What a small heart! Big temper。。。 What should I do, I will give 80 points

Hehe! This problem, in fact, is not the only one she will have, most of them have it now! Maybe this is a selfish performance, but if you experience more things in the future, you will look down on it!

Don't care about other people's feelings, do your own, and still care when you should care, you can't be stupid. Gossip, in fact, don't care about other people! I am the best, and others are far behind!

In short, the heart is open, I am me, I am not someone else. Hehe! If there are any questions,.

I will help you in time.

What about this, there is no way, the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change.

But there's a very... Way.

Take care of your sister Otherwise, it will be difficult to control when you grow up, now you can think about her wholeheartedly, and one day she will talk about you when she understands you.

She also knows where her shortcomings are, and it's easy to change.

It's okay to be normal, I've been living like this for a few years.

Habits will be good.

You say to yourself that you're going to lose your temper a lot

It's all a sign that you can't think about other people

You have to learn to think about your loved ones

You can't always stand on your own side

Every time you have to think about your friends

How they treat you

They are genuine in their dedication to you

You should also give your heart to them

You have to cherish every friendship

That's how you can really connect with people

I don't know how old you are, you can do more meaningful things, you can do more exercise, you really can't go to consult a psychologist.

It is recommended to do the psychological **.

I've been the same before. It works very well.

Ask them to use hypnosis**. Go for it.

Remember to pray for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

After understanding 'cause and effect', you will save yourself.

Yes! As long as your character is fine! Come to me!

It's nothing, my family is better than yours, I quarrel at the dinner table every day, every time I use all my strength to fight hysterically, but there is always a word to comfort me. The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act in a disorderly manner. These are the tests that life has for you, you are a hero if you get through it, you must be optimistic and strong, listen to inspirational ** look at inspirational books when you are in a bad mood, every time I am in a bad mood** can always make me regain my strength, I must not be looked down upon, as soon as there is a setback, it will be a hundred, cheer up.

Don't always feel like you're not going to be happy with your life. In fact, there are many people who are not as good as you! Now there are too many family discords.

Your parents are probably menopausal. Maybe it's good to pass this while. Grit your teeth.

There's nothing you can't get by! Don't think about what happened to you. If you want to do something, bless the whole family with peace and harmony!

Bear with it... Try to follow his wishes, discuss with other people in the family, try not to do things that will make him angry, and say less things that make him angry. Parents should have entered middle and old age, so follow them.

Ay!! Connected to the same fate!! I once thought about suicide because of this!!

Swallowed all the medicine in my stomach!! Suddenly I woke up!! My parents gave me life!!

But there is no rule that I have to live my way the way they do!! Go out and walk, read books, and make friends!! Parents' things they have their way of dealing with!!

They will be more painful when you get caught in the middle!!

Leaving home will be much better for you.

80% of marriages in China are for the sake of children.

This is a tragic phenomenon, but many people are willing to live such a tragic life just for the sake of a child.

You have to think carefully about what is the ratio of good and bad husbands? Can you endure it all the time, if he can still improve, then for the sake of the child, actively communicate with him, and strive to live a good life, if not, if he is hopeless, then let it go, the child will always grow up and live his own life, you also have to love yourself, looking for the one who really belongs to you.

People are not perfect, everyone has small shortcomings, you should consider the overall situation, you can't be angry for a while, hurt the children, and hurt you, regret it!!

It's better to live a good life, or you indulge yourself, but don't go too far, it is recommended or not.

Marriage is like that.

Sometimes it's the kids who are holding on.

Don't do anything stupid.

For the sake of the children. And I don't think what you're talking about is a matter of principle.

It's hard to change a person.

Try to get used to it.

Who hasn't had a little flaw.

Try to get along, nothing lasts forever.

I have children, and it's not domestic violence or anything.

Since you didn't love him at the beginning, why did you choose to marry him, and now you find that he has so many shortcomings that you can't bear to bear, but you can't regret it, divorce hurts children a lot, either you change your husband, or you change.

If you are like this now, it is because of the environment, you don't trust the people around you, maybe it's your own reasons, you don't know how to deal with people, try a different environment, or learn a new way to get along with people. If you have a very short temper as a child, then you need to see a psychiatrist. Now take a look at Carnegie's successology books, which have ways to deal with people, remember to read the original translated books, not those books that are summarized by later generations or your own feelings about the original work, because most of those books are out of reality, taken out of context, and will mislead people.

Recognizing your mistakes is a good start.

Let's change it slowly It takes some time to change the problems of more than ten or decades, but as long as you consciously change them, you can definitely do it.

Read more books on self-education, self-cultivation, and most importantly - make more generous friends. It is king to change the environment, and choosing the right friends to contact and socialize will get twice the result with half the effort.

It's really good to see that you have the heart to change it, and it will be fine.

Karma is heavy! In the past, he had a heavy karma, but he loved to eat meat in this life!

I remember I saw it when I was using my mobile phone to surf the Internet, I was watching 3G jokes, there are a lot of such classic sentences in it, and they are all very "trendy", I remember that the jokes told in the Spring Festival Gala in the past 2 years have long been there.

