, and the child will also analyze.
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As the saying goes, teach your son in front of you and teach your wife behind your back.
Children should point out their mistakes in person, but it is not right to scold. Not to mention many face-to-faces. It has a great impact on the child later on.
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It is right to be a mother to educate her children, you can find a place where no one is and calmly tell your child, if it still doesn't work, you can educate your child properly. The majesty of parents is erected for children in ordinary times!
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Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Let's talk a lot.
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If you want to stand in the position of your mother-in-law and think about it, you are always unhappy when you see your son being beaten and scolded. But my mother-in-law is a little too strong, so try to control it when you can control yourself!
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What I hate the most is that people teach their children in front of me, only others are left to watch jokes, and children have no self-esteem.
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It's a bit of an occasion to save some face for your husband in front of many people.
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Restrain yourself in a crowded place, and turn it upside down if you want to be fair.
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Whose children are distressed, sometimes it is necessary to take into account the feelings of the elderly.
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Teach your child to be mindful of the occasion and the way.
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My ex-mother-in-law is the same, she said her son to her face, and she has no quality at all.
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Some people's personalities are like this, they can't change it for a while, they can only take it slowly.
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This mother-in-law is a bit strong, hehe, it's hard to say.
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No mother wants to see her son bullied like this.
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Hehe, this situation is not easy to analyze!
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It's everyone's business for people to take care of their children.
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This is a matter of personal quality, and it may also be used to it, and no one cares about it since childhood.
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You quarreled with your mother-in-law, and your husband kicked you out, and everyone may be angry at that time, more excited, and easy to do radical things. You are angry right now, and the counselor can understand your feelings. It is normal for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have conflicts, or even quarrels, maybe you still have children, and your husband asks you to go back, which is also to give you a step down, if you don't consider divorcing him, you better go back.
1. Calm yourself down and recall the reason for the quarrel: when you are emotional, let yourself calm down, and only when you calm down do you know what you have done and what you should do and what you should not do. You can carefully analyze what the reason for the quarrel is, and if it is just something meaningless, you can put it aside.
2. If you are at fault, it is recommended to apologize to your mother-in-law: If you feel that you are at fault and lacking from an objective point of view, it is recommended to apologize to your mother-in-law.
3. If it is the mother-in-law's fault, it is recommended to explain to the husband: if the mother-in-law is at fault, it is recommended to explain to the husband that you cannot ask your mother-in-law to apologize to you, even if your mother-in-law is forced to apologize, I think she is also unwilling, which will only deepen the contradiction between you.
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It doesn't depend on the specific situation, you are also at fault. Quarrels and fights are never right or wrong on one hand, especially when it comes to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is impossible to be like this with your mother-in-law if you love your husband enough, so from this point of view, you should leave. If you think that you still have a good relationship with each other, and your husband is so-called chasing you at that time in order to separate the two parties of the quarrel and then he will deal with them one by one, then you should consider going back and apologizing.
In the last three sentences, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. Family affairs are unreasonable. Home and everything is prosperous.
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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrels are too common in our country, but, as a daughter-in-law, no matter what, you must try to be humble to the elders, you because of the quarrel with the mother-in-law and the husband kicked you out of the house, the husband is also a momentary anger, you forgive me, the husband does this, it is also to give the mother-in-law a face, the husband calls you back, it is equivalent to admitting your mistake, you go back.
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I think you should go back, you quarreled with your mother-in-law and were kicked out of the house by your husband, and now your husband tells you to go back, give you a step down, and live in peace with your mother-in-law in the future, she is an elder, be more understanding, be tolerant, don't let your husband suffer splint anger.
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If you still want to live with your husband, and your husband also tells you to go back, there is no need to hold a shelf, your mother-in-law is also a mother, and if there is something wrong, don't quarrel. After all, she is an elder, and you can't let your husband get off the stage like this, so she is in a dilemma.
