Work is very confused, how to adjust? How to solve the work is very confusing

It's normal to be confused at work, and many people have situations where they are unclear about their future goals at different stages of life. But we have to find a way to adjust our personal state, because a state of confusion will make people more negative and anxious after a long time. So how to adjust, I will share a few experiences with you:

1. Find your personal positioning and goals

Think about what kind of person you want to be in the future, mortal, cow or great?

There are very few great people, so it depends on whether you want to be a mortal or a cow, if you just want to be a hard worker, and then try to do as much as possible to earn some money to make your life better, then you are mortal. If you want to become one of the top few cattle in a certain industry or field, and you are willing to sacrifice more of your time, sacrifice time with your family, and work harder than others, then you are going to become a cow.

If you have figured out what kind of person you want, then you must customize your own goals and determine your own direction, and you will not be more confused if you have goals.

The future is changing and unpredictable, and no one can predict how far they can develop in the next few years, because personal development depends on the time, place, and people. So don't think about making a 10-year, 15-year or even a generational plan, it's unrealistic.

But the short-term plan still needs to be customized, for example, if you want to become a department head, then what skills do you want to improve and what you want to do. You can do an annual plan, a monthly plan, a daily plan.

2. Do the things in front of you well

If you don't know what you want to do in the future and can't find a clear goal for yourself, then the only thing you have to do now is to do the things in front of you well.

Work hard, strive to improve your current work ability, make yourself better in the process of hard practice, and discover and learn more about yourself, so that you can better understand yourself, which plays a very important role in clarifying your goals and directions.

I'm a professional in the workplaceBrother Qingfeng

First of all, go on a trip, empty your body and mind, and understand what you really need or want; Secondly, make a life plan for yourself.

When you are confused at work, it must be that there is a problem with your whole person's state, which can no longer be summarized as just a simple work confusion, but your whole person's state is not right.

If you want to get out of this situation, you can try to go out for a walk, empty your body and mind during your travels, feel the beauty of the world, and don't think too much about work-related things. Perhaps, when you come back from your trip, you will find that your mind has become calmer and your whole person has become better.

After a trip, you may suddenly understand what you really want and what you really need. Know how you need to move forward.

You can take advantage of a good state at this time, you can make a life plan for yourself, in the life plan, list the goals you need to achieve in the future, what requirements you need to meet to achieve these goals, and set a time limit for yourself, so that you can make better use of the time you set to move towards the goal.

If you don't know what you want or need, then you don't understand the point of doing these things.

The reason why you feel lost at work is because you can't find the meaning of why you work at work, and you can't find what meaning you can bring to me after working hard, to put it bluntly, you are confused because you don't know what you are pursuing at work.

Only when a person is clear about his goals and understands the meaning of his work will he be full of enthusiasm for his work. If it's because the job isn't what you're passionate about, then you can try to do something you like, and maybe you'll find the meaning of your job, and you'll find your way through it.

Everyone will be confused at every stage, and you have to respect your heart, because you are tired of your current work and want to change jobs, but you don't know how to choose, or whether you just temporarily lose your direction.

I used to have a job, I did it for two years, and suddenly I was very tired and didn't want to do it anymore, but in addition to knowing this skill, what other work could I do, if I went out now, everything would start from scratch, and I wouldn't be able to get the current treatment of two years of work, and then I fell into this anxiety, while wanting to change jobs, and at the same time I didn't have the motivation to do my current job, so I was lost.

My solution is very simple, take a vacation, go out to travel, see the state of life, go out to travel, you can find a lot of things that you can't usually find, see a lot of people whose living standards are not as good as yours now, and even find reasons for you to simply change jobs and look for another job.

I believe that travel is a method that most people will choose, but some people will choose to talk, whether it is to find their own family, or to find someone you feel trustworthy to chat with, can let you find the direction, it is a good choice.

1. If you don't have a clear direction for yourself, you should still do things in a down-to-earth manner. When the direction is not clear, you might as well do something small, help your parents do more things, listen to their opinions, or listen to the opinions of teachers, it will be more helpful to yourself.

