If a man doesn t have a house at home, he will fall in love

Women nowadays are very realistic. If you are older and your family or friends introduce you to someone, the woman should first ask the man what he does, whether he has a formal job, and whether he has a house at home. However, there are also a small number of women who are not particularly concerned about this, and those may be due to their own poor conditions, or something unspeakable.

There are also girls who have a crush on you, that is, they love you and are willing to live a hard life with you. Let's see what's going on. If you are old now, you don't have a girlfriend, you don't have a house, and you don't have money, it's more difficult to get a girlfriend.

This is a very real problem.

Are you in a relationship with a house? I have to find a house to marry, this is also a social problem, there are a lot of bubbles in the house now, and having a house is not necessarily real estate, so it's better to find a self-motivated person.

In the past, I didn't care about most of them, but after work, I don't think about it that way, so people should be more or less realistic.

You should expect how long it will take for the man to buy a house. It's okay for a short time, but forget about it for a long time. Don't be a tragedy with the nest.

In today's society, whether there is a house or not is not certain that two people will live happily ever after. The important thing is that the man you are looking for is the most important thing, and life will be happy. There is a future!

Yes! If I love him, I will marry him, why is love linked to a house and a car. It can only be said that in material pursuit and spiritual pursuit, I only choose spirit.

If you marry a man who has a car and a house but no feelings, then I just live in a big house physically, and my spirit will have nowhere to put it, and I will be glamorous on the outside and empty and lonely in my heart. What a terrible thing it is, so what is the meaning of being alive.

However, if my boyfriend doesn't have a house now, it doesn't mean that he won't have a house for the rest of his life. In this society, it is normal for the younger generation not to have a house, but because we are young, we can buy a house and a car by our own efforts. This is the understanding that bread will always have, and during this time, I enjoyed spiritual happiness, except for the house, my heart was happy.

So, why do I have to have a house before I marry him, this is not a hard condition for marrying, marrying him is in love, he loves me, and he will naturally give me the best. A man who doesn't love you, can he hand you a glass of boiling water when you are sick, or can he clip you your favorite dishes when you eat, or will he give you a thoughtful gift on your birthday, or can he say when your aunt comes, wife, you have a good rest, I will take care of everything today. If you don't need any of this, you just need a house, and I can only say that your pursuit of life is incomprehensible to me.

Studies have shown that the average life expectancy in modern society is 80 for boys and 77 for girlsHowever, most people graduate from college at the age of 22, and before the age of 22, our emotional sustenance is our parents. After the age of 22, you will be in love, and then you will not have a house or a car, and you will be with him, why, because you don't have to explain your whole life.

However, when you get married, you hesitate, you consider his external factors, house, car, at this time your feelings for him are no longer simple, and even involve the problem of trust, because you don't believe in him, don't believe that he can buy a house in the future, even if you know that he will redouble his efforts because he loves you, in front of a man who has a house and a car, you choose the latter. <>

How sad, if nothing else, you will marry this man and have children, assuming you do not divorce, then you will live with him for almost 40 years, 40 years, what do you get, a man you don't love him, a man who is not the crystallization of love, a house, a car, maybe you don't know how to drive yet. And the person you love, he found a person he liked after you gave up on him, got married, had children, and had a house and a car in the back. You look at them and say that if I had married him, I would have been the woman standing next to him now.

You are sad from the heart, but you don't know that it is your own hands that have ruined your happiness. <>

So in the face of love and materiality, resolutely choose love!

If I love him, I will marry if I don't have a house, but I won't be blindly carried away by love, if he is the kind of person who doesn't have a house, but still doesn't want to make progress, doesn't work hard, can't work hard to give me a good life, I should hesitate, because I think if a boy who really loves you, even if he has no money and no house, he will work hard to make money and support you.