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First of all, the reason for the quarrel with the mother-in-law is worth analyzing, China has respected the old and loved the young since ancient times, and the mother-in-law should solve it peacefully If you can't solve it yourself, you have to seek your husband to solve it, unless your mother-in-law points her nose and scolds her mother, you can scratch her directly, if you quarrel with your mother-in-law and quarrel badly, it's okay to be a son and pull you apart, so it depends on the situation First of all, you have to see the form yourself, if they bully you, then you can't pass.
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Of course you can go back, maybe your mother-in-law is gone, it doesn't matter at this time, otherwise you don't go back and let them pick you up.
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You quarreled with your mother-in-law and were kicked out of the house by your husband, and now your husband tells you to go back, of course you should go back. You quarrel with your mother-in-law and your husband in this case, you kick you out, you do the right thing, avoid greater harm, he, as a son, who can he be caught in the middle, only to ease down and mediate. Behind the mediation is more Meiji.
He has mediated the matter, the home is your home, you and your husband have not quarreled, as long as the words are clear, it is still a family, and the child cannot live without a mother. Try to make the big things small, and the small things small. Family conflicts can't be reasoned with with each other, which is a trivial matter.
The past is gone. Don't settle for it, love your children well.
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Go back, it's a quarrel with your mother-in-law, not a quarrel with your husband, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a problem since ancient times, don't be like your mother-in-law, she is menopause, it's difficult for your quarrel husband to be caught in the middle, both of them are his favorite people, and they have something to communicate. FYI.
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It depends on what the reason is, if the mother-in-law quarrels with you without any reason, and your husband still kicks you out, then you have to go back and tell your husband to come, there can't be such a thing, or this kind of thing will happen next time.
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I don't think you should rush back, you should communicate well with your husband, see how to deal with your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, and make a decision depending on the situation.
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Common sense says, you can't say that you should go, and you have to go back.
But, that's your home after all, so go back.
If you are really aggrieved in your heart and feel that this family is really special to stay any longer, then you have to go back, go back and make it clear.
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It's best to measure it yourself, as long as it doesn't come to the point of divorce, it's common for two people to have some conflicts, and he may have remorse when he calls you back, and since he regrets it, he can still go back.
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Of course you shouldn't go back, since he you out of the house, of course you should be divorced, you shouldn't go back.
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Answer, analyze from the description, since the other party gives you the stairs, then go back.
Pay more attention to the way you get along with your mother-in-law in the future, and quarreling will not solve the problem.
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If you don't go back, there are some things that have one and two, and if you go back easily this time, they will pass it lightly, and if there is a similar situation in the future, you will be kicked out.
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If you don't go back, something two or two. If you go back easily, treat it as a frivolous thing, and if you are in a similar situation in the future, you will be kicked out.
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Actually, I think this kind of quarrel is also normal, if the body has passed, then go back.
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Go back and give him a chance, but if you have a next time, then you can't let it go easily.
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If it's your fault, you should go back, and if it's not your fault, don't go back yet
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If you are given a staircase, you can go back, for the sake of the children.
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I quarreled with my mother-in-law, and now I am kicked out of the house by my husband, and my husband tells you to go back, you should go back, because they are all a family, and it is normal to get angry and quarrel, in fact, your husband also loves you, but you are in a dilemma, you should make a little sacrifice, don't take this matter to heart.
In fact, there are still some methods and skills for getting along with my mother-in-law.
First of all, respect the mother-in-law. The most important thing is mutual respect, for strangers, for friends, and for family. Treat your mother-in-law, a smart woman will have more respect, after all, that is her elder, and it is he who gave your husband life, raised him, and gave it to you.
There may be estrangements between you, or even personality differences, but that doesn't mean you can't get along. A smart woman will give her more tolerance and understanding when she gets along with her mother-in-law. This is actually the best respect for her, once she feels your heart, your life will be more harmonious and happy.
It is advisable to compromise with the mother-in-law appropriately. Because of getting along with my mother-in-law for a long time, it is inevitable that I will encounter quarrels. Wise women will not expand this war, but let it go up in smoke.
Actually, there is no shame in compromising with your mother-in-law, if both of you are deadlocked, you will be hurt along with your other half. A wise woman knows how to retreat, and at the right time, apologize to her, call her mother gently, and her heart will melt. When you get along well with your mother-in-law, your marriage will be much happier, and the man will thank you for your dedication to him and your concern for the family, so he will love you more.
