I m getting married soon, and I m a little confused about how to use money.

My God, it's all a family, and they are still talking about two families, I am your wife, I don't like you, at the same time, this woman also has problems, and she will not be a good wife, a good mother, a good daughter-in-law in the future!!

Does she really love you? Why would you be unhappy about these things, I think why should you care about these things if you have decided to live together.

I'm about to get married, so let's be a little more generous in terms of money. Wait until you get married to her.

Such a big person will follow you in the future, and you still care about such a small amount of money!

Men must be atmospheric, especially to their own women!

In fact, I quite understand the psychology of the woman's family, the daughter who married out of the water spilled, marriage is a matter of two people's lifetime, but it is also a big thing for the woman's parents, the daughter is close to marrying, but it is difficult to see each other far away.

Raising such a big daughter for you, do you think it's too much to get out of 1w block? It's too deductive!

It's normal to think. You can euphemistically say what you think! Good for both of you!

That might be a reason not to want to marry you! Maybe he decided to end it at a different time and place, but it's not good.

Yesterday I happened to talk to my Scorpio boyfriend about my marriage views, and I probably shared it with everyone.

The question discussed was, why are some of the current boys not in a hurry to get married?

He gave me an analysis of several reasons.

1.Boys who are not in a hurry to get married at this age are not afraid of no one, to put it bluntly, boys are not limited by age group, and when they want to get married, they can give some hints to girls of the same age or younger around them, and then they can enter marriage immediately.

2.Once you get married, you have more responsibilities, for yourself, for your wife, and for your parents, both of them are responsible, both financially and mentally restricted, the original salary is spent casually, one person eats the whole family is not hungry, and even can save some, but after becoming two people, the expenses will be two people, although the woman will also have income, but the expenses are definitely not a matter of adding up.

3.Some boys themselves have not grown up, let alone be able to take care of others as adults, because once they get married, they will plan to have children in at least two years, and then the family will add more people, and then it will increase.

Generally speaking, marriage should be two people who get along to a certain extent, and each other wants to be together all the time and run their own family together. There are those who don't have the money to get married, and there are those who have the money to get married, depending on what you think.

The person who makes your heart flutter can't give you a sense of peace of mind. The person who makes you feel at ease can't give you the feeling of heartbeat. Perhaps, that's the answer. Some people like you because you can bring them happiness. Some people like you because you are their happiness.

When I first got married, my wife kept asking me for money when she knew I didn't have any money.

First of all, do you receive a bride price when you just get married, whether you have money, and does this really take medicine with your wife?

And he always asks you for money, why does he want to buy anything, or do you know what he needs this money for?

This is the general meaning of the big guy and you want money. Was he like that before you got married? Before the two got along, did you notice that he had such a tendency to love money?

Or so much so he likes. Shopping for something. Let these details be examined clearly before marriage. There are a few things you should know through the interaction of two people.

Do you know if I'm working now, or if I'm not working at home. If he is idle at home, he should be asked to find a job. This will also increase revenue.

If he has his own income, he won't ask you for money anymore, in fact, it won't be very big when it comes to asking for money.

Therefore, after marriage, two people live together. If you want to live a good life in the future and achieve your ideals. Then in the end, you either find a job and the income of two people.

At that time, it seemed that the poke was looser. Money is built up slowly. In the case that you don't have any money now, save as much as you can. I don't want to buy it. I'll talk about it when the conditions improve.

For things like this, you have to discuss with your wife how much to earn. For the ideals of both of you, work hard. The best life is a happy one.

The main thing is that he wants money for what he is doing? To be clear, if he wants money to be saved and kept together, it is thinking that you should not spend money indiscriminately. If he asks for money and spends it directly, knowing that the family situation is like this, he will still spend money, then think about it.

This is a test of whether your wife has private money, right? You just tell her, don't you just finish if you don't have much money?

At home, the income is low, and I spend more time with my wife, and my wife often says: I really don't, I only earn so little money, and my children also suffer with you. Then, I went out and only came home once a month, my wife said:

What's the use of earning money, I can't take care of my family, I will suffer with you. In the end, I chose to earn money, and now in society, I can't take care of my family without money. FYI, good luck.

Don't blame me for spitting on you, the reason you said at the end was really drunk. Do you always have bad friends at home looking for you to play? When people are looking for you, you have to go out and play? Did those people curse you?

When my husband and I first got married, we were in a similar situation to your family. He quit his job before he got married, and after a few months of marriage, he found a more suitable job at that time, and only received a salary of more than 2,000. Your wife doesn't have any opinions about you, but your family's current economic environment is indeed not suitable for having children.

If two people are married, and one person wants to be outside for a long time, what is the meaning of getting married? Your wife reluctantly agrees when she sees you so insistent, but if you leave her alone at home, she will only think crankily all day long. Is there no more suitable job for you in your family?

Money can be saved little by little, and work can also be improved by accumulating experience. There are many ways to make a lot of money, but is it really worth losing your family?

Home is for two people, not for you alone. If your wife really thinks that you don't make money to support your family, then she won't stop you if you want to go out to make money. But the point is that she cares more about you at home than about making money.

So?

It can be said that the other party's father is very feudal, thinking that he is selling his daughter, and he thinks for himself who knows what it means, maybe not, why did you marry her, this is the key, some things, just be invisible, but you still have to mention it, otherwise if there is a trouble in the future or your father-in-law, treat you as something or something, it will be troublesome.