Are there irreconcilable contradictions in this world?

<> irreconcilable contradictions will definitely exist, otherwise there would not be so many eternal problems. For example, "If the mother and wife fall into the water at the same time, which one should be rescued first" is obvious, and rational people know that the one who should be rescued first. But such inside and outside are not people, my mother is unhappy, and my wife is not happy.

If there is absolute rationality in this world, perhaps irreconcilable contradictions can be reconciled. But absolute rationality is extreme, so extreme that ordinary people dare not have it, and cannot have it.

There will be irreconcilable contradictions in every relationship. For example, whether you want to hurt your wife more or your children more, I have never been in favor of blindly advocating that children give priority to you and that children are the greatest. In my opinion, marital happiness is an important factor in family happiness, and if you can't manage your marriage well, no matter how good it is for your children, it won't help.

Perhaps, the smartest way is to handle married life well, handle family relationships well, and let children take care of themselves, so that the family will be happier. But we all know that this is not possible.

The existence of irreconcilable contradictions always makes us feel tired and exhausted. I used to have a very good friend who broke up. The reason is that I always have a lot of mood swings and can't control my emotions to go in a bad direction.

And he, because he cares too much about my words and deeds, sees all my emotions in his eyes and remembers them in his heart, so he always feels very sad. Two sad people can't get along well, and all the oppression comes to their faces. I can't make myself feel bad, he can't make myself not feel bad about me.

So, in the end, I don't think we're fit to be close friends.

Now that I think about it, it's a pity. If one of us had been a little more rational, maybe we wouldn't have handled the relationship like this.

<> exists, for example, our family encountered it. When I was in high school, my dad and my stepmom had a friction with the next-door neighbor, and it was just some verbal conflict, but both sides expressed dissatisfaction with each other in their hearts, and then did something drastic. For example, the next-door neighbor deliberately put the weeds and rotten vegetable leaves in his vegetable shed very close to my house, and then my dad pushed the trolley to pass through with a special difficulty.

Or the neighbor will sprinkle a lot of water on the road when he waters, and then the muddy road will be difficult for people to walk. In this way, the contradictions between them became more and more intense. Until one day, I don't know which of them started the trouble first, my dad started with the neighbor's woman, and then my dad kicked the other person in the stomach twice, and then the woman went home crying.

After that, they also called the police, and the public security bureau came to mediate, but my dad refused to admit it. Later, the woman in the neighborhood was full of resentment, so she instigated and persecuted her husband, and if she didn't kill my stepmother, the two of them would divorce. As a result, because of the resentment in his heart and the instigation of his own woman, the man in the neighborhood really took an axe to ** my stepmother, and beat my stepmother to a second-degree disability and almost died.

Of course, the man was immediately arrested by the police for intentional homicide. So he was sentenced to six years in prison. Later, he said in prison that he would come back for revenge after he was released from prison.

So our family and that neighbor are still enemies. There will be no time to talk at all. This is the irreconcilable contradiction between our two families, with a hatred that almost killed their lives, how can they be reconciled.

Contradictions are opposites.

Not only do individuals have their own contradictions, but also different groups have contradictions.

Contradictions are to fight each other, and the result of the struggle is victory on the one hand, and complete defeat on the other. In this way, the contradiction is resolved, and then a new contradiction arises, and the struggle continues.

Tell an example of an individual contradiction. For example, if a college student feels that his status is not high enough, he will have to take the postgraduate entrance examination. But the contradiction comes, he must go to earn money to raise the next generation.

On the one hand, he wants to take the postgraduate examination, but he does not want to take the in-service examination, and only wants to take the academic national unified recruitment; On the other hand, he needs to find a job to earn money. Contradictions struggle with each other, and he is very entangled. In the end, one side of the contradiction must prevail over the other.

He will either give up his job to go to graduate school, or he will give up graduate school to make money. You have to make a choice, otherwise you'll be very entangled and you won't be able to do anything.

Tell an example of group contradiction. For example, China and Japan. The Chinese are afraid that Japan will become stronger, and then it will invade China.

Therefore, Japan must be suppressed in all respects. And Japan has a desire to become stronger. All for the interests of the country (i.e., private interests.

It is believed that all people, all groups, are selfish, and they only think about their own interests and exclude others. So there is a constant struggle. In the end, on the one hand, the contradictions cannot be reconciled.

If it can be reconciled, it will be temporary. Because people and groups are selfish, they must win completely on the one hand, otherwise they will not give their opponents any chance. Reality is cruel and unforgiving.

I'm oh dear.

Struggle is absolute, unconditional, and the fighting nature is contained in the sameness. Identity is premised on the nature of struggle, so the nature of struggle between the two sides of the contradiction is irreconcilable.