2. Have a plan for yourself, and you should try hard, not dream. Sitting at home thinking that I don't know what to do, thinking about it has brought myself into a realm, if you try hard, analyze the direction you are good at, maybe you will find the most boring front Tong suitable for your own job.

3. Conduct a comprehensive assessment of your own ability, and it is not good to be frank and ambitious. When the ability does not meet your own requirements, you might as well do some grassroots work in a down-to-earth manner. Although simple work does not make a lot of money, it can also allow you to learn more.

4. Don't be in a hurry. Many college graduates want to go to big cities to mingle, but they don't know that their abilities are limited, but they are still busy with this industry, and in the end, they are too anxious to suffer losses and be deceived, and they have not really learned some skills in the workplace.

5. When you are confused and have nothing to do, you can choose to do some small regret trading. How many uneducated friends can also support themselves by simply doing some small business. When you are most confused, you might as well think about learning to support yourself first, and learning to survive is important.

6. If you have worked in many professions, but none of the jobs have been completed, it means that you have not settled down to do a good job. Details determine success or failure, and even the most basic things will not be done in a down-to-earth manner, let alone talk about other things. Therefore, any kind of ordinary profession will give you a bright future.

7. When employment is very confused, you might as well go to the practical internship. After graduating, many college graduates know that they can't do anything, but they don't practice it and get in touch with this society. Learn some skills of being a person and doing things from the society first, and it will be better to hone more.

How to adjust <> mentality during the confusion period of work? How can I change the status quo of not being able to find a job? What are the specific reasons why I didn't find a job after graduation?

I don't know if you've seriously analyzed it! Either you are too demanding, and after passing the interview, you feel that the nature of the job and salary do not meet your own standards, so you will not sign the contract; Either they have been in college for 4 years, and they don't know anything after they come out, so they mix two pieces of paper for the banquet, or they may only get one, and no company is willing to ask for it. Over time, the recruitment season is missed, and it becomes more and more difficult to find a job!

I belong to the latter, this is my experience: if your family conditions are good, you can also support you at home for a period of time, during this period of time before the year, if you did not throw away the professional textbooks in school, you have good self-learning ability, you can read at home, no, you can find Sanxiang on the Internet to send you a teaching in the direction of career planning**, follow the training teacher to learn, and basically learn at least a few words with the interviewer!

If you talk about it, you may be admitted! If your family conditions are not good, now hurry up and find a person who can work, preferably in the service industry, 8 hours (not more), earn money to support yourself first, and you have to use the rest of the time to study! Wait until the spring recruitment is over and then look for a job!

Beware of arrogance and rashness, and see clearly that you have lowered your stature and expectations for your work. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and the frustration when the current work does not meet expectations. So start from scratch, start from the basics, set yourself a phased goal that suits your own situation, step by step and step by step to move forward and improve, every time you achieve a small goal, you will increase a point of confidence, and gradually increase your confidence at the same time, the work is also improving, and your own ability is constantly improving, and then you will find that your impatience is also disappearing little by little.

Oki gives himself half a year, or a year off, and then all walks of life to try it, don't think about how much money I'm going to make! Don't take yourself too far aside, either. Try not to be ashamed!

In short, study hard!

Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. Don't rush and take your time. When you are confused, you should adjust your mentality in time and stay optimistic at all times. Don't be anxious if you can't find a job, take your time in the loose shirts, there will always be a suitable Zheng Cha for you.

When you are confused at work, don't put too much pressure on yourself, you can go for a walk and adjust your mentality; If you want to change this work status, you must learn more, and you often have to improve yourself more to make yourself better, so that you will pay more attention to finding a job.

Supplement knowledge, self-charge and electricity, find some professional skills books to learn to improve your professional skills; You can also find some literary works that are noisy and noisy, and you can dabble in a wide range of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign works to improve your literary accomplishment.