What would you think if your mom said that all the money you earned before you got married was hers?

My mother said that it was earned before you got married, it should be hers, and the money you earned before marriage was taken away, and you want to ask your brother for money, then you can figure out how much I spent raising you, and you give it back to me, I don't expect you to provide for me, I have a son, "hehe" This is what my mother said, fortunately, I only went to junior high school, and if I went to college, I might not be able to pay it off in my life.

I'll gladly agree, because she's paying you so much more than that. No amount of money she paid could be reciprocated.

Every mother doesn't love her children, I also be a mother, understand, but when the child is more unfair, it is inevitable that the child will have ideas, especially all day long, not to say that the money earned before marriage is not given to her, at every turn to say that you can compare with the son, the child can pass on the ancestry, at that time should not want you, born and give it away, I really want to say that you should not conceive of us the most, if I am not married without a husband and baby, my mother really wants to go alone for three days. ‍‍

I don't feel anything, just be filial if I can honor her, I'm nothing. , I don't feel anything. What does she like to do, what do she do.

Every time my mother says that, I get so angry, if I have to be deprived of my efforts and even the right to dominate, what motivation is there to work hard!? As a girl who is not married, I bought her 10,000 hardware bracelets, and I also gave tens of thousands of dollars to her to buy a house, and her son (my brother) was young, so I handed over all the money.

Very helpless, my mother is like this, in order to save face and not let me go to work in other places, she stayed in a small county town to do that face-saving temporary worker, with a salary of 800 and asked me to pay living expenses every month. Once she said to me, I don't want to quarrel with her and prepare to go out, she closed the door and said that everything I have is given by her, and now the money she earns is hers, and she wants to go out and take off her clothes, and the money for the clothes is also her direct speechless! When encountering this kind of parents, they can only be helpless.

That's right. Is it easy for my mother to raise me, and in the future, she will marry someone else and have children for someone else. What's wrong with my mom taking a little money from you.

Like you, my mom thinks the same way. After working for four years, I turned in all the money every month, and finally bought a house and asked me to pay 30,000 yuan, I handed it in every month, how can I have a deposit? I give 6000 a month to my family.

In July this year, my classmate's father had cerebral palsy, and I thought my mother would support it, but my mother said that there were difficulties at home and she would not borrow it. Now, I have returned to my hometown, with a monthly salary of 1800, and my mother still has to go to 1000, and the 3000 I owe others is still secretly repaid.

Those who belong to the family belong to the parents, and those who belong to the parents belong to the younger brother. If I have a brother, I will take the money myself, and I have never seen the meat that I eat in my mouth and spit it out. Well, I save all my money.

Almost, I just had a fight with my mother last night, just because of money, a single-parent family, and I have a younger brother. I don't know why my mom thinks that I often spend it on my boyfriend when I say I don't have money, in fact, people have always bought me a lot, and I also paid for the furniture at home. My mom said I wanted to get married with the money.

The heart is cold.

My parents have worked hard to support me for more than 10 years, what is my money! Why are you embarrassed?!

Every time my parents said that they didn't want our money, they saved it themselves, but it was gone, and now the wedding money is probably gone.

I really didn't spend any money on my parents, I went to school after a freshman of high school, my family conditions are average, there is no foreign debt, but I have a younger brother who is already a freshman, the tuition fee is 1w a year, and the living expenses are about 1000 per month. I can understand my parents.

After I got married, my mother always asked me for money, should I give it at this time? Some parents think that they raised their children and that their children should repay themselves when they grow up. They should give what they need and are not allowed to refute, if they choose to hesitate or not to give, they are unfilial and rebellious, in fact if their parents don't ask too much, how can children refuse, if they really refuse, it means that they really can't meet your requirements, I hope all parents can also think more about their children.

Everyone has the right to choose, they can choose their own marriage, their career, but they cannot choose their origin. Each family member is an individual. When you always use the feelings of your parents and other family members as the criteria for deciding to do something, you lose your freedom, your choice, and your ego.

I don't know how to resist, I don't know how to express, it's the reason for the original family.

Test yourself again and again, test the roots of emotional blackmail again and again. You have to learn to grow, learn to be strong and brave.

Quite a few injured children from their families of origin still grow up without the love of their parents, and are even recklessly searched and sucked for blood. When the children begin to reject and resist this behavior, the parents will begin to morally kidnap, and I think, as a child He Famine, if I can raise you now and make a lot of money, I should do my part for my family. If I don't, I'll feel like I've got a white-eyed wolf.

Don't be kidnapped by morality at this time. As long as you know in your heart. Follow your heart, there is no need to force the love you can't expect.

Do what you have to do, don't let people develop the habit of sucking blood, otherwise if one day you suddenly want to stop this bloodsucking behavior, the other party will hate you, such a person will never be content, I have been deeply in the family of origin since I was a child, and my heart is still scarred when I grow up. I can't forget the behavior of my parents, even after I got married as an adult, my family of origin continued to give, and your heart was full of resentment. The fact that this damage has already been done, all you can do is minimize the damage, don't continue, and letting go is your best relief.

You should give your mom some money because I think it makes her feel cared for, and it's your duty.

Yes, from a legal point of view, I also have the obligation to support myself, and I also need to give my mother some money appropriately.

I will give it, after all, he is my mother, so I will try my best to regret some of his requests, so that Qingchang can avoid problems with the feelings of the two people.