First love was actually regarded as someone else s shadow

Updated on psychology 2024-06-28
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hello! First of all, hate is just an expression of emotion, and hate is inevitable? But why should you hate?

    As the old saying goes: There is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. The distance between love and hate seems to be close to hate.

    I've had this happen to you, and the only difference is that I'm not a shadow of her ex-subject. In the end, I heard that she was gay, and I hated and depressed, and I don't know if it was true or not, because I had a very simple liking for her, and I never wanted to offend her, but I was not a good man, but I don't know why I was so innocent to her, maybe that's the charm of homosexuality. Hate for a while, and you will slowly forget.

    Isn't it good to hate it as a rich experience and growth in life? At least we've experienced it, at least we'll be cautious in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    She's already fooled you. What can you do with her? First, find evidence to sue her?

    Second, retaliation through illegal means? It's meaningless, it's better to pretend that you don't care, tell her brother that she has money through actions, and give you five cents to see you happy. Comfort yourself, if you do nothing and do so ruthlessly, you will be even more stupid, which is equivalent to asking for trouble for yourself...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, you should hate yourself for chasing such a girl when you are blind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hate is useless. It's also a good thing for this kind of girl to leave quickly. It only shows that you have seen the wrong person before.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forget it if you don't have it.

    If you want it, you can hate it.

    But what's the use of hating her? Will you live with relish, will you be happy because you hate her, will you be healthy because of it? Find a chance to scold her and vent, just forget about her. It's not worth remembering.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't care how long it lasts. Only care about what you once had.

    I don't know what you think of this sentence, I think it's very good and connotative.

    I don't think there's any need to get back together after breaking up, every relationship has a deadline. Since it's over, don't force it.

    You think, she's given you memories, and they're beautiful. You're going to get back together, and there's going to be a mark. It's better to bury the memories in your heart, and these memories belong only to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Today, I'm going to answer to you why your current partner has the shadow of your first love? Everyone's first love is beautiful, and first love is beautiful. Because it was the first attempt at love.

    may be because of ignorance at this time, ignorance of world affairs, and lack of knowledge of the rivers and lakes, everything is beautiful and simple. So at this time, you will cherish your precious love and pay special attention to guarding this first love. You will feel like you want to be a person.

    Your willful, mischievous, petty temper will become cautious in front of lovers.

    This is your first love, beautiful and simple. It takes a minute to meet someone, it only takes an hour to like someone, it takes a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Especially in the best of years to meet people.

    So the biggest impact of our first love may be that you have forgotten about it. But after that, the people you've dated will have a certain degree of ta's shadow. I don't think it's a big mistake.

    One will always meet a variety of people. Strange things, you can't force others to remember.

    If I think I can delete my memory, most people will choose to delete it. That way you won't get drunk late at night. And we need to understand that love is not the same as marriage.

    A romantic partner can be your favorite person, but the marriage partner doesn't have to be your favorite person. Many people are not a specific grade, blind date, marriage, or their favorite person, but they should be a more suitable person. After all, the time when you love someone the most has passed, love at first sight, and selling makes the heartbeat not always happen.

    Therefore, if you really love someone and the other person loves you, you don't need to delve into something, tolerate each other, and respect each other's innermost passwords. Love is as simple as that. Declaration:

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes. This is also because I miss my first love, so I will have this practice, and when I find out, I will find out that there is a shadow of my first love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No. My current partner is my favorite man, and he is unique, not a shadow of anyone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, because the one I'm looking for now is completely different from the style I like, and I like the current one too.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't have the shadow of my first love in my partner right now. Although I like my first love very much, I won't look for it according to this request. The reason is failure, that is, because two people are not suitable to be together, so there is no need to find the shadow of the first love to live together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't have the studio shirt of my first love on my current partner, because even if the first love is very unforgettable, but in the later love, I will follow my heart and find a lover who is suitable for both parties.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My current partner has no shadow of first love at all, because my partner and I met because of a chance mask, so I like my partner, that is, because of the boredom or because the two of us have this kind of feeling, but it has nothing to do with the first love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My current partner does not have the shadow of my first love, because I have separated from my first love, so I don't think I pay special attention to what kind of person my partner is.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no shadow of my first love in my current partner, because my first relationship with me was separated due to some misunderstandings, so I don't miss my first love now, so I will be very good to my object, so the relationship between the two of us is also very good.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My current partner also has the shadow of first love, but it's not that she is the first love, so I'm with him, but I just like this type, not because he is like his first love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The first prudent love is the most unforgettable in your life, don't make a fuss about filial piety, no matter how many boyfriends and girlfriends you have, your selection criteria, will be subconsciously cautious to the first love as the standard. 100 A shadow can be found in your current lover.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, everyone's favorite opposite sex probably has similar traits, and he is particularly easy to be attracted to this trait, so it's not that he looks for a lover of the vertical clan according to his first love, but that he likes this type for the rest of his life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that this partner of mine must not have the shadow of my first love, because I will not be looking for someone like him or someone who seems to be in trouble with him, and I will restart my life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I have my current husband and my first love personality is the same, very rent, Changyu straightforward, kind, disadvantage rock I think like a person is like a certain kind of his personality a certain aspect Even if you choose other people again, you will choose these characters quickly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think my current partner has the shadow of my first love, if it weren't for my divine book, if it weren't for my blind group, I wouldn't like him, he cares for me in every way, he thinks about me everywhere, I can rely on him without worry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Not at all. My first love and my wife are from two different places, north and south, and their personalities, temperaments and study hobbies are completely different.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, my current partner does not have a shadow of first love on his body, because I don't have to force the current girlfriend to have the shadow of my first love, so I can be happy with him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no shadow of first love in my current partner, because I didn't look for my current boyfriend at that time because I was looking for the shadow of my first love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no shadow of first love on the body of the current partner, because the first love hurt him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't have the shadow of my first love in my partner right now. Although I have my first love in my heart, I won't look for it according to this request, otherwise the other party will be unfair.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If Yuhong has the shadow of your first love in your current partner, then I think you still haven't forgotten your first love, because after all, you are looking for him in the corners of life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, the eyes are very similar, they are all carefree and funny. Of course, this must be an aesthetic limitation. A person's constant love for beauty may have more to do with the natural environment and the inner environment.

