Should I wave after giving birth? Is there anything wrong with pursuing fashion after marriage?

The wave is still a wave, but everything must have a degree, if it is just the pursuit of fashion, of course, it is right, say that after marriage has a child, it must be unkempt and unkempt, but if you don't care about anything, the child does not take care of the parents, just go to the wave to be happy, that is your fault. So this problem really needs to be a matter of facts, and it can't be beaten to death with a stick.

The pursuit of beauty at any age and at any stage is what a woman should do

No matter how old a woman is, or at any stage, she has the right to pursue beauty. No one has stipulated that if you have a child, you can only wear pajamas at home and be unkempt, as long as you take care of the child and take care of the family, you still have to buy beautiful clothes, and you can't pull down the stinky dress. After all, having children should enrich our women, not women's shackles.

So go ahead and surf as much as you can bear. Studies have shown that a mother's fashion sense will also have an indelible impact on the positive life of children. Because women who love to dress up often understand life and pursue beauty.

Don't pursue fashion without restraint

Although it is said that having children will not stop giving up the pursuit of beauty, there is still a limit. I have seen a lot of novice mothers, the child is still breastfeeding, perm hair, makeup, wear high heels, and it is also beautiful, you can't become a sloppy woman because you are married and have children, but you should pay attention to the place or pay attention to it, you said that you are still breastfeeding, perm hair, makeup is a harm to the child's health. If you are wearing high heels, if you accidentally burn the child in your hands, won't the gain outweigh the loss?

So there must be a limit to everything.

A woman who is a mother, of course, still has to have a heart that loves beauty, but it is best to grasp the degree of everything, and moderation is the best way.

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Should go out on the waves! That's right!

Although I am not yet old enough to get married, I don't even have a baby. But from my point of view now, I must not be a housewife wholeheartedly after giving birth to a baby, put all my mind on my family and husband, and have no happy life of my own. <>

Maybe this is a very selfish behavior in the eyes of many people, but I have to say that only when your value really reaches a certain level, others will look up to you and think that you are a very attractive person. Otherwise, no matter how much you put your mind on your family, your husband will only think that you are a family person, and he is likely to think that you have no interest in life.

And when you give birth to a baby, you must be very profligate. How to dress up fashionably, but also to dress yourself up as a more charming woman than before you got married, not only in dressing, but also in personality, constantly refreshing your previous very beautiful state. In this way, when we live a good life for ourselves, the life of two people will naturally be better.

I live a very good life, every day is very wavering, my mood will be good, I will feel that our life is very valuable, and I will feel that I am very perfect.

And there is nothing wrong with pursuing fashion, it just reflects our love for beauty, and everyone has a love for beauty, and there is nothing wrong with fashion itself. And you look at those female stars, after they get married, they are even more attractive than before they got married, and the most obvious female star is Zhang Ziyi. Do you think she is more charming after waking up!

The wave is still going to be a wave. Even if you get married, you still have to pursue fashion. It can't be said that if you get married and have children, you have to live like a yellow-faced woman, wash clothes, cook and take care of the children every day, waste all your hobbies and time, and put everything on others.

What's so good about being a so-called good wife and mother in the eyes of others. It's important to live happily, what girl doesn't like to be young and beautiful forever? What woman doesn't like nice clothes and bags?

There is nothing wrong with loving beauty, even if you are married, you have the right to pursue fashion. Besides, you don't want to be recognized as your child's grandmother when you send your child to school.

Today's girls don't stay at home all day like before, and now girls also have to go out to work and earn money to support their families, so since there is no difference between them and men, they still have to take on extra housework and give up a lot, is it fair? No matter what time a woman is, she must have her own independent personality and ability, earn her own money and spend it by herself, and do not let others gossip. Since women are doing housework and giving birth, men should earn money to support their families, which is only fair.

When the woman earns money, she just buys clothes and cosmetics to go out and play. Never be a housewife, you will never be so hard to spend other people's money, and you have to look at other people's faces. It's never cool to spend your own money.

There are many examples around me, women don't go to work after getting married, stay at home all day with children and do housework, and do clean up the house very well, but they neglect themselves, they don't pick out good clothes, and they don't wear makeup, and as a result, their husbands are with others, and the last one is empty, there is nothing, and they don't have the courage to do any more work.

I think sometimes it's time to have fun after getting married, and fashion should be maintained. Like those women who get married, they don't go shopping or maintain anymore, and I don't think it's necessary to save money to support their families. Because if you don't pursue fashion and are out of society, you will lose the rhythm of loving yourself.

If you don't love yourself, why do you want others to love you. <>

After I got married, I didn't go around my husband and children every day as my mother said, and I didn't save so much that I didn't even buy skin care products. Every day, when a friend asks me out, I still bring my children over to play, and I still take care of my skin every day. Because I think it's very boring to teach my husband and children at home alone, if I don't go out for a walk, the whole person will not be vibrant, like entering a middle-aged life early.

Every time I take my kids out, some other mothers will say that I am full of energy, and then they will talk about how they go around the family all day, and there is no other communication. I don't think that if you have a child, you have to take the child at home, and occasionally take the child out to play, which will also promote the relationship between mother and child. I don't think it's wrong to pursue fashion after marriage, it's a woman's nature to love beauty, why should I lose my nature after marriage, the pursuit of fashion is something that everyone has.

After giving birth to a child, you should still go out to play once in a while, and you should not give up fashion when you get married, after all, in the eyes of others, the gap between you being a sister or an aunt after marriage comes out. Women, it's not that you have to give up everything when you get married and have children, don't want your own circle of friends, and give up your beauty-loving nature, I think it's completely unnecessary, you give up, it doesn't mean that you can get richer, but it makes you look old and decrepit, and you continue to keep it, at least you look young, a young and fashionable mother.

I think it depends on what you think, if you want to go to the waves, go to the waves, there is nothing you should do, the most important thing you should do is to take care of your children, because you can't abandon your identity as a mother, so you will definitely make yourself and your children better.

I think a person's life can not only be firewood, rice, oil, salt, ginger, vinegar tea, especially for women who have given birth, I think what to chase should be bold, as long as you can take care of the child, I think I will support you in whatever you do, the pursuit of fashion is everyone's right, our life is best to face life with a positive attitude.

I also saw an old grandmother in a TV show, she is very fashionable, dressed like a young girl, and she can also dance the swan dance, very powerful, I like this grandmother very much, she is not as old as the elderly, only a young heart. <>

I think it's good to pursue fashion, because you're moving with the trend, so you won't be eliminated by the times, so I think it's really undesirable for the older generation to think that they can only let their mothers take care of the children at home and nothing else, which I think is very unfair.

So I think you can go to the waves if you want to go after giving birth! But the premise is to take care of the child's safety, and not let the child become a place where you are blamed behind your back, because it is your child, and you must protect him. Otherwise, you're not qualified to pursue fashion.

So I fully support all women who have given birth to pursue fashion and even make a living from it, which is okay. Be bold, be careful, and that's enough.

Waves and fashion are different concepts, geometric fashion has become a wave, I personally think that there is a swing word behind the word wave, otherwise the word wave is not easy to explain, the pursuit of fashion after marriage should be right, but it is not appropriate to let go to the wave or swing.