Our family has talked about this problem before, I am only a freshman now, so naturally I didn't talk about my problem, I talked about my cousin's problem at that time, my cousin and her husband have been together for a few years, and the relationship has been quite good, but the man's family economy is not very good, and there is no house at home, at that time, my cousin's parents and grandmother did not agree, because the cousin's family economy was not very good, and most of the older generation of people would think that poor couples would mourn everything, and they would also take into account that the cousin would get married at that time. With a man who has no house and no money, he has a bad life, and there are problems such as the children going to school and going to school in the future, anyway, I don't agree, but then the cousin is still very stubborn, married to this man, and now the babies are one year old, although now they don't have a house, they all live with the elderly, and in the future, if the children go to school without the town's house on the household registration, they can't study in the town, but in addition to these bad places, I feel that my cousin is still very happy, although the brother-in-law's family economy is not good, But he also works hard, even if the salary is not high, but his cousin still feels very happy with himself, and his brother-in-law is also very good to her, she is the kind of woman who marries love and does not marry a house, and it is quite good to think about it.

Like my personal words, even if my parents say that I must have at least one suite for my husband in the future, I think that if he is not financially good at home, but I love him, and he also has the heart of the original intention to struggle, I still want to marry him, I am willing to work hard with him, or hope to marry the right person and marry love.

I know that feelings can't be measured by material things, and I also know that many women who are in love don't care about whether their boyfriend has money or not, whether they have a house or not. They said that as long as their boyfriends are motivated, not having a house for a while does not mean that they will not have a house for a lifetime.

I respect this point of view. However, I don't want to.

1. Before dating, you will understand clearly.

If it was love when I was a student, I could just rely on my feelings and only look at people, and in fact I did that. But if it's after work, I don't just look at the feelings, I care about the other person's financial conditions and whether there is a house. The house and the family go hand in hand, and although they cannot be completely equated, they are indispensable to a certain extent.

Women are insecure creatures, and a family built on a house is their security.

Therefore, if it is after work, I will first see if the other party has a house and whether there are some basic conditions for starting a family before choosing to date.

2. I really don't want to live with my mother-in-law.

The question of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a question that will always exist in this world, but there will never be a standard answer. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, even if Bao Qingtian is alive, it is not necessarily fair.

Since these problems are not clear, stay away and reduce the chance of them happening.

If my boyfriend doesn't have a house and needs to live with my family after getting married, I probably won't get married in this case. Maybe the future mother-in-law is very good, but as a newlywed, I also hope to have a two-person world with my husband and don't want to be disturbed.

3. My boyfriend doesn't have a room, so when is it the end?

As some people have said before, "If your boyfriend doesn't have a house now, it doesn't mean that she won't have it in the future, and love should not be subject to materialism." ”

That's true, but how long is the period of not having a house? Waiting for the baby to be born? Or are you waiting for your child to go to school? It's a matter of not seeing deadlines.

This world is multi-heterosexual existence, and some women are willing to exchange their lives for men's growth; There are also women who choose to stand at the starting point they want from the beginning.

<> what about this question? Different people have different opinions, right? Everyone has the right to pursue a good life, and we also want to have a perfect living environment, but what!

Life doesn't always go as planned, right? Everyone has their own family, whether they have money or not, but they are full of love.

We are all adults, we are no strangers to love, we all yearn for our own innocent love, this is inevitable. But as far as the current society is concerned, many people choose to find a rich and handsome boyfriend to be their boyfriend and choose a few Bai Fumei to be their girlfriends in order to struggle for 10 years or 20 years, which is okay, but some people don't even think about whether they are happy, so they choose and give up their love.

If your boyfriend has no money, will you marry her? I think it will. For us in China, there are more than 900 million people and nearly 10 people are farmers, so for most people, they are from the countryside, so how many people will be very rich?

Some of them are just the hard-earned money of their parents. For boyfriends who can't afford to buy a house, it's only temporary, we all know that the time when two people fall in love is our most beautiful age, how much money will we have? So ah, you should trust your feelings, for love.

So! Don't let down your love for the sake of temporary joy. So don't mind if your boyfriend doesn't have any money, a hard-working man is very powerful!