Remember not to speak ill of your husband in front of your mother-in-law. Because no mother wants to hear someone scold her son, not even her daughter-in-law. Whether it's a small complaint, or after you quarrel, you complain to your mother-in-law, you must know that in the eyes of your mother-in-law, her son is perfect and there will be no mistakes.
Therefore, a smart woman will always praise her husband in front of her mother-in-law, telling her mother-in-law that he has paid too much for this family, and you will definitely treat him well. In this way, the mother-in-law knows that your relationship is stable, and she will no longer target you everywhere.
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At this time, you should go back, the other party tells you to go back, indicating that you have realized that you have done something wrong, and you know that it is wrong, you should give him a step, go back, and apologize to your mother-in-law to admit your mistake, communicate well, and communicate. If there is a problem, negotiate and solve it, don't quarrel.
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There is no overnight love between husband and wife.
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Summary. My mother-in-law said that my husband drove me home, and the crux of the problem is what my mother-in-law said, and it is not your husband who really drove you. So don't care.
My mother-in-law said that my husband drove me home.
My mother-in-law said that my husband drove me home, and the crux of the problem is what my mother-in-law said, and it is not your husband who really drove you. So don't care.
The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to avoid. As a young person, first of all, be considerate of the elderly. Most mothers-in-law are worried about "marrying a daughter-in-law and forgetting her mother", if you think about a woman who has worked hard all her life to raise her son, but it is another young and beautiful woman who comes to "enjoy the fruits".
If your husband is a good man and treats you very well, it will make your mother-in-law even more psychologically unbalanced, and how much effort it takes to cultivate a good man. So, be considerate of the elderly. If you do a good job and your mother-in-law still doesn't appreciate it, you need your husband to do a good job of mediation.
The husband is sandwiched between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, although it is hard, but it is really important.
The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to avoid. As a young person, first of all, be considerate of the elderly. Most mothers-in-law are worried about "marrying a daughter-in-law and forgetting her mother", if you think about a woman who has worked hard all her life to raise her son, but it is another young and beautiful woman who comes to "enjoy the fruits".
If your husband is a good man and treats you very well, it will make your mother-in-law even more psychologically unbalanced, and how much effort it takes to cultivate a good man. So, be considerate of the elderly. If you do a good job and your mother-in-law still doesn't appreciate it, you need your husband to do a good job of mediation.
The husband is sandwiched between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, although it is hard, but it is really important.
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Summary. This is disrespectful to you, he is married, the place where you are together is your home, and he has no right to drive you away.
Of course, you have to figure out why your husband drove you home, and your mother-in-law said that her husband drove me home.
This is disrespectful to you, he is married, the place where you are together is your home, and he has no right to drive you away. Of course, you have to figure out why your husband drove you home, he didn't drive me home.
It's just that I don't live with them.
There's something to send back, and they're going to say drive me away.
You should ask him why he wants you to go home, please tell me the real situation, only then can I help you better and more accurately, your problem.
It wasn't him who told me to go home.
That means that your husband has something to ask you to go back, because you have to send something, and as long as someone in the family receives it, he will let you go back.
I replied myself.
Not my husband.
The question at the beginning was not that your mother-in-law said that your husband drove you home.
Since you went back by yourself, why did you rush home again?
It's actually very simple, but do it with your heart. Even when you are alone with your husband, you have to say good things about your mother-in-law, but you have to be reasonable, so that your husband understands that you are a very reasonable and sensible person. In daily life, you should also treat the elderly sincerely, and your husband will naturally combine your words with your behavior, feel that you are a good daughter-in-law, and will naturally make your mother-in-law love you as much as he does, and will naturally say good things for you. >>>More
Let's move out with your wife Otherwise, after this trouble, there will be a next time, hahaha.
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Because the mother-in-law is afraid that the daughter-in-law will snatch the son away, the son will hurt the daughter-in-law a little more.
Say it in advance, get married and buy a house, so that when you get married, you will live in a new house, and you will not live with your mother-in-law.