Why do people always like to fantasize about things as they want them to be?

This is because this is good for yourself, and it will make you feel good psychologically, dear.

Because people always want to be beautiful, of course, they want to turn what they like into what they want, which is a normal psychology.

Because this is sustenance, it is good to take such things seriously, don't think too complicated, treat them well.

Because people have a good wish, that is, to realize their hopes, and their fantasies come true, because there is a good wish, hoping to be promoted and rich.

It is very common for people to always change things to the way they want them to be, according to their own preferences.

Hello, I think this is a very normal idea, and if you don't get it, you will fantasize about it.

People always like to fantasize about what they like to be what they want to be, because they like it.

Some people are too infatuated, and when they like someone too much, they are easy to lose themselves and can't see the status quo clearly.

Maybe it's because he likes the other party too much, so he will feel that every word the other party says has a special meaning, and he will always be a little self-inflicted, or maybe he imagines the other party too beautifully.

Don't use the word licking dog to describe people, I think it's very disrespectful to people! In love, if you are not too infatuated, you will not imagine the other party so beautiful and lose yourself.

A lover is always hurt by a ruthless person, and an amorous person will always imagine the other person to be better, even if the other party is not good to him, he will think about the other party with a tolerant and understanding attitude.

Feelings are not clear, some people are too infatuated, too stupid, that is also because of love, we are not others, so we can't stand in other people's positions to understand others, of course, don't comment on others casually, this is also the cultivation of life.

Because only then will he have the motivation to keep going.

For example, licking a dog, he doesn't necessarily really love this woman much.

Or maybe you just fell in love with the feeling of chasing.

And they paid so much for each other in the early stage.

Unwilling to give up.

To put it simply, it's to think about it, but to put it more complicatedly, it's that the mood swings are too great. This kind of person generally pays attention to others and rarely pays attention to himself, so in comparison, this kind of person is worse than ordinary people in all aspects.

If you think about it, the focus is on others, whether others eat well, whether they are tall or short, fat and thin, whether others are having a good time, whether others cry or laugh today, it's all other people's business.

Yes, this kind of person lives a special life without ego. To the end, life is a mess.

People always like to fantasize about things as they like because it makes them feel good. It is easy to feel satisfied, too. That's why they think of things as they want them to be.

Delusionism refers to having unjustified and unfounded or excessive thoughts about a thing. Causing oneself to be in a trance, severe cases should be accepted**.

Symptom. In a complicated life, sometimes people are depressed and depressed, and they want to escape, but they are inevitably overwhelmed by the cruelty of reality, and can only silently endure the pain brought by life. Such people are often too ashamed to show their hearts, afraid of being ridiculed by others, and even more afraid of being hurt.

Therefore, you can only bury the things and people you like deep in your heart. There is no effective way to liberation, and they can only fantasize in the depths of their hearts, unconsciously. I know it's wrong, but I can't control myself.

There are different explanations in psychology and the like, but most books have similar explanations for the causes.

It is a manifestation of the subconscious mind and autosuggestion.

That is, you have a strong desire for something, but it cannot be realized and happened immediately or in reality.

Then in the right hemisphere of the brain there will be an illusion of detachment from reality. Yes, it's an illusion, only you can see and hear.

This is benign and has a certain relieving effect on stress.

As for the malignant ones, they will be detached from reality. For example, most of the mentally ill exist in fantasy and have no reality.

This paragraph] is a misunderstanding.

Do you know what delusionism is?

Like fantasy and fantasy are two completely different concepts!

Maybe you're just more into fantasy.

Just like me, I like to fantasize by myself, before going to bed, or leisure, or seeing certain scenes, it will cause some associations and fantasies, which is nothing! It's not a disease!

Preventive health care.

If you set yourself the definition of fantasy for yourself, it is really possible to go further and further down this path. Because, people have psychological implications. If you tell yourself that you have a certain disease, you may not have this disease yourself, and after a long period of self-suggestion, it will also develop in a pathological direction.

So, don't rush to define yourself just yet!

Wait for a while, if it really intensifies and it has reached the time to affect your normal work and life, then go to the hospital for diagnosis.

But before, you can observe yourself for a while, you don't have to be nervous, you don't have to blame yourself. Whenever you feel that you are over-fantasizing at this time, it is also good to change your activities, or stipulate that you fantasize at a fixed time period every day and let your mind run wild. Before I go to bed, I always fantasize about things that can't happen, or things that don't happen, but it's a lot of fun if I get it right!

You are a person with a lot of imagination, bless you, as long as you can strengthen your self-control, your life will be full of variety.

Because fantasy can make people have a hope in real life, can make people look forward to the future, can make people have a goal to strive for in a boring life, and can make people have a relaxation and a dream in their hearts.