Who should pay for the marriage, whether the wedding house should be bought or not, and who is payin

I've never heard of such a thing, and when I got married, it was a bride price from my mother-in-law's family, and there was no so-called dowry.

I'm from Liaoning, and the marriage here is generally like me, my mother-in-law's family gives money for gifts, and then my mother's family takes out a part of it as a return gift (my mother-in-law gave me 50,000 dowry, my mother returned 20,000, and bought me a wedding ring, and TV, and other bedding, decoration or something), the so-called return gift is to give money to the young couple, in fact, it is to buy a dowry for the daughter, you can buy jewelry, home appliances or something.

Of course, it is better to get married based on your own ability, and it is not a glorious thing to gnaw on the old clan after all, but it can't be too outrageous, and it is ??! upside downDon't even think about it!~

In fact, as parents, they all want their children to have a good home, and if they are really embarrassed, I think it is human nature to help

Now children are generally married in their 20s, and they have just joined the work for a few years, and it is good to be able to do all the household appliances or something, but they simply do not have the strength to buy a house, decorate, and hold a wedding banquet. If the conditions of the in-laws allow, they will help buy some, after all, it is their own children to marry their daughters-in-law, and they will give you such a big girl, and you don't need to be beautiful, at least you have to be decent.

Pay for the wedding and do your own thing. However, just give the dowry to your mother-in-law, she thinks you are upside down?!The more the dowry, the less status, will they need money in the future and ask your mother's family for it?

My mother's family raised you, and I cultivated it, and I didn't need moneyHe married a daughter-in-law and earned it

It's your mother-in-law's fault that they should give you a gift money, as for how much you both discuss, and then they will give you money to buy clothes, and three gold (earrings, necklaces, rings), and as for the dowry, your parents gave you, and how much they gave it.

House and love are inextricably linked, which may not be visible on the surface, but how much it still shakes everyone's hearts in the back, so in the current society, many young people, especially men, will prepare a marriage room for marriage. Because if you don't buy a good house in advance, it is equivalent to losing some advantages congenitally, and many good opportunities will also be lost, which is destined to become a minus in blind date and love.

But should you buy a wedding house?Who's paying for the wedding house?Let's take a look at everyone's attitude towards this hot issue.

Love = house, you have to buy it no matter what

Nowadays, many parents will prepare a house for their children when they are in college or just start working, so that they can prepare for marriage in the future.

However, when parents prepare a wedding house for their children, they still have to pay attention to many things, give more consideration to the selection of house types, avoid blind comparison, blind pursuit of comfort, and directly buy a large apartment and a good location, but the loan amount is huge, and the monthly payment is overloaded, which increases the pressure on their lives and reduces the quality, so it is still necessary to "measure the amount of money".

Love house, if you have the strength, buy it yourself

Marriage is sometimes a matter of two people, and sometimes it is a matter of two families. But when it comes to buying a house, some young people feel that it is a matter between the two of them, they feel that their parents have worked hard all their lives, and when they are old, they should enjoy their own happiness and don't have to think about the children's affairs.

Renting a house, another option to get married

There are also post-80s generations who choose to rent a house at the beginning of their marriage, and then buy a house when they are financially comfortable.

Buying a wedding house does not necessarily have to rely on your parents, but it is actually a good choice to rely on yourself. And the essence of marriage is the affection of two people, and the house is just an additional condition. In the matter of buying a house, we must treat it rationally, because whether you rely on your parents to buy a house or buy a house by yourself, you must first consider your own economic strength and the economic strength of your family.