This question is actually very simple, sometimes we care too much so it is easy to get angry, some people and some words if you don't care so much will not be you said that the heart is small, sometimes what others say we can't decide, but what we can decide is how we see ourselves, how to understand, let go of maybe it's good, personal views hope to give you some help.

This is a matter of character, everyone's temper is different, although they know that ** is insufficient, but it is still difficult to change, just relax, put feelings and mood on the people you care about, no matter who you have, there are people who don't like you, just ignore it, you care so much, you will be unhappy every day.

If you have a deeper understanding of what others say about you, you will reduce this kind of thought, if my words affect others, you can try to ask him, did I affect you just now? If he says yes, you say I'm sorry, I have a question to ask my classmates just now, I'll be careful in the future, if he doesn't say it's glaring at you, that's better, it's not about you, what are you angry about? Slowly train more, and your mind will be broadened.

The reason why you are like this is actually because you care too much about what others think of you, and you want you to make a good impression on everyone, so once others are dissatisfied with you, you will be very angry. And this just shows that you have low self-esteem, because only people with low self-esteem want to be affirmed by others! And a person who is strong enough in his heart will not care about other people's opinions, he thinks it is good, and if he thinks it is bad, it is not good, and he does not need to be recognized by others!

Can you understand what I'm saying?

First of all, eat more vegetarian food, eat less meat, think that many people who eat meat will be angry, and secondly, control yourself, when you are angry, you will feel that your stomach is hot inside, this is the energy of emotions, before you get angry, you have to notice the energy changes in your body, and say cool down to the hot part (a hint), and focus on breathing, shift your attention from the object you want to be angry with to breathing, slowly and evenly, deeply breathe. With more practice, you will be able to control and digest your anger.

If you want to be more restrained, you can meditate in your leisure time, and you can check the information on this by yourself, which is very detailed on the Internet.

First of all, we must control our mentality, when we are angry, the human body will produce toxins, and the more angry we are, the more toxins there are. First of all, your body will have endocrine disorders, acne and the like. If you have constipation or something like that, it's better to control your mind, try not to get angry, and take a deep breath when you're angry to help release stress.

On the good side, for example, if people can tell you this, they actually care about you from another perspective. Staring at you may not be in a good mood, just like you. It's also a bad mentality, and being angry is a poison to yourself.

Those old people have a little bit, they don't get angry, and they have a stable mentality. So you have to control your mindset. It's about your longevity.

If you think like this, you will control your distress and you will not be so careful. Slowly it will be magnanimous.

I read a story about a man who, when he was poor, would not get angry at what others said about him, and some people would ask him why? He said that I was so poor, how could I have time to be angry with others. When he got rich, others said about him, but he was still not angry, and some people asked him curiously why?

He said I'm so rich, what's there to be angry about??!

This tells us that there is no need to disturb our emotions with some irrelevant things, the main thing is that you need to know what is most important to you...

Persuade yourself more, learn to listen to some things and turn a blind eye ... Punish yourself for others, make yourself angry, and you can't make it... It would be nice to try to learn to take things lightly and think that it is not a big deal ... Just don't think about it ...

There are no two solutions, one is to find the problem in yourself, the other is to find the problem in others, solve your own problem once and for all, and after solving the problem of others, you have to solve the next one, so it is best to find the cause from yourself. You get the idea!

Go read the book! Reading makes people mature, and writing makes people think. There is no shortage of methods in this world, what is missing is a way that meets the answer you want.

In the end, you are not confident in yourself, if you are confident enough in yourself to believe that you are the best, no matter what others say about you, you will laugh it off. The best way is to think more from the perspective of others, reflect on what you have done and correct it immediately, and be brave enough to accept your own shortcomings. Some criticism stems from your faults, and some criticism comes from jealousy.

You have to make yourself strong to be the second type.

Maybe you care more about what others think of you, right?

Actually, I used to be easy to do this, but now it's much better!

You can try to forget about what others do to you and think about what makes you happier"Don't spoil your good mood for the day because of a person's small actions! "Tell yourself this :D

I think over time, this temper will gradually improve.

It's good to relax your mind. You can be yourself, you don't need to care about other people's opinions, and when you encounter this situation, you imply that he is actually jealous of you or envy you, so that your heart is balanced. When others say you, if you are right, you will learn from it silently.

If you think it's wrong, you can politely express your opinion, and think about it from another angle, maybe it's for your good.

Then don't worry about everything! I'm also small-minded, my boyfriend made a mistake, I was accountant for a long time, and now that I've let go, there's nothing left, and I don't care. Look at the opening point

I don't know what kind of thing I can say

Don't blame me for saying something wrong

It shows that you care about what others think ... Because so am I. Sometimes I can't eat for a few days because of someone else's words, but then I think that there is no need to fool them anymore, I live my own little life and treat him as a fart.

When you see someone else judging your actions, first take a deep breath and tell yourself that no matter what he says, I am who I am.

Then calm down, think about whether their criticism is right, and if it is really your own mistake, correct it in time. If it's not your own mistake, let this sentence go with the wind.

I often make psychological hints, and often say three words to myself: "No!" "It makes me think about why many people like the sea or the grassland, because the sea is wide enough and the grassland is vast enough.

You may also find that the happier people are often the ones who are open-minded, almost heartless, and have fewer small bellies!