    For me, I'm a rather sluggish type, perhaps because of complementarity. My significant other is very flexible. There is always too much interest to add in my serious life.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's true, I have to say that my current partner does have the shadow of my first love, and I think the two of them are very similar, so I am moved by it, so I chose to be with him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No. Because the first love at that time was very young and naïve, it would only take into account the feelings of the two people at that time. And the current partner is more mature and steady, more considering real life and the future of two people.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone's perception of emotions may be different, some people will not find the type of ex after they break up, and some people will break up, and the objects they will find later will be similar to their ex.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, there is the shadow of my first love, because after all, first love is a more meaningful existence in everyone's heart, so the mate selection criteria in the future will more or less have some breath of first love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is no shadow of first love, because there are obvious differences in the appearance or other aspects we like at each stage, and the current cannot be regarded as the shadow of the previous first love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, he is the exact opposite type of first love, because he feels that the type of first love can't make him happy, so he chooses a partner who is completely different from him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, my current partner doesn't have the shadow of my first love, the two of them are completely different people, and I didn't choose to feel like that again.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, and he fulfilled all my fantasies about the opposite sex, and made me feel very youthful, very energetic, and very warm.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, I can tell the difference between the current and the first love, and I think that since I choose to start over, there is no need to think about the previous first love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, because when I was looking for a partner, I followed the shadow of my first love, and the two of them will definitely have similarities.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Of course not, the impression left on me by my first love is very bad, so naturally there will be no shadow of my first love, and my current wife is very good.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Nope. The personality of my first love is not very suitable for me, but my current partner is very suitable for me and is also very good for me.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Personally, I don't feel like it, because there is still a big difference between the current partner and the first love, and the two people don't look very similar.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Yes, because my current partner is my first love, and the two of us get along very happily and very happily.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Yes, because we like the same type of person, there will be some similarities regardless of personality or appearance.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No, he is completely different from his first love now, the two of them are different from each other, and they are not related at all.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    No, because everyone has their own personality and characteristics, and they are not the only criterion when looking for a boyfriend.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    No. I don't think there should be such a thought, it is disrespectful to the current to do so, and since it is in the past, it should be forgotten.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    No. Because my current partner has a completely different personality from my first love, there is no shadow of my first love.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Not really. My current boyfriend is the way I like it, there is no shadow of my first love, I don't like my first love anymore.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I think so, my current wife and my first love are very much in terms of personality, and they are both very gentle and caring.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No, everyone is different, everyone is an individual, and likes change over time.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Of course yes, because my first love is white moonlight in my heart, so there must be.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I have to say that the person I liked later, he did have a little bit of similarity with my first love, and their personalities always felt a little similar to each other in the later relationship.

    This is really a very difficult thing to explain, my first love and I only met my other boyfriend two years after the breakup, my other boyfriend when I first met him, he was a very cold person, and he was also a person who was not related to my first love, but I didn't expect that after we were together, there were many ways of talking between them that were very similar, which really surprised me.

    Some people say that what people like in their lives will be the same, so in fact, everyone who has liked it, they can find common characteristics, I didn't believe this sentence before, and then I began to find that this sentence is actually reasonable, because I did find their common shadow between my first and second boyfriends, maybe I like this type.

    But then I think what I like shouldn't be the kind of person who is particularly gentle, I always want to pursue some more domineering men, but I didn't expect to go around and around in the end or return to the image of the little sheep, which really makes me particularly unable to figure it out, maybe what I need in my heart is a gentle person, but my brain thinks I need a domineering man, in general, this sentence is true, in my body I have been confirmed, Indeed, every person I liked seemed to have some similarity to my